The boy in the third grade of junior high school did not expect that the netizen was his mother
My son Xiaohua is addicted to the Internet. His mother tried to persuade him many times, but Xiaohua not only refused to listen, but started not coming home often. "I had no choice but to learn how to chat on QQ, and then communicate with my son as a netizen." Zhang Ping said that after a period of online chat, her son asked her to meet...
Zhang Ping He is a civil servant, and his son Xiaohua is 16 years old and is in the third grade of junior high school.
Zhang Ping and her husband are very busy at work and rarely have time for tutoring at home. "Xiaohua's grades have always been pretty good, so we don't have to worry about it, but recently I found that his grades suddenly dropped." Zhang Ping said that it turned out that her son liked the Internet. After school, Xiaohua always hides in his room, except studying, chatting online or playing games. "When I learned that he was always surfing the Internet, I taught him a few lessons and sometimes even beat him. Instead of repenting, he got worse and stayed up all night playing."
No matter how hard Zhang Ping and her husband tried to persuade her, , Xiaohua still goes his own way. "You should also learn to chat online, and then add your son as a friend to see what he is thinking about every day." So, Zhang Ping secretly wrote down her son's QQ number as a friend after being reminded by a friend, and interacted with her as a netizen. Son communicates.
Zhang Ping applied for two QQ accounts and added her son as a friend. While silently understanding Xiaohua's psychology as a female netizen of the same age, she also used her elder brother's identity to persuade her son. "He prefers to chat with female netizens, and rarely talks about studying." Zhang Ping said that as time went by, her son asked her to meet. Zhang Ping said that despite repeated invitations from her son, she still agreed on a time and place to meet with her son.
At about 16:00 on the 13th, Xiaohua arrived at the entrance of Victory Park, the meeting place, on time. He looked around and looked at his watch. About 10 minutes passed, but he still did not see the female netizen he had made an appointment with. "When I was about to leave, I saw my mother walking towards me." Xiaohua recalled that his heartbeat accelerated at that time and he wanted to get away quickly. Unexpectedly, his mother trotted up to him and grabbed his arm.
"Mom, what, why is it you? I, I'm waiting here for my classmates to give me a book." Xiaohua said nervously, while Zhang Ping became gentle, explaining that she was pretending to be a netizen Regarding being asked to meet by Xiaohua, "Look, the Internet is so unrealistic. Could you have imagined that I would be the one chatting with you?" After hearing what her mother said, Xiaohua turned around and ran away with a shy face.
After Xiaohua and her mother returned home, she said nothing to her mother and argued with her. "Xiaohua complained that I lied to him."
Psychological counselor Zhang Zhenhuan said that children's Internet addiction is mainly caused by the surrounding environment, poor communication with parents, and children's lack of equality and respect in reality. influence, so they want to use the Internet and other channels to find a psychological balance. Xiaohua must have been surprised and frightened when she saw that the netizen was her mother. Although Zhang Ping's original intention was good, it might cause a crisis of trust in Xiaohua. It is recommended that parents communicate with their children as early as possible to eliminate misunderstandings and guide them correctly.
Chen Haining