First, what is the standard of good eloquence?
Carnegie, the master of success, once said, 15% depends on technical knowledge and 85% on eloquence. ? We all envy talented people, but what is good eloquence?
First, clarify two misunderstandings about eloquence.
First, what's the problem? Good eloquence. Many people love to talk, but everything is incoherent and endless, which causes great trouble to others and is not catchy.
Second, a good literary talent is not necessarily a good eloquence. People with good literary talent usually read a lot, but there are also many people who have goods in their stomachs but can't pour them out. What do they lack? Talk? Training and practice in this field.
Good eloquence meets the following four criteria.
Dare to speak. No matter what occasion, you can say what you want to say or what you are going to say.
Can talk. The content of the speech is not empty, the logic is clear, convincing and appealing, and it is not too big or empty.
Will listen. Will not easily interrupt others, can understand each other's speech well.
Think about it. Language is just the shell of thinking. A person with good eloquence must have the ability to think independently and deeply.
If you want to talk eloquently, you need not only enough knowledge accumulation, but also long-term and appropriate practice. It is very necessary to consciously cultivate children's eloquence from an early age.
Second, six ways to improve children's eloquence.
Eloquence is a person's ability to master language, and good eloquence is a comprehensive embodiment of various qualities. Different children express the same meaning in different ways. Sometimes a child's words can make people happy; You can also say that you hate someone. When he grows up, he can say one thing or lose one thing. With the rapid development of society today, it is extremely urgent to cultivate children's good eloquence. Good eloquence comes from practice, and good training has methods and skills. Our parents might as well cultivate their children's eloquence in the form of the most profound life experience, and stimulate their children in all directions from the aspects of pronunciation, body and language thinking. Children can be guided and trained from the following six aspects.
1. Radio station. Have time to play with children? Radio station? Game, let the children play the DJ of the radio station and the parents play the enthusiastic audience. By making phone calls, children can get more exercise opportunities and improve their language skills.
2. Encourage children to tell stories. Parents can encourage their children to tell the story again after telling it, or tell a story made up by a child himself. This can not only stimulate children's imagination, but also improve their memory and language skills.
3. Play the host. Parents can usually let their children play the host and lead them to speak or recite impassioned. Have time for children to listen more? Cadence? Reading exerts a subtle influence on children.
4. Practice using phrases and improvise. Can you play this game with your child? Hold your fists empty, cross your fists up and down, and read in circles? Gollum 1, a piece of sugar? Teach children to talk? Gollum 2, two bowls? Inspire children to say 3, 4 and 5, and form words at will to cultivate the accuracy and agility of children's thinking.
5. Let the children introduce the goods. In house games, parents can play customers and children can play salespeople, encouraging children to introduce products, such as pointing to a toy car and saying, This is a car with four wheels. It is black. It can take the whole family on a trip. Do you like it? Want to buy it? Teach children oral coherence and consolidate their understanding of the characteristics of the article.
6. tongue twister. This game can greatly promote the development of children's language and thinking. It can not only effectively exercise children's eloquence, enhance children's memory, but also cultivate children's reaction ability. But when teaching children tongue twisters, we should pay attention to the following three aspects.
① Accurate pronunciation and clear articulation. Children's lips, tongue, mouth and other functions are not fully developed, and it is easy to have uneven breathing. Parents should practice different parts in different categories and strive to promote the flexibility of different parts.
2 slow down. When children are young, we shouldn't rush into things. You know, children practice tongue twisters mainly to exercise language, memory and thinking. At first, we should slow down the speech and let the children read each syllable accurately. When every sentence is clear and coherent, we should gradually speed up the speech.
③ Diligent in practice. Parents should keep in touch with their children and stimulate their interest by correcting each other's mistakes. When children practice to a certain extent, they should practice openly to enhance their self-confidence. In addition, children should be encouraged to speak boldly in various occasions, communicate with teachers and children more, exercise their courage, comprehensively improve their ability to master the language in public speaking and one-on-one communication, and make their mouth and brain develop in harmony, enhance language logic, and be full of confidence and vitality.
Excerpted from Zhang Bing's "Now, Discover the Advantages of Children", slightly deleted.
Third, nursery rhymes improve children's eloquence.
Golden hook
Gold hook, silver hook, little finger hook, gold hook, silver hook, let's be good friends.
get up early
Rooster, crow, tell me to get up quickly, kick my legs, stretch my arms and get up early to exercise.
Collision car
Bumper cars are really naughty. He touches me, I touch you, touch it, don't get angry, bump around and laugh, and don't need the police to take care of it. What a good group of drivers.
Small driver
Tick tock, tick tock. Tick tock, tick tock. I am a small driver. Mom and dad get in the car and I'll take you to work.
Little monkey
Little monkey, climbing on the tree, taking bananas as horns, blowing and biting. I'm a little gourmet, hee hee, hahaha, my stomach swells when I eat too much, and I'm called mom, mom, and it hurts so much! God, it hurts!
Ten little pigs crossed the river.
Ten little pigs crossed the river, and one of them was a big brother. I can't count them. Please tell me why. Listen to me, big brother. You are so confused. One is missing, and the other is you.
The tortoise is looking for a friend.
Little turtle, looking for a friend, walked slowly along the river. It thinks the little monkey is too naughty and the hippo is ugly. It hates frogs croaking, crabs walking sideways, picking and choosing without friends and retreating into their shells.
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Xiaohua Mall, the little dog, meets and walks together in the street. Dogs say cats are short and cats say dogs are ugly, so it is difficult for them to become good friends. Little white duck and little white goose, sing together. You wag your tail and I shake my head and plop into the river, like a brother and a younger brother.
Chicken crossing the river
The five chickens are very happy. They lined up to cross the river and came to the river, becoming sad. The waves are big and deep. How to cross the river without swimming? Five ducklings swam to help others. They jumped into the water, stepped on the waves, sang songs and crossed the river happily.
hippopotamus
Hippo, hippo, I like to talk big: my mouth is square and big. Lions and tigers can be swallowed in one gulp. A crocodile and a turtle can't grind their teeth ...? Blow to the end, can't talk, guess why? The crocodile came and scared the hippo's mouth wide open.
Rocking boat
Shake it, shake it to Waipo Bridge, and grandma praises me for my good baby, a bag of sugar, a bag of fruit, cakes, cakes.
Chicken family
Father rooster shouted to wake the sun to go to work. The hen loves beauty and is busy dressing up in front of the mirror. Baby chicken is really naughty, chasing bugs and playing games. The chicken family is so happy, oh, oh, cooing and twittering.
Mosquito is a doctor.
When mosquitoes are doctors, they go out for injections, what kind of injections and harmful injections. Give it a slap and make it a doctor.
boat
Curved moon, boat, two-pointed boat. I sat in a boat and saw only the twinkling stars and the blue sky.
Bean sprouts talk big
Bean sprouts, flat mouth, lying in the basin boasting. My neck is thin and long, which is not bad compared with swans. My mouth is shining with golden light, which is better than Donald Duck. When I grow big wings and fly to the sea to settle down.
pit-saw
Big saw, big saw, grandma's house, singing opera, picking up my daughter, inviting my son-in-law, and my little grandson will also go.
Bibeiwei
Whose tail is long? Whose tail is short? Whose tail is like an umbrella? The monkey's tail is long, the rabbit's tail is short and the squirrel's tail is like an umbrella. Whose tail is bent? Whose tail is flat? Whose tail is the most beautiful? The cock's tail is curved, the duck's tail is flat and the peacock's tail is the most beautiful.
What bend
What bends in the horizon and the moon bends in the horizon; What bends at the water's edge and the boat bends at the water's edge; What bow, comb bow; What bends in front of your eyes and your eyebrows bend in front of your eyes.
Grandma on the moon
Grandma Yue, hanging in the sky, smiling at me, not talking, and moon cakes and fragrant tea. How far are you from here, Grandma Yue, round face. Is there a way to your home? Just smiling and not talking. Grandma Yue, would you please come down? When I grow up in the future, please come to my house for the holidays! Take the rocket to your house. Apples, pears, peaches, everything, vegetables, melons, big red flowers everywhere.
Song of the zodiac
The little mouse ranks first, not big. The old cow is second, the tiger is third, and the rabbit is fourth. Dragon fifth, snake Liupanshui, horse seventh. Sheep eighth, monkeys ninth, rooster tenth. The puppy barked eleven times, and the old pig finally came to report. Think about it, children. What kind do you belong to? Mom and dad tell you.
I love my mother
I love my mother, my mother loves me, my mother teaches me to draw, I sing to my mother, I love my mother, my mother loves me, and my mother expects me to grow up and build the motherland.
sea
The sea, the sea, turn over, turn over, turn over, turn over, the sea, a boat full of fish and shrimp, like a cradle, turn over, the sun and the moon, small white sails, sleep in it.
spring rain
Rumble, who is so naughty, the heavy knock on the door makes the grass stick its head out of the mud; Scared floret, face suddenly red; The little animal in the dream was too noisy and reluctantly opened his eyes again. Oh! It turns out that spring thunder is knocking on the door of spring.