A model letter from a single father to his children 1
Dear daughter:
When I wrote these lines, I looked at your delicate little face like a flower, and waves of pain poured into my broken heart. Daughter, from now on, our father and daughter will face the storms of life together. Dad should try his best to support a sky of love for you, so that your life is less bumpy and more warm. Your little body is too heavy, but dad will always hold you or hold your little hand and walk forward, no matter what is on the road ahead. Daughter, you are unfortunate. Your mother abandoned you emotionally before you 15 months old, but you are lucky. You have grandparents who love you very much, and some even love you very much. They hold you in their hands as a darling, even though your mother left you because your grandparents disliked you and gave birth to you, a girl. But you still have a good father, who works harder for you than before, in order to make money and ensure life. Have a support for your future.
Daughter, do you know what is the most painful time for dad? Not to mention that dad is not so good to mom, she shouldn't be like this. Just say that you are so young and lovely, how can she be so cruel and heartless? Where is her conscience and sense of responsibility? At that time, my father secretly vowed: I will do my best to make you, Xin Yanyan, my baby daughter, safe and happy all your life! Let you live happier than having a mother, let you not feel that you are living in a single-parent family, and let your future sky only have white clouds, blue sky and sunshine!
Daughter, dad wants to thank you. To tell the truth, dad is not a particularly strong person, but since you are the only one left in dad's life, dad has changed, and his understanding of many things has also changed. Thank you for making dad stronger, for making dad more focused, for letting dad know about life, and for letting dad know what life is. Thank you, daughter. Without you, dad wouldn't work so hard to deal with the unknown. Dad's future may be very difficult, but as long as your little hand holds Dad's big hand, Dad will hold his head high and stand with you to the end of his life.
Letter from a single father to his children 2
Dear people:
Hello.
20xx. 1 1.7, dad took your first photo when you were born. Today, it will be your tenth birthday in six days. In the past ten years, Dad has taken 10,000 photos of you and thousands of photos of the dishes that Dad cooked for you with his own cooking. Dad uses these photos to record your life.
Your mother, when you were over one year old, left our father and son to pursue her own career. From this moment on, I have been telling you that everyone has their own day. Let's bless her together. I hope she can live the life they yearn for and achieve the career they pursue with the people she loves. Anyway, she is your mother, and she loves you. No matter where she is, don't forget, you should always be in your heart. As for children, from this moment on, your fate is destined to be a child who grew up without his mother. Well, you are young, but you are also a man. Surely you can face the hardships in life bravely. Being with your father, your father stopped his selfless work and chose to enjoy being with you until the day when you can stand up and grow up.
In the past ten years, my father has only tried his best to raise you, and there is no resentment. Just like father bird catches worms and feeds bird BB every day, he has planted every melon and vegetable, raised every bite of chicken and fish and nurtured you. Day after day, you are growing, week after week, month after month, year after year, measuring your height and weighing yourself. I recorded the weekly conversations between my father and my teacher about your daily situation and performance in kindergarten and at home. I enjoy every lovely smile, every painful expression and the family happiness you bring to my father every day. I feel happy and satisfied. Thank you for everything you have brought to my father. Thank you, my child.
For ten years, you have no mother to support you. Fortunately, you were not hurt and misled by the song "Only a mother is good in the world". Every time I hear this song, my father will hug you from a distance, and every word of it will stab you in the heart like a knife. How much my father loves you. He always says in your ear that with my father, your mother loves you very much, and you are my mother's baby. It's a good thing you're here and grown up. You know, it's not just mom. You know, mom is good, dad is good, teachers are good, classmates are good, uncles are good, aunts are good, neighbors are good, friends are good, and people who are by your side, accompanying you and watching you grow up are good. They also know that a child with a mother is a treasure, only a child with a mother is a treasure, and only a child with a father is a treasure. Happiness is to rely on yourself, leave your mother's arms, and rely on your own efforts to find happiness in the arms of society.
Today, you will be ten years old. You're great. You are an excellent boy. Dad is proud of you. Let's continue to cheer together, enjoy the happiness of life and bear the hardships of growing up together. Thank you, my child. Dad loves you.
Happy birthday to you,
Good health!
Your father
20xx. 10.3 1。
A model letter from a single father to his children 3
Dear child:
Although dad doesn't know when you can read this letter. But dad has no other way to express how much an incompetent dad misses you on this silent night. Although I can't live with your mother because of my father's insistence. But dad is really exhausted, deeply aware of this family, afraid that dad doesn't know when it will collapse. My dear child! Eight years ago, my father met the only woman I love most in my life, and we finally came together after too many ups and downs. This is your mother, the woman I love and hate most in my life. When you were born, we were very happy and gave you everything we could. Do you remember dad clumsily holding your soft little body? Remember when dad got up in the middle of the night and made you two cups of milk powder? Looking at this warm little home, my father secretly vowed to earn more money and let you and your mother live a happy life. Let you have the greatest fatherly love and maternal love in the world. Because my father lived in an unfortunate family since childhood, the ups and downs of which will only be known if my father has experienced it personally. I don't want you to repeat the path your father took. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Dad is a poor man, but he has an enterprising heart. His childhood dream was to have a rich family. He has struggled for this for more than ten years and really cherishes it. But all this was ruthlessly destroyed in an instant, so suddenly, impossible to prevent! My dear child! When you were three or four years old, your mother became friends with others, which made you unable to have maternal love, lost the kindness of your family and lost the life of a normal child, because you were a left-behind child in a single-parent family from then on.
Please don't hate me if you know what dad did wrong in the future. Dad hates himself ... hates that he can't grow up with you every day ... hates that he can't watch you go to school every day ... hates that he gave you life ... I really hope that you will never grow up. Because I am afraid that when you grow up, you will know that you are a child of a single-parent family ... and put a knife in your tender heart ... but we are all ordinary people ... We must grow up ... Son, you must be good when you grow up. Great happiness ... don't despise everything because of lack of maternal love ... It doesn't matter ... I really want to hear you say, "Dad, I know: life is short, please cherish it!" " What a happy thing it is! But it's impossible. I don't know if you will hate me when you grow up. Will you leave me? Even if you hate me, I won't blame you. Because in any case, I have tried, and I can't help it ... but my strength alone is not enough ... After all, a happy family can't be maintained by me alone ... It needs two people to maintain it ... Maybe it is a mistake to be with your mother. Learn not to cry when you grow up. Don't take something to heart. Have a good life. Don't let sadness stay in your later life. Dad wants you to live, study and be a strong person. ..
Your mother also has children belonging to them with others .. Maybe dad will bring you a new mother soon. Your mother and I will live our own lives. We have children of our own. But don't be afraid. You will always be dad's children. Dad won't leave you. In fact, life is very realistic. I won't speak ill of your mother here. It's over. I won't mention your mother and me again. You are the one who is most sorry for the breakup of our marriage. In fact, we are all too young ... we can still do it now. Do you miss me? Dad regrets not giving you a complete home. But dad wants to say sorry to you. I hope you can forgive your father and understand his difficulties when you grow up. I tried. I've always wanted your mother to understand what dad did, even though he didn't make money. Maybe we are too young and impulsive. Actually, I still think of your mother occasionally. But the love I can't keep is wrong, and my father won't look back. She has made too many mistakes ... she has forgotten me. I'm not in her life. What I can't let go of now is you ... My child forgave my father's weakness ... forgave him for what he did ... forgave him for trying his best. Dad is ready. When she promised her father that she would get married, if you hate him in the future, he will leave you this letter. In fact, all this is just to let you know, remember, you have a father who loves you forever! It's late at night ... it's cold, and my father's heart is colder. I miss you so much! Maybe now you are sleeping in the arms of your grandparents, but dad is alone in the corner of the workshop, expressing deep and endless thoughts about you. ......
Love your father.
20xx.07.0 1
A model letter from a single father to his children 4
Children:
Every time I think of you, I have mixed feelings. On the one hand, you are my daughter, and the affection of blood is thicker than water makes me unforgettable; On the other hand, you are in a critical period of physical development and knowledge, which always makes me uneasy and nervous!
Usually, the mother is always better than the father in life and the cultivation of girl temperament, while the father is better than the mother in the education and the shaping of tough character in the process of child growth, and the two complement each other. Unfortunately, you have been living in a single-parent family since you were 6 years old: with your mother. This makes you objectively bear the misfortune and injustice caused by family breakdown. Although dad comes to see you every once in a while to learn about your health and study in recent days and give targeted guidance or make up for it, it is only a drop in the bucket after all. Helpless, I am willing, but I am powerless! Every time I think about it, I'm worried. It is based on this consideration that I decided to write this long letter to make up for it, hoping to bring some useful help to your growth. It's for hope!
It is said that children are parents' mirrors, so dad wants to see more beautiful things from this "mirror". In fact, you have many bright spots: you are diligent, good at using your brain and not afraid of hard mental work; You have a good memory and can recite large paragraphs of poems easily, which was well shown when you were in kindergarten. You are sincere, generous and friendly, and you can live in harmony with most people. These are your advantages. But today, my father wants to give you another message. There is a saying that "knowing a woman as a father". I will spare no effort to guide you to grow better through the analysis of your other side. This is undoubtedly more important and useful for you, and you can also take this opportunity to knock on your proud tail.
First of all, from the first grade to now, your grades in all courses seem to be excellent, so that you can always be complacent and have no shame. But I know that your grades in all subjects are not really "excellent" except Chinese, because at present, in order to take care of children's self-esteem and benefit your healthy growth, schools generally only mark excellent, not mark scores and rankings, which is undoubtedly correct and also to protect your mental health. But this makes you "muddle through" and owe "excellent" classmates? Integrate into a truly "excellent" team. For example, you are careless in writing in Chinese class. Every word stretches your hands and feet, like a ghost symbol. It seems that you should strengthen the study of various courses, especially the main courses such as mathematics. I think there should be no problem with your understanding. The key is not to be full of the status quo, so that the lack of "Excellence" becomes real "Excellence" and full of "Excellence".
Internet and TV are easy to make primary school students addicted. I suggest that you turn the screen of computer and TV outward in order to get supervision and help from adults. In addition, we should deal with the primary and secondary relationship between homework study, physical exercise and leisure and entertainment;
Second, strive to cultivate a bold and lively character. Personality is the key to success in adulthood. "Character is fate" is as important as learning cultural skills. Good character is not innate, and the cultivation and shaping of the day after tomorrow often plays a vital role: a timid scholar in history can become a brave general after the baptism of war; A young man who is not good at rhetoric can become an eloquent diplomat after being honed by the diplomatic situation. There are countless such examples. Every child has strong plasticity, so everything can be changed. The key is to grind it more.
People have different personalities: tolerance and narrowness, gentleness and anxiety, shrewdness and sensitivity, liveliness and introversion. As far as you are concerned, as long as you actively contact with teachers, actively communicate and play with classmates, and don't care what others say, after a long time, a good character will naturally follow. Your annual travel, swimming, visiting friends and other outdoor activities are the cradle of your extroverted personality. Fortunately, under the careful care of your mother and school teachers, you have developed beneficial activities such as taking the initiative to speak in class and actively participating in literary rehearsals after class. This is a good start and a sign of your progress. I believe you will do better.
Third, some people may say that children from single-parent families are weak, but I don't think so. How many people have come out of this family and become strong-willed Former US President Bill Clinton is an outstanding representative of the tenacity and success of female singer Sun Yue. Therefore, the key is how to "create an environment conducive to the healthy growth of children". Fortunately, you have a strong mother who always shows you her confident and strong side. No matter how many setbacks she encounters in life, she will not show any weakness and injustice in front of you, let alone release tears in front of you. Because she loves you! Under her example, over time, you will be moved and gradually influenced, and a persevering, persistent and never-ending you will be established.
Every time I meet you, my father always tells you the characters of sheep and wolves in the form of stories, about great men going to Maicheng, and about the tenacious struggle of female scientists and prime ministers. These stories told since childhood are to cultivate your perseverance and perseverance. You should understand and implement them carefully.
Fourth, increase appetite and pay more attention to your health. Childhood is a critical period for the rapid development of the body. Good dietary nutrition is particularly important for your growth, but you often find fault with your food only by taste. How can what people eat become inedible in your mouth? This is totally unreasonable and a very bad eating habit. I hope you can really change it. Remember!
On the contrary, cold drinks and fried foods should be eaten as little as possible, and it is best not to eat them. Also nagging: drink more water every day, because people's life activities can not be separated from the moisture of boiling water;
Fifth, strengthen physical exercise. Although there is no disease in all parts of your body, it is absolutely unreasonable to weigh only 25 kilograms at the age of ten. Often getting sick and eating less is actually directly related to your lack of exercise. You should know that a strong body is formed through exercise. Staying indoors watching TV and sleeping late for a long time will only make the already thin body worse. Besides, the hobby of sports can also be cultivated gradually. The sports equipment provided to you at home may as well take turns to play. Reasonable daily exercise (especially brisk walking or running and jumping) will bring you many benefits such as brain, body, personality and appetite.
Sixth, as you get older, you should start to learn to do some housework and learn some basic life skills, such as riding, shopping and visiting friends. With the enhancement of self-reliance ability, we should also cultivate our sense of independence and avoid laziness, so as to truly get out of the "psychological weaning period" and better adapt to society. Then learn to care for each other, cooperate with each other and help each other, and understand that "win-win" is the wisdom of life. These principles of being a man and doing things should be consciously studied and gradually realized now. It is as important as your cultural study, but it needs more attention and accumulation in your daily life, and flexible use will certainly benefit a lot.
You should also remember that life will bring happiness and pain, which is a common thing in life and should be treated correctly. You know, failure itself is not terrible, what is terrible is discouragement after failure. "Failure with grace" is a very important psychological quality for a person who wants to achieve great things.
Seventh, with the advent of adolescence, the bodies of both boys and girls will undergo earth-shaking changes. Generally, boys 14 years old, girls 12 years old, enter puberty. The teacher at school will teach you about health. Don't be nervous. You can also learn some knowledge from the reference books issued or designated by the school in order to deal with it correctly. With the awakening of sex, boys and girls will have the feeling of admiring the opposite sex. As long as it is properly grasped, normal communication between boys and girls is allowed, so there is no need to make a fuss. But don't fall in love too early. Puppy love will make people want to fall in love and seriously interfere with their studies and growth. Some unhealthy TV, internet and extracurricular reading materials are always around us, so you should have the perseverance to quit.
Generally speaking, boys and girls have better communication in public activities, and frequent separate communication with the opposite sex is not conducive to the shaping of gender characteristics, and it is easy to go astray, which has nothing to do with feudal thought: in western developed countries, there are special "ladies" and "men" education classes, just to shape different gender characteristics of boys and girls from an early age. Our country started late, but you can often associate with girls from quality-oriented families, learn and imitate elegant female teachers and presenters on TV. In fact, your girlish temperament is already very good. It would be better if you brought them out with a smile.
There is still a lot to write. Limited by space, I can't go into details one by one, but dad has already covered it in your usual communication. You'd better remember and do something.
Son, as you grow up, you will eventually leave school and go to work. Your parents will eventually get old, and you can't stay with you forever. In the near future, independence will become your reality. Soon you will sail alone and integrate into the unpredictable ocean of society. Can you control this ship of life? ! I hope you can grow up soon. Dad is looking forward to that day.
I wish you a healthy growth!
father
20xx August 4th
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