If you want to live a rational life, please be closer to thinking.
If you want to live gracefully, please be closer to culture.
If you want to live vividly, please be closer to art.
If you want to live a free and easy life, please be closer to tolerance.
If you want to live in depth, please get closer to wisdom.
If you want to live a rich life, please be closer to knowledge.
If you want to live a simple life, please stay close to confusion.
If you want to live with confidence, please be closer to your ability.
If you want to live happily, please be closer to your efforts.
If you want to live with peace of mind, please be closer to your conscience.
If you want to live a soft life, please be closer to your feelings.
If you want to live a strong life, please be closer to your responsibilities.
If you want to live a warm life, please be friendly.
If you want to live a noble life, please be closer to respect.
Don't love you, tears won't be so disappointing when you look back;
If I don't love you with my heart, the beautiful fireworks will be dim without you;
If I don't have to love you, loneliness won't haunt me every time I am alone;
If I don't love you with my heart, why can't I erase your figure?
If I don't love you, I won't write your name all over the paper;
If I don't love you with my heart, why should I leave my blessing to you?
If I don't love you, I won't stare at your photo until dawn;
If I don't love you with my heart, how can I relive the footprints we have traveled together?
I was listening to the rain last night.
If I don't love you with my heart, why is your face always so clear?
If you have never loved you, why write these words here and why write your name on your heart;
If I never loved you, why did I give you all my care?
If I never loved you, why did I cry for you until dawn?
If I have never loved you, why do I always think of your smile?
Tell me this mystery, just want to know why there was that separation;
I have gone far, with heavy debts and pain, tired and desolate;
If I have never loved you, how can I believe that the lies you told me are true?
If I hadn't loved you, I wouldn't lie quietly in bed at night and say how much I miss you;
If I have never loved you, I will never forgive you silently in my heart;
If I hadn't loved you, I wouldn't have heard the stinging music. Close your eyes.
If I hadn't loved you, I wouldn't know that the pain of charm was always in my heart. ......
If you have a 3 1 perception of life, life is beautiful because you have parents.
Look, what is that? Parents are calling for their little son. The son gently ran to his parents and tugged at their skirts. The father looked pale with his son in his arms.
The son's little hand patted, and the father's big hand gently clenched the mother's hand. All the three of them left good memories on the way together.
Birds fly in the sky, fish swim in the water, and everything is so beautiful. The husband is proud of his wife and son; The wife is gentle and solemn, because she has her husband's heroic mind and obedient children; Children are vivid and beautiful because they have a beautiful family.
A landscape painting stands by the river, which is a beautiful scenery for parents and children. When your parents are old, please remember the beautiful scenery when you were young.
2. Life is sunny because of true feelings.
You see, children who block roads come out to deceive people at an early age. They are all talking about the child. There is a caption on the ground: "For various reasons ..." A passerby came in, read the caption and gave the child 300 yuan. The child tugged at the trouser legs of passers-by excitedly. Passers-by turned to look at the child and picked him up from the ground. Son, I believe you are not a liar. People around you throw strange lights at passers-by. What kind of lamp is it? Maybe telling him, "This kid is a liar!" "
Dozens of days later, passerby A received 600 yuan, which was given by a child. I believe that there is true feelings in the world, so people imagine the world so beautiful. The bright sunshine shines on the earth, the flowers in spring wave to you, and the saplings on the roadside smile at you. Helping others equals helping yourself. May the world be full of beauty, and don't forget the people who helped you, because that is a debt you will never forget.
3. Life is unforgettable because of feelings.
"Let's break up!" The girl said.
"Why!" The boy said.
"Don't ask too many questions, I don't want to ask," said the girl.
The boy felt that the sky was slowly falling, everything around him was no longer so dazzling, the flowers had withered, and the leaves had fallen quietly. The boy looked at the distant girl with tears in his eyes.
Decades have passed, and boys and girls meet. They hugged each other and cried, because they never let go of each other, so they got married and divorced, and they didn't think of looking for each other until they were old.
Boys, please cherish the girl who is kind to you, because no one in this world will treat you like this again, even if she occasionally makes mistakes, even if she occasionally goes too far. Please remember that this is her coquetry to you, because no girl will treat you like this again.
Girl, please cherish the boy who is kind to you, because no one in the world will do this to you again, with a warm heart. That's to accommodate your occasional mistakes and broad mind. That's where you lie when you cry. The world is so vast, he will only open it to you, because he only has you in his heart.
Cherish the boy (girl) around you, because he (she) has naturalized you into his own life. Whoever is gone in the world will still live, but he (she) still has you, so life is so brilliant.
Remember the promise you made when he (she) accompanied you through the most difficult days.
4. Life is dazzling because of forgiveness.
"How could you do that?" The boss told the employee that the employee didn't look up and he was listening to what the boss said.
One day passed, and the boss didn't come up and say a word to the employees.
When he came the next day, the boss went to the employee and said, "Come on, this should be like this and that should be like that." The boss said with a smile as if nothing had happened yesterday. The employee bowed his head and answered, and the boss said he was leaving soon, then turned around. "By the way, if you stay for dinner, I'll ask your brother to cook you an egg." "I will eat outside when I come back!" The employee replied. The boss went to find the employees. "I told your brother to cook, so you can stay for dinner." Ok, let's change it. Yesterday's ... "When the boss left, the employees shed tears of excitement.
Cherish all the people around you, because those people have given you a helping hand, even if he has been bad to you, even if he is bad again, even if he … please cherish him, because he lets you know that there is love and hate in this world.
The true feelings in the world depend on whether you really understand life. Please be grateful to the world, because it is he who gives you a space to show yourself.
If you are the only one for me forever, please give me 100% security and trust!
If you are the person I will always be, I hope you can take me seriously and don't let me get any harm, especially the harm you have brought me is more serious than anyone else!
If you are the person I will always be, you must promise to show 100% sincerity to me!
If you are the person I will always be, I hope you can be the first person to say good morning to me every day. Even if no one talks to me except you all day, I won't feel lonely with you!
If you are the person I will always be, I hope you can only say good night to me and "Ann" to others every day!
If you are the person I will always be, I hope you can watch me fall asleep every day and then sleep peacefully!
If you are my forever him, I hope you will never be reluctant to turn off my video and hang up my phone!
If you are my forever him, I hope you can take care of me when I am sick!
If you are the only one for me forever, I hope you can stay with me when I am lonely and helpless!
If you are the person I will always be, I hope you will never be reluctant to shed tears and hold me tightly when I cry!
If you are my forever him, I hope you can clearly tell me your relationship with every other girl! Don't do anything against our feelings behind my back!
If you are the person I will always be, I hope you can learn how to coax me and pity me. Life will bring me more care and touch, and let me really feel your love for me!
If you are the person I will always be, I hope you can always pamper me and tolerate me!
If you are the person I will always be, please don't be angry with me, don't scold me, and don't be mean to me!
If you are the person I will always be, you don't have to be handsome, as long as I like it, then you are the most handsome in my eyes, more handsome than anyone else!
If you are the person I will always be, I hope you can see more of my kindness to you and feel more of my love and concern for you.
If you are the person I will always be, you don't have to be very rich, but at least I don't have to worry about whether you have no money to spend or not.
If you are the person I will always be, please be self-motivated, filial and responsible, and you will always be responsible for me and our family!
If you are the person I will always be, please treat my friends equally, and don't favor that person just because he looks good!
If you are my eternal him, you don't have to accompany me 24 hours a day, but you should accompany me for at least a short time every day. I'll give you information when I miss you, and you can reply immediately. If there is anything that makes me misunderstand you, you can give me a reasonable explanation!
If you are my forever him, please indulge me to do some "excessive" things, but the starting point of those things is just because I care about you and don't want to lose you!
If you are the person I will always be, please first of all, you must empty your whole heart and leave me alone! No matter how unforgettable or casual past we have with each other, you must promise to be honest with each other from the beginning, which may make us jealous and unhappy, but we can get to know each other better!
If you are the only one for me forever, please don't give up on me anyway. Never give up even if you quarrel. There will be thousands of reasons to fall in love with each other again, let the future continue and let each other know more about love!
If you have a good understanding of life, 5 hey ~ let's play an irresponsible game.
Remember after the second call with you.
You ask me this sentence
I didn't feel anything when I first met you. I'm just a person I can get along with in the future.
When you first met me, you thought I was a very nice person.
I heard the word "dog" used for the first time.
To describe yourself.
The first time I had tea, the conversation was not bad.
I just don't understand why you suddenly said you wanted to go home after it was over.
Do you want me to talk to you in the park?
A short message asked me if I could call.
can
Got your call.
Then I received the question you gave me.
Behind your girlfriend's back.
Find a game that people who have boyfriends and girlfriends are playing.
Unfortunately, I can't afford to play.
But I played you.
More or less revenge.
You should take some responsibility for this attitude.
Although I will think of your footprints somewhere.
But that's just a corner.
An inconspicuous contact point
I also paid a memory that I shouldn't have paid for this paragraph.
How are you doing?
Or continue to ask people around you.
Do you want to play an irresponsible game?
If Xiao Zhang is Xiao Wang's girlfriend, they often have conflicts over money. Finally, one day, Xiao Zhang and Xiao Wang had a big fight, when they were about to get married.
Xiao Wang slammed the door and left. Xiao Zhang's last words to Xiao Wang were: "If it's a man, don't knock on this door again!" "
Angry Xiao Wang decided never to visit Xiao Zhang again, but after thinking about it, he decided to apologize to Xiao Zhang. However, when he reached the door of his girlfriend's dormitory, he hesitated, thought for a long time, and rang the doorbell. But the door didn't open, and Xiao Wang knew that Xiao Zhang was hiding in the house. He rang the doorbell for the second time, but still didn't see Xiao Zhang open the door. Xiao Wang decided to knock on the door for the third time. If Xiao Zhang doesn't open the door, he will stay away completely. Xiao Wang rang the doorbell for the third time, but the door still didn't open. Xiao Wang left sadly and never came back.
Many years passed, and when we met again, Xiao Wang was already her husband and Xiao Zhang was married. However, both sides still remember the scene of that year. Xiao Wang asked Xiao Zhang, "I rang the doorbell three times. Why didn't you open the door?"
Xiao Zhang said, "I haven't decided to forgive you after hearing the first doorbell." I was just about to forgive you when I heard the second doorbell ring. When I heard the third doorbell, I went to the door and waited for you to ring the fourth doorbell. At that time, I thought that if you rang the doorbell for the fourth time, I would forgive you completely. However, I didn't expect you to give up like this. "
Xiao Wang said to Xiao Zhang, "If I ring the doorbell for the fourth time, will you really forgive me?" If you forgive me, shall we get married now? If ... "
There is no room for ifs in life. Love is the same, why not cherish it if you have it? And then wait until you lose it to fantasize about the impossible? Why don't you insist on doing things, but give up easily, make it a lifelong regret, and finally you can only imagine beautiful things with ifs.
If you are aware of your life, a river flows quietly in the mountains in the morning.
There is a fly flying on the river, only a few centimeters away from it. There is a small fish under the water. It thinks that if the fly flies down two centimeters, I can jump up and eat it. There is a bear lurking on the shore. It thinks that if the fly flies down two centimeters, the small fish will jump up and eat it, so I can rush over and have a good meal. By the river, a hunter hid in the tall grass. He watched the scene quietly, thinking that if the fly dropped two centimeters, the fish would jump up and eat it, the bear would run to catch the fish, and I could kill the bear with one shot.
There is a mouse in a hole on the shore. It thinks that if the fly drops two centimeters, the fish will jump up and eat it, the bear will run to catch the fish, the hunter will stand up and shoot the bear, and I will have enough time to take the cheese from his bag. At this moment, a cat is squatting in a nearby tree. The cat thinks that if the fly drops two centimeters, the fish will jump up and eat it, the bear will run to catch the fish, the hunter will come out to kill the bear, and the mouse will come out to steal the cheese, so that I can catch the mouse quickly.
Everyone is very happy and full of expectations. Suddenly, the fly dropped by two centimeters, and they immediately acted as planned: the fish jumped up and ate the fly, the bear rushed out and swallowed the fish, and the hunter stood up and shot at the bear. However, a gunshot broke all the silence. The mouse was frightened by the gunfire and forgot the cheese, and the cat suddenly lost its balance and fell from the tree.
When we focus on the temptation of life and make a perfect plan in our hearts, we often forget a series of panic caused by a "gunshot".
If I can be the moon, I will never compete with the sun during the day. If I could be a star, I would rather be with the night, so that I can be safe.
I still remember that time, that day, when I was a freshman, I participated in the school performance for the first time, put on makeup for the first time, and prepared for the first time alone under the stage for a long time. Countless firsts ... I have been looking forward to this performance for a long time, and with full joy, this beautiful day came as scheduled.
Scenes of performance, pictures, deeply imprinted in my heart, and gradually it was our turn to play. When I was about to enter the stadium, I suddenly found that there was one more person in the original harmonious team. In fact, this has nothing to do with me, because it is always arranged by others, and the number of people who need to be configured on the stage is also determined by them. Finally, I chose to leave, leaving silently.
Sometimes participation is courage, and sometimes redundancy will only be imperfect!
Everyone likes perfection, so do I. Everyone doesn't want to leave any defects, and I feel the same way. Although this is my first time on stage; Although this is the first time I have worked so hard to do something; Although I have made a lot of efforts than others under the stage; Although I have always believed that no one is more suitable for that position on the stage than me. But when these conflict with choice and commitment, I choose perfection. Some things are indisputable; Some things need someone to fulfill; Some things need someone to pay.
Finally, I returned to the stage. I left some perfect photos for the first time, and then turned away silently. I don't think anyone found out who left from beginning to end. I think everyone thought it was a perfect ending that day! Days have blurred my eyes, just like my mood. That night, nobody understood my feelings. When everyone was celebrating on the stage, I was outside alone. That night, no one knew how long I had been drinking; That night, no one cared more about how much I drank!
The next morning, when the first ray of sunshine shone into my room, I found that today's sky was exceptionally blue, today's clouds were exceptionally light, and today's air was exceptionally fresh. I know myself best, otherwise, I wouldn't choose to leave.
Suddenly, I seem to have learned something, but I don't seem to understand it.
Every time, always in the most dazzling time, I chose the stage, perhaps because of my love for the group, perhaps because of the glory of the group, perhaps because of my helplessness as a supporting role. The most beautiful time is always reserved for others, and myself, I am willing to choose to stand behind the stage, a forgotten corner; At the most magical time, I am always willing to dedicate my youth to irrelevant people, and I am always struggling in the remaining spring and autumn; When I am most lonely, I always choose to walk away and always come out to share with others at the most gorgeous moment; Always retired in the most lonely time, living alone in the rivers and lakes.
Ups and downs in the sea of life, always looking for something, looking for inner belonging, looking for a dream journey. Ups and downs in the sea of red dust and waves, always forget something, forget those that are not remembered, forget those that I think I remember. When I am happy, I always forget that I am alone. When I am sad, I still remember that I am alone.
Some glories need to be shared, some fall without time, and some bear without concealment. Although there is no gorgeous ending, although there is no perfect turn, although no one knows everything, I know that my heart is clearer than anyone, understands better than anyone, and comforts myself better than anyone. It knows what I want and what I don't want, and she knows what I should and shouldn't do.
I think for so many years, perhaps this belief has supported me and survived countless years.
If every life needs a supporting role to be perfect, I would rather have so many shortcomings in this life; If every fireworks is set in the night, it will be particularly dazzling, then I would rather shine in the dark. I'm afraid the lone star is lonely, but I'm afraid it's insignificant.
Sometimes, it is not a good thing to retreat and give in blindly, it will slowly kill our enterprising spirit. I'm human too. If I can choose, I want to be the protagonist next time.
If your life perception 9 if you grow up in an ordinary family;
If your parents are still alive; Whether you live with them or not;
If one day, you find that your mother's kitchen is no longer as clean as before;
If one day, you find that the dishes at home don't seem to be cleaned;
If one day, you find that your mother's pot is no longer on;
If one day, you find that your father's flowers and trees are gradually abandoned;
If one day, you find that the cupboard at home is often full of dust;
If one day, you find that the dishes cooked by your mother are too salty and not delicious;
If one day, you find that your parents often forget to turn off the gas;
If one day, you find that some habits of mom and dad are no longer habits ..., just like when they no longer want to take a bath every day. ...
If one day, you find that your parents no longer like to eat crispy fruits and vegetables;
If one day, you find that your parents love to eat rotten vegetables;
If one day, you find that your parents like to eat porridge;
If one day, you find that their reaction to crossing the road is slow;
If one day, you find that they always cough when eating, don't mistake it for a cold or a cold (that is the phenomenon of swallowing nerve aging);
If one day, you find that they no longer love to go out …
I want to tell you, you should be alert, your parents are really old, and their organs have degenerated to the point where others need to take care of them. If you can't take care of them, please find someone to take care of them and visit them often, so as not to make them feel abandoned.
Everyone will be old, and our parents are older than us. We should take care of them with the mood of role exchange, so that we can be patient and not complain. Parents should be alert for their children when they can't take care of themselves in life. They may be incontinent and can't do many things well. If the room smells, they may not smell it themselves. Please don't think he is dirty or disrespectful. Children can only help him clean up and maintain his self-esteem.
When they no longer like bathing, please take time to help them wash their bodies regularly, because even if they wash themselves, they may not be clean. When we are enjoying food, please prepare a small bowl of suitable size and easy to chew for them, because they don't like it, maybe their teeth can't bite.
Since we were born, we have been breastfeeding and changing diapers, taking care of patients, teaching us the basic skills of life, providing reading, eating, drinking and counseling, and always caring and acting.
If one day, they really can't move, isn't it necessary to exchange roles? Children should remember that looking after their parents means looking at their future, and filial piety should be timely.
If one day, you are as old as them, what do you want to do?
Now, are you a single parasite or a married double or multiple parasite? Have you ever noticed your parents? Please care and pay attention to their aging process, and don't forget to spend more time with your parents ... and care more about them.
If my life experience is 10, an old lady, two daughters and a son, whose wife died a few years ago, bought a building for her son with her life savings. A few years later, she finally lost the battle with her daughter-in-law for many years and was forced to move to her little daughter's house. The youngest daughter's family was embarrassed, and the family of three rented a small and messy room (a room in the house). The son and eldest daughter give 300 yuan a month, and the younger daughter is responsible for taking care of it. The old lady rented another room next to her little daughter, and finally rented a simple two-bedroom apartment. The old lady and her 14 year old grandson, a little daughter and a son-in-law.
The old lady always talks about the bitterness of the past 60 years, complaining that her wife bought a house for her son with all her money, and as a result, his son didn't support her. The old lady always said with tears that if she didn't have the disease, she would find an old man in the countryside and at least give her a bite to eat. The old lady Taizong was wronged and said that her life has always been her own decision. Now it depends on the face of her little daughter. The old lady has always hoped that one day she can have her own house and shelter from the wind and rain.
This old lady, 68 years old, is a chicken. She is the daughter-in-law of my mother's adoptive father's brother. When I was a child, I grew up with her parents and called her old Mu. When I was five and a half months old, because my mother played mahjong too seriously, I fell off the kang several times, and my family decided to find someone to look after me. Coincidentally, when the old lady was forty-three years old, she was promoted to grandma and began to live with me. At the beginning, my mother spent a lot of money, and the living expenses of 50 yuan a month could support a large family. Then, my parents' businessman nature was revealed. They didn't pay their living expenses on time and even refused to buy milk. My grandparents can't afford expensive milk powder. I began to eat porridge and noodles when I was less than one year old, and began to live with relish.
I remember when I was in primary school, I spent every holiday at my grandmother's house. When I first started school, I didn't have the strength to fight back. Sometimes after a week of school, I still cling to my grandmother's kang and refuse to leave. Write a letter of guarantee every holiday, go early and come back early, and you have to be beaten n times every time you start school before you can take it home. I refused to sleep at that time for fear of being thrown into the car and taken home in my sleep. Such a tragedy did happen. I woke up and found that I was not on the kang but at home. Crying for a week is common.
For me, grandma's home is heaven and mine is hell, although I didn't know what heaven and hell were then. Now, however, Mu tells me that she is No Country for Old Men. Every time I go back, I buy things in big bags and give her some money. She was reluctant to spend, so I gave it to my old aunt to buy something for her. But none of these can solve the fundamental problem. I told her that if you don't come to live with me in Beijing, I will support you. The old lady cried and said, I don't want you to raise me. You are nothing to me. My own son doesn't support me, and I don't want you to support me. I see so many children, you are the only one with a conscience, and my own son has no conscience. ...
Tears.
If one day, I am No Country for Old Men.