Ancient contradictory poems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

I haven't been to Dayanhe, my nanny, for many years. I want to read this text this year, probably because there are too many poisonous nannies in recent years, such as nannies who beat children, nannies who abducted children, nannies who stole money, and even nannies who set fire to employers, mothers and children ... one after another, which is outrageous and chilling. Perhaps because of these, I was particularly moved when I reread My Nanny Dayan River.

Nannies are really a group that can't be ignored in China, especially in recent years. After many families have children, grandparents are too old to take care of them, or in order to avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, many working-class people have to ask nannies to take care of them. Some even go out early and come back late, and the children are handed over to the nanny all day. At this time, the quality of the nanny is very important. It's hard to say whether they will be kind to their children, but the salary is not low at all. Where am I? In this case, it is still difficult to hire a caring nanny.

Based on this, I think Dayan and this nanny are of great significance to Ai Qing. She is very distressed to treat the employer's children as her own children, even better than her own children. The poet is the son of the landlord. He grew up in the arms of Dayan River and sucked her milk, which not only nurtured the poet and his body, but also nurtured his feelings. The poet deeply accepted her love, and when he left his adoptive mother to return to his biological parents at school age, he felt the strangeness of his parents and the importance of his adoptive mother to him. The integrity, kindness and simplicity of the foster mother influenced the poet's life. This poem is written around the relationship between "I" and "she" from beginning to end. His deep feelings for Dayan River are all expressed in his emotional statement. When he saw the snow in prison, he thought of Dayan River's "grassy grave under the pressure of snow", her former residence garden and her care and love for him. ...

The whole poem is not difficult to read, but how do students feel the feelings that the poet wants to express? I decided not to guide students to analyze the image of Dayan River as before, but to explore the theme behind the poem. This time, I just want to read a poem with the students and experience the poet's deep affection for the wet nurse in reading. Ready to take free reading, cooperative reading, focus on reading, so that students can experience the author's writing method of expressing true love through details.