It started less than eight days after my husband and wife welcomed our son into this world. At that time, I found that my son was abnormal and his stool was irregular. I didn't pull it every few days. We were normal at that time, because we just gave birth to a baby, so we shouldn't eat too much! But often after a few days, things don't look right, so my wife and I carry the baby and go to our private clinic in Shimen Street. At that time, the doctor told us that it was not normal for children to know shit, but for newborns, they were afraid to see a doctor because they saw signs of black face. So I don't have to see a doctor. Finally, I went to see a doctor who was born and raised in Miao nationality, and said that I had so-called cold, so I had to use oil to drive away the cold. At that time, we thought we had found the right person, so we had to drive away the cold the next day, but our condition didn't improve at all. Judging from the signs of the child, the child is weaker than before. Three or four days later. We began to wonder whether it was caused by the cold wind. So we decided not to take the cold wind and wanted to find another local doctor. After asking, at noon ten days before the baby was born, we were going to take the baby out to see a doctor after dinner. When we arrived at Shimen Street, it was past twelve o'clock. When we are ready to set foot on the road to Dr. Tu's house, we have a general idea in our hearts: What if we go? Isn't it a waste of our time that the baby can't get good treatment? Some people may say: Why not just not go to the hospital? For the conditions of Shimen Hospital, they don't accept newborn babies because they don't have medical conditions and skilled doctors! So we didn't go. As for other provincial and municipal hospitals, we also considered it at that time, but due to the family's economic conditions, the first thing that came to mind was that if we could see good local doctors, we wouldn't waste so much money! But today, we doubt our thoughts and are more worried. Therefore, in the case that our economic conditions did not allow, we decided to go to Zhaotong Hospital to see the baby. But we don't know where this cost comes from. My wife and I have been married for less than three years, and we still owe our relatives 10,000 yuan, while we only have more than 16,000 yuan, and this time it took another five or six hundred! For us, there is no source of income. We can't count on our parents, which is also the most painful thing for me for a while: at that time, my parents had just sold their land and had about 40 thousand money in their hands, but my father just didn't want to take it out. He cried about it and thought I was cheating on him. So I'm sad. This is difficult for every family to understand!
? When my wife and I were in Shimen, we planned to go to Zhaotong to see our son. Before making any plans, we should look at the money left on hand. Borrowing or borrowing is ok, just to cure the baby's illness, because we let the baby be born in the world, so we should be the responsibility of parents. So we both ran from Zhaotong before we could change our clothes. And in an emergency, we didn't consider the safety on the road! Driving our old motorcycle, carrying a baby less than 12 days and a mother less than 12 days, is also dangerous for me: because I haven't had a good rest these days! ! But the heavenly father has made a wonderful promise for us! ! This is something that my lover and I will always keep in mind! ! ! !
? The distance from Shimen to Zhaotong is not long, but the person in front of me is the fastest, and it takes about 50 minutes by motorcycle. But it took less than an hour with three perverts, and it was very safe. Although it was sunny, the cold wind in May still stung our skin. My son in my arms is pale, so I occasionally ask my lover to pay attention to the baby's signs. This is a thrilling journey. For a mother who just gave birth to a baby less than 12 days ago, without the existence and conservatism of the heavenly father, the three of us would never know what would happen! After we arrived in Zhaotong safely, we were not worried about the safety on the road, but after the bumps on the road, we still had plenty of energy when we arrived at the hospital! This may be the reason for being a parent! !
? When the child was admitted to the hospital, although we entrusted him, we were always worried, because the baby was not in our arms at any time, but we could only meet once every three days, so those twelve days in the hospital were another twelve days of suffering! At the same time, Eva's illness also worries us about the cost. During the examination, the doctor told us that my son had intestinal obstruction, that is, intestinal obstruction, and he could not defecate normally because the child had caused some symptoms that he should not have. He said that if he did not come early, his life would be in danger. Now, he will do chemotherapy for a few days to see if his condition has improved. If he doesn't accept it, he will have to use surgery, so we must be mentally prepared. In fact, we are not prepared at all, and even the most basic expenses have to go one step at a time. It's just that we want to have a hard time in the hospital. In this 12 day, we only met Eva three times. As for the wife, she is very weak, because she is worried that the baby in hospital can't eat well and sleep well! So let me go home and take my daughter, spend time with her, and let her miss her less, but really don't want to? Let my daughter miss us at home. At that time, our daughter was only a little over two years old, and we were a little worried about her. Although I didn't spend much money, I couldn't put it down. So, I brought my daughter. With the arrival of my daughter, my lover has a little appetite and a better spirit.
? In those twelve days, we also got the help of many relatives and friends to fill a hole in medical expenses. At that time, 50 yuan, who helped the least, paid the most 1000 yuan. What a blessing! In terms of medical expenses, we calculated that it cost less than 20 thousand! But for us, it is still a big expense. If we just have the money in our hands, we can't do anything, not even the living expenses, but the heavenly father knows our difficulties and makes a guarantee in our hearts. Only the 10,000 yuan borrowed from relatives has to be paid off in the evening every year. We are grateful for this expense, but what makes us even more grateful is that my father never gives up on us, letting me know to go to him when we are in trouble and knowing that he gave us confidence when we are vulnerable. So during this time in the hospital, we both put everything down and came to the Lord, entrusting all our worries to the Lord, because we didn't know what would happen and there was nothing we could do, so we also let our brothers know.
? On the thirteenth day, we took our son out of the hospital. At this time, he is much older than when he first came, even cuter than before, and the expression on his face looks more intense. But the doctor told us: it's best not to leave the hospital so early, let's observe it in the hospital for a while. But we know that the daily cost in the hospital will not be less than 1000. So we were discharged from the hospital before our son was fully educated. On this day, we rode my worn-out motorcycle home, but the car was worn out and unsightly. This is the best means of transportation for our family. Later, my son's illness took a long time to cure the whole education! !
Speaking of our son's whole education, sometimes we can't tell what medicine we took! At first, I borrowed western medicine (kaisailu) and injected it into my ass to soften it, so I have to relieve my stool, because I have to remember to let him relieve my stool once a day. Later, I asked at the drugstore if this medicine had any side effects. The doctor says there are no side effects, but there will be dependence. Therefore, after we learned about it, we sought the guidance of our heavenly father and looked for medicinal materials among Chinese herbal medicines. Many brothers and sisters have given us medicinal materials, some of them have never been used, and the baby's illness has long been cured! So let me say what medicine to take, I really can't say, but from the cognitive point of view, there are two or three better effects. But is it really good to eat medicinal materials? Isn't there another way to have a complete child? I still get the most healing ideas from my father. Thank god!
I am the kind of person who is closest to the Lord when we are in trouble and far away from the Lord when we are happy. Sometimes I ask myself, will the heavenly father be happy? Think about it. Needless to say, Father. As parents on earth, there will be times when they feel sorry for their children, but children are children. If they worry you, they are still your children, and you still love them! Isn't that what the heavenly father does? We all know how to love our children, discipline them and prevent them from deviating from their own path! So think about the day when my father disciplined us. He loved us. Although a little uncomfortable, sometimes we are reluctant, sometimes we doubt, but this is evidence of love for us! If he didn't want us to get lost too much, he wouldn't bother to discipline us without thinking about it! Because every subject has a crystallization of hope. Let us be with the Lord forever! Don't deviate from your own path, because father is sad and worried about us! May the brothers and sisters you see be happy and healthy! ! Emmanuel! ! ! !