0 1 Style Confession of The Book of Songs
I believe everyone knows the Book of Songs. This collection of poems in the pre-Qin period brings together people's feelings about all aspects of life at that time, and it is very emotional. Some poems are actually masterpieces of confession.
If a boy wants to confess to a girl he likes, the first time he meets her, it can be "My Fair Lady, My Gentleman." When you say that you will never change your mind, you can say, "Give me a peach and return it to Qiong Yao. Reporting is always good "; Walking under the moon, you can blurt out: "The moon is bright. Beautiful and crowded. Shu Yao corrected Xi. I am sad. "
When a girl confesses to the boy she adores, she can say "Green Girl is a carefree girl in my heart". If there are too few sentences, she can also say "I don't like meeting a gentleman, but I don't like it" or "I don't see you for a day, like March". If the confession is successful, you can say to him, "If you don't see your son, you are crazy." If two people go to the palace of marriage together, they can also implicitly say on WeChat, "It's perfect to accompany my son to drink and grow old together. The harp and harp are in the imperial palace, so they are all quiet. " Or "life and death are generous, Zicheng said. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. "
The book of songs-style confession is implicit and romantic, that is, don't use it in the wrong place. If used properly, it is often sweet, warm and provocative, but not too warm, like spring breeze, which warms people's hearts.
02 "Yellow"-style confession
In the Han Dynasty, a poor talented person who was regarded as a distinguished guest made the beauty behind the scenes feel heartbroken with a song "Phoenix Begging for Phoenix". It was love at first sight after they met, and they eloped hand in hand that night.
The gifted scholar wrote in his poem: "Feng Feng returned to his hometown and traveled around the world to seek his death. I didn't know what to do when I didn't meet Xi. Why don't I go to Sishang today? There are beautiful women in the boudoir, and the people in the room are poisoning my intestines. Why do you want to be a mandarin duck ... "The wording is straightforward, bold and warm.
In this song "Phoenix Begging for Phoenix", this gifted scholar with excellent literary talent compares himself to a phoenix bird, saying that he traveled all over the world to find the phoenix bird in his heart, and now he finally met it. Fortunately, it's even awkward. Only when we first met, we "had the cheek" to say that we were willing to be affectionate lovers with beautiful and demure women, just wanting to snuggle up and have children together.
This talented person who won the favor of beautiful women with Phoenix is Sima Xiangru, and the female host is Zhuo Wenjun, a talented woman in the Han Dynasty. In another song "Phoenix Begging for the Phoenix", Sima Xiangru even bluntly said, "There is a kind of beauty that I will never forget; I don't see you for a day, I want to be crazy. " Similar to the book of songs, "a day is like March", it can be seen that there are many similarities in emotional experiences since ancient times.
If in modern times, talented people meet beautiful women and want to express their feelings in the same way, they should also pay attention to the "scale" and not be too straightforward, so that they can suddenly become beautiful women. I think Sima Xiangru might have some luck at the beginning. Imagine saying "I want to have a monkey with you and be a love birds with you" as soon as we meet. Most of them will be treated with black eyes, and they may have met "narcissists" and "insane people".
However, you can still learn from Sima Xiangru's way to express your love and praise each other by comparing with yourself.
03 confession of Tang poetry and Song poetry
There were many talented people in the Tang and Song Dynasties, and many romantic and lovesick poems emerged. Now, many words you want to express yourself can be found in Tang and Song poems.
To express one's feelings in Tang poetry and Song poetry, one must first read the complete works of "Three Five Seven Words/Autumn Wind Poetry" by Li Bai. Maybe everyone is a little strange to the title of the poem, but when it comes to a few poems, everyone will feel deja vu, and look at the following:
357 words/autumn wind words
Autumn wind is clear, autumn moon is bright,
When the fallen leaves are scattered, the habitat in western Western jackdaw is full of surprises.
The leaves in the wind gather when they gather. Western jackdaw has settled and the moon rises. Friends are looking forward to meeting, but I don't know where. At this time, on such a night, it is difficult to miss each other.
When you enter the door of lovesickness, you will know the suffering of lovesickness.
Eternal love, eternal memories, and short-term lovesickness have no end.
If I had known that acacia was tied in my heart like this, it would not be like you didn't know.
Translated in modern language is:
The autumn wind is so sad and the autumn moon is so bright.
The fallen leaves are still scattered, and even the birds living in the trees are frightened.
I want to be close to each other that day and meet again after separation.
On this autumn night, it's really embarrassing to think about it;
Walk into the door of lovesickness and know the pain of lovesickness.
Forever lovesickness, forever memories, short-lived lovesickness is endless.
If I had known that acacia was so entangled in my heart, I might as well have never met each other.
So, can you express your feelings more concisely through poetry? And charming. It is several grades higher than expressing lovesickness with sentences like "I miss you".
In addition, if it is a long-distance relationship, you can euphemistically say, "If the relationship lasts for a long time, you will sooner or later"; There are many options when expressing lovesickness. You can say affectionately, "There are red beans in linglong dice, and you know what acacia is like", and you can say, "It is better to be heartless than to be bitter. When there is poverty in the corner of the world, there is only endless acacia. " Or "I don't regret my clothes getting wider and wider, and I'm haggard for Iraq", or you can use a sentence "I just hope your heart is the same as mine, and I won't miss you." Respond to each other's lovesickness
Here is a quote from Juck Zhang in The Shadow of a Sleepy Dream: "The light of the mountain, the sound of the water, the color of the moon, the fragrance of flowers, the charm of the literati and the beautiful posture are all indescribable and persistent, which is really enough to arouse dreams and reverse feelings." To sum up the myriad changes in the expression of emotions in Tang poetry and Song poetry, there is nothing more elegant in the world.
If it were you, what kind of ancient poems would you use to express yourself? Welcome to communicate ~
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