Love is the bud of career, and career is the fruit of love. They are brothers and sisters, inspiring each other and nourishing each other. Love and career are put on the same scale. Is love greater than career, or career more important than love? To answer this question, it is actually not difficult. Because one person's ideals and experience of life are different, the results are also very different. I praise the warriors who resolutely give up love and pursue their careers when love and career are in conflict. I also envy those partners whose love blooms before the flowers of their careers. In life and in public, many people will sing a high profile about love and career. In fact, we are all ordinary people, and there is no need to be shy in front of love and career; for most people, under normal circumstances, I say love and career. Career is equally important. Do you believe it? This is because; 1. Love is the fuel for career 1. Love is the foundation of career. If your career fails, you can start over again. As long as you are still alive, you will definitely have a time to succeed; but if you lose your love, there are very few opportunities to start over. Even if you can start over, it will be extremely difficult to find your original love. I feel it. I remember someone said this, and I feel it is quite right: If I lose you, even if I gain the whole world, what's the use? In fact, life flies by for decades, and it is really not easy to find true love, let alone easy. It is to be able to walk the rest of your life hand in hand with your significant other. And on the other hand, if you choose a career and give up love, what will you get when you succeed? Can you Does career bring you to the end of life? Who can share all the joy of your success with you? If this is the case, what is the meaning of life? In fact, from the historical origin, human career is based on the family. Basically, without the foundation of family, human undertakings cannot develop. This has been the case in the past, is the case now, and will be the case in the future. What's more, what modern people lack is often not material needs, but spiritual needs. , the most important thing among them is love. So if what you have now is your true love, you should cherish it! Communicate with him more, after all, love cannot be maintained unilaterally, but requires each other to have no regrets. Pay more! Maybe you can find a balance between career and love! 2. Love is the boiling point of career. Career and love have truly become incompatible. You are unlikely to enjoy love during the course of your career (please note the difference between career and work. Career is to devote yourself wholeheartedly to fighting for it, and you can even live an ascetic life for it. , the goal that I pursue even to death, just hoping that one day the goal will be achieved), career and love. In this society, only one kind of success is allowed for individuals. Believe it or not, this relationship is like a dark night, quietly covering everything! The so-called love and being liked by others are not the same concept. The love we refer to is a two-sided emotional exchange, not a one-sided infatuation and dedication. And whether it is career or love, you can only choose one of them for the highest level of love that you really like. However, love and career coincide in this point, that is, only by giving your best, can they have true meaning. The harvest! Therefore, when walking on two parallel lines of career and love, the intersection of union can only be an unreachable distance! If you don't want to sacrifice love, then basically you can't have your career (I must emphasize the concept of career again, work is not equal to career). Vice versa is also true. I can also say this, when you are longing for love, you have not thought about your career at all, and in the process of your career, you have no time to take care of love. Therefore, they are thousands of miles apart in heaven and earth. The confusion of life may lie in contradictions. It is difficult for anything to escape the three laws of nature, and energy always maintains a state of balance. What you gain is what you lose, and success or failure depends on your stance and choice. 3. Love is the destination of career. Have you ever faced the choice between love and career? I met. My classmate once had a girlfriend whom I loved very much. She was a classmate during our training. They have been together for 7 years now, but their relationship for 7 years ended up like this - they broke up, not because they didn't love each other. They love each other, but there are many things in reality that they cannot change. After graduating from college, his classmate came to the north and engaged in business, but his family had to drag him home to teach. At first, his classmate said that he would go back and find a job, but she was still alive. She refused. She said that even if they went back, they would not be together. Her classmates knew that it was not because she had changed. She knew that the conditions in her classmates' homes were not good and that they could not go back. If they went back, all hope for their families would be gone. My classmate hesitated about her, my beloved person and family, and he really didn’t know what to do because he did very well in the company. Half a year later, I was transferred to another place for management, and there was no success in my career. After some improvement, he told her this, but unexpectedly this strengthened her confidence in not letting him go home. Later, he compromised. It has been almost 4 months since we separated from her, and his grades are getting better and better.
But his heart is empty. He doesn't know who has gained more now than what he lost in the past. Moreover, he knows that he is not happy now. He misses her, misses her every day, but what can he do? In the face of love and career, he chose career, and he succeeded, but was he the right choice? Because he is not happy at all, and because he has lost his beloved, he has unspeakable pain in his heart. Some people may ask him why he can't go to her now, but there is no way to get back many things after they are lost. In their place, girls get married early. She is already engaged and is planning to get married soon. She is living a good life now. He can no longer disturb her. He cannot bear to let his grief fall into pain again. Friends, what do you mean by love? Multiple. 2. Love is a double-edged sword for career. 1. Love can make your career brilliant. Jenny and Karl have been friends since they were children. Jenny has dark brown hair and dark blue eyes. She attracted much attention in Trier and was even chosen as the prom queen. The young Marx - who described himself as "a really passionate Roland" - was a relentless pursuer: before Marx left Trier for Bonn, there was a tacit understanding between them, which in the summer of 1836 became It became a formal engagement. Judging from the customs of the time, this kind of engagement was extremely unusual: Marx was only 18 years old, Yanni was 4 years older than him, and their social status was also somewhat disparate. At first only Max's parents and his sister Sophia (the couple's matchmaker) knew the secret. Jenny's father agreed to the marriage in March 1837. Marx's parents were not (at least initially) very keen on the union; they and Jenny's family had been experiencing "several years of unnecessary and exhausting conflict." Marx left Trier for Berlin in October 1836. The success of his (if still semi-secret) pursuit of Jenny strengthened his interest in romanticism and poetry. The poems he wrote in Bonn and in the autumn of 1836 have not survived. There is the subjectivism and intense self-appreciation common to socially distanced, creative artists. Therefore, the love for Yanni: "Facing the entire treacherous world, I will challenge the world without mercy and let the world collapse. It cannot extinguish the flames on its own. Then I will be like God, Wandering in the ruins of this universe; every word of mine is an action, I am the creator of earthly life." Finally, Marx decided to write a letter to the baron stating his intention; and at the same time, he left his home for a week. Time was taken to observe the Baron's reaction to the letter, so that his father could do his best to ensure that the engagement was successfully accepted. Jenny herself was extremely worried even after her father agreed to the engagement. She was already past the age at which most girls of her class got married. Jenny explained her psychology: "Well, Karl, my sorrow lies in the thing that would make any other girl ecstatic: your beauty, your touching and burning passion, your sweet words of love. , your imaginative and touching works - all these can only frighten me, and often make me despair. The more I indulge in happiness, then once your passionate love disappears, you become. My fate will be more terrible when I am cold and reserved... Because of this, Karl, your love does not get from me what it actually wants: to be very grateful for it and completely obsessed with it. I often remind you to pay attention to other things, pay attention to life and reality, instead of completely immersing and intoxicating in the world of love as you like to do, spending all your energy, forgetting everything else, only in this aspect Looking for comfort and happiness." In this way, love inspired and achieved Marx's career. 2. Love can make career tragic. Looking through all the books at home and abroad, there are as many tragedies as there are heroes. Traveling through more than five thousand years of history, there are as many love stories as there are pairs of lovers. A wedding was held on the execution ground, an unprecedented wedding; a pair of shackled bride and groom, they made life and love an eternal song. This is a true story. This is a red love song, a feat that illuminates the ages, makes the old history shed tears, and makes the immortal soul grow flesh and bones. The story of martyrs Chen Tiejun and Zhou Wenyong took place in the last century. The darkness and the light fought against each other again and again, killing and resisting. The blood stained the devastated land, and the cold air blew down the bloody sky. After the painful groans, the suffering China fell into a terrible silence. Only the cold shackles made a heavy sound, trying to lock in the sunlight and drag her towards the cell of death. Desolate wind and rain, rampant dark clouds, overwhelming. How many Communists and revolutionaries have died heroically at the gunpoint of the enemy; their heads can be cut off and their limbs can be broken. The wedding on the execution ground took place during that tragic period. On the Lantern Festival in 1928, two young men walked calmly to the execution ground. Facing the black muzzles of the guns, they stood resolutely on the bright red land of the red granite. There was no sorrow in their eyes as they looked at each other. , there is no sadness, because today is their wedding. At the last moment of their lives, they walk into the "sacred hall" together, no toast is needed.
They hugged and kissed each other with two sincere hearts. They could not sleep on the same bed, but they could become friends. There was no need for a wedding march. They used their eternal love and the plasma of their youth to write the story of their unswerving loyalty. They must use their unrepentant faith to sew their wedding dresses, they must use their lofty ideals to sow the flowers of the future, and they must use their calm smiles to hold up the chest of the Communists. The green mountains bear witness, and the earth Testify, "We are the most steadfast and happiest bride and groom in the world. Let the gunfire march for us and march for us. Let the gunshots of the reactionaries serve as a salute for our wedding!" We want to bury a dark world together. This sound is earth-shattering and soul-stirring. This sound shakes the mountains and rivers. On this gloomy execution ground, the short wedding tightly embraces death. Their blood blends together. They are dependent on each other. Accompanied by it, it turns into a dazzling light; the heroic blood sacrifice to Xuanyuan, Ye Ye shines and is fragrant through the ages. Today, the former execution ground is full of spring flowers, and the wedding on the execution ground still shocks the world. The majesty lasts forever. In this touching scene, The story stands out as the unyielding backbone of a nation. 3. Love can destroy a career. In the Yin Dynasty, in exchange for a smile from the empress, King You of Zhou took his beloved concubine Bao Si to the city tower one evening and ordered beacon fires to be lit everywhere. The neighboring princes saw it... Later, someone wrote a poem to satirize the "beacon fire playing on the princes" thing. The poem goes like this: On a good night, the palace plays the pipes, and the beacon lights up the sky for no reason. ... Love can not only make men crazy and cruel, but also make women become devils! Bound by feudal ethics, ancient Chinese women were generally gentle and kind-hearted, but this was not always the case. Everyone had two instincts in their hearts: to do good and to do evil, and evil thoughts always manifested themselves under certain conditions. Some people sum up: Men conquer women by conquering the world, while women conquer the world by conquering men! This classic saying illustrates a truth that is universally applicable. Let’s take a closer look at the murderous women in ancient times. They all relied on conquering powerful men to wreak havoc on the world and destroy their careers. First: Queen Zhou, Su Daji, beheaded her wife and son, and ascended to the throne of queen. She also designed and manufactured cannons and pots to eliminate dissidents with cruel means; she set up wine pools, meat forests and deer stands for her to have sex with King Zhou day and night; she smashed the leg bones of passers-by and took away human lives. Second: Jia Nanfeng, Queen of Emperor Hui of Jin Dynasty. Jia Nanfeng is vicious, jealous, ugly and lewd, possessing all five poisons. Third: Lu Zhi, Queen of Han Emperor Gaozu. Liu Bang, the founder of the Han Dynasty, and Lu Pheasant were a couple in need. When they were assisting Liu Bang in conquering the world, they trapped Peng Yue and killed Han Xin, showing their ruthless ambition. Fourth: Empress Gaozong of the Tang Dynasty and Wu Zetian, Emperor of the Zhou Dynasty. In order to achieve her goal of becoming the emperor, she opened the way with the butcher's knife, laid the foundation with people's heads, and killed people like hemp. In fact, once love is stained with the blood of money and politics, historical disaster will come. The four beauties headed by Xi Shi are the best illustration. 3. Love is the symphony of career. I think family, love and career should be the main theme of a person's life, the three most important themes. A person, if he (she) can taste the joys and sorrows of the three major themes, If the person is happy and achieves gratifying gains in his (her) life, then this person will no longer live in vain, and his (her) life will be very meaningful, very valuable, and very beautiful. Family love should first be filial. Parents and elders are not only in your heart, but also in your actions. It is your parents who gave you the most precious life and gave you a chance to live. Relatives also include brothers, sisters, relatives, friends, teachers, classmates and other people around you. Love each other and help each other. Love requires loyalty and dedication. It is a great fate in life, a holy fate, which should be cherished. Turgenev once said: "Love can defeat death and all terrors. Love can give life infinite power and can also push life forward." Career should be able to make its due contribution to our humanity, our motherland, our society and our people, no matter how small the contribution is. Small and insignificant, because a person is just a tiny molecule in this universe. Because of the melody of love, love and career collide into a powerful symphony. Lu You and Tang Wan are childhood sweethearts and cousins. They are talented and have a deep love for each other, and they have become very loving after marriage. But Lu's mother interfered, and under the oppression of feudal ethics, they were finally forced to divorce and marry separately. One day ten years later, Lu You went to Shen Garden to play and met Tang Wan by chance. Both of them were very sad. Lu You sentimentally wrote a poem "The Hairpin-headed Phoenix" on the wall: Red crisp hands, yellow vine wine, willows on the palace walls full of spring scenery; the east wind is bad, joy is thin, and I am full of melancholy, I have been away for a few years, wrong, wrong ,wrong. Spring is as old as before, people are empty and thin, tears stain the red city and the crocodile yarn shows through; the peach blossoms fall, the pond and pavilion are idle, although the mountain alliance is there, it is difficult to carry the brocade book, Mo, Mo, Mo. Yang Yuhuan is the most familiar to everyone, she is Yang Guifei. "It's hard to give up on natural beauty. Once you choose to be on the emperor's side. Looking back, you will smile and be charming. The sixth palace has no color." It is estimated that no one can resist Yang Yuhuan's beauty. And because of her beauty, "The spring sky rises in the sky and the sun rises, and the king never goes to court early from now on." The epic symphony of love is also: 1 Liu Yong Feng Qiwu The belt becomes wider and wider, but in the end I don't regret it, and I feel haggard for her. 2. Beat the drum and play the Book of Songs. "Bei Feng" The agreement between life and death is broad, as explained by Zicheng. Hold your son's hand and grow old together. 3 Qin Guan, Magpie Bridge Immortal If the love lasts for a long time, how can it last day and night? 4 Xi Murong How to let you meet me, at my most beautiful moment, for this, I have been praying before the Buddha for five hundred years, begging him to let us form a mortal relationship. 5 Liang Qichao's Taiwan Bamboo Branch Poetry The bottom of the acacia tree talks about lovesickness, and Si Lang hates Lang Lang without knowing it.
6 Gong Zizhen's Miscellaneous Poems by Ji Hai Falling red is not a heartless thing, it turns into spring mud to protect the flowers. 7 Zhang Xian Qianqiu Sui is not old, but love is hard to die. The heart is like a double mesh with thousands of knots in it. 8 One of two beautiful poems by Huang Jingren It seems that these stars are not last night, for whom the wind and dew set up the midnight. 9 Three of the six untitled poems by Li Shangyin Straightforwardly, it is useless to miss lovesickness, but to be melancholy is pure madness. 10 Li Shangyin traveled alone in Qujiang in late autumn. I knew that I was here and my love would always be there. I looked at the sound of the water at the head of the river with regret. 11 Nalan Xingde Breaking Through the Sands of Huanxi When people become more passionate, their feelings become less passionate, and now they are really not passionate. 12 Li Shangyin Jinse This feeling can be recalled later, but it was already at a loss at that time. 13 Zhang Zhongsu, Yanzilou. How many lovesickness can come from a one-night stand? 14. Yuan Hao Wen, one of two poems by Mo Yu'er. Asking what love is in the world, it directly teaches the promise of life and death. 15 Li Shangyin Untitled There is no colorful phoenix flying in the body, but there is a clear understanding in the heart. 16 Bai Juyi's Song of Everlasting Regret. As time goes by, this hatred will last forever. 18 Cao Xueqin Wan Ningmei One is Langyuan fairy flower, the other is beautiful jade flawless. If there is no romance, I will meet him again in this life; 19 Bai Juyi's Song of Everlasting Sorrow I wish to be a winged bird in the sky, and a twig on the ground. 20 Li Shangyin Untitled The spring silkworms will not run out until they die, and the wax torches will turn to ashes before their tears dry up. Because love is the gas station of career, the harmonious flame of love and career is full of colors; because love is the double-edged sword of career, love and career are difficult to separate; because love is the symphony of career, love and career merge and collide. We are not great men, so let us say something to the world with the feelings of ordinary people; life has been reincarnated thousands of times, and I believe that love and career are equally important.