Nine times out of ten things in life are going to be unsatisfactory. As long as you are on the road, wind, frost, snow and rain will inevitably come, dimming the color of the sky.
Then we have to be more open-minded. Always maintain inner peace, be calm and collected when encountering problems, face it calmly, and work hard to get through it. Don't always dwell on being unhappy, and believe that sooner or later the sunshine will dispel the haze and come. Look away from everything, and troubles will not come. No matter when, strengthen your heart, live well for yourself, walk and sing, be happy, look away and see far, the sky is broad and the earth is broad.
Then we have to be a little confused. Zheng Banqiao, a calligrapher and painter of the Qing Dynasty, once wrote a banner: "It is rare to be confused." This so-called "confusion" actually refers to spiritual cultivation. Being clear when it comes to big things, being confused when it comes to small things, being half awake and half drunk, smiling at the wind and clouds, and being detached and magnanimous is not only a way of life, but also a magic weapon for physical and mental health. People often say that stupid people are blessed. Sometimes, being stupid will indeed make you live a happier life.
Then we have to be a little busier. Busyness is a good medicine that heals everything. If you decide to move forward, you don’t have to look back. Face the future bravely. Be enterprising, pursue, and be busy. You must not become an idle person with nothing to do, causing trouble and adding to the pain. And while we are busy with a purpose, we can not only forget those unpleasant things, but also enrich our lives, enrich ourselves, and develop our skills and gains in life.
As Wang Zengqi said: "We have had various traumas, but we should be happy today!"
Regard all hardships as opportunities for experience and growth. Since there is no way to dodge, Then face it with a positive and sunny attitude, use courage and wisdom to change, don't always look sad, who can you show it to? As the saying goes, a smile can save you ten years. If you have a good attitude, you will not grow old in life. And having a good mood will bring good luck. If you don't hurt yourself, everything will be fine. If your heart does not move, nothing will happen to the wind!
For the rest of your life, with an optimistic and calm heart, meet the people and scenery you should meet, and capture the beauty and happiness in ordinary life.
Living well is a winner, taking things easy is a wise man, optimistic people have good scenery, and calm people are never lonely.
Therefore, no matter what happened in the past, we should be happy today, and we do not expect that the years to come will be dazzling, but we hope that we can be safe, healthy and happy every day!