I privately divide men into several types: thinking type and sports type. In addition, miscellaneous is the senses. Analyze from its main hobbies. Thinking people play chess and read books. Sensory men dance and pick up girls. Sports men play ball games and travel. My husband is a thoughtful person who likes playing chess. I always feel that men and women have different interests, which can be seen in the matter of playing chess. Few women like playing chess, and few men don't like playing chess, to varying degrees. My husband likes Go best, followed by chess.
A few years ago, there was no computer at home. If you want to play chess, you must go to the chess field outside or take those chess friends home. At home, I often see such a scene: the room is filled with smoke and the lights are dim; Several men either lean or sit in a circle; The sounds of moving and coughing, as well as whispering, are mysterious. I was shocked at first, and then it suddenly dawned on me: originally, Go means this-"surround"! There is an old Liu who often comes to my house to spend the middle of the night with her husband. I often wake up from my dreams and hear the crisp falling sound in the next room. There is silence and tranquility in my voice. Give you a kind of unspeakable comfort.
My husband has many chess friends, and the situation is different. Some people take this as entertainment and have fun in their spare time. They are cheerful and comfortable. Others seem to be lost in it, but they can't pull it out, let alone their careers, and their families have abandoned them. There are still some such examples, so don't ramble. The general feeling is that men who play chess seem to lack toughness, career setbacks and troubles in life, which make them more decadent. Lost in chess because of decadence. What is even more decadent is because of the chess puzzle. My husband is also aware of this situation, and often reminds himself that playing chess is to forget your troubles, have fun and not indulge too much.
But he still likes playing chess. If there is a phone call: "There is a chess game ..." and then leave without saying anything. When shopping with me, I saw a chess game on the roadside, so I left it alone. I went in and came out when I was satisfied. It's not his turn to let others bet. He also likes to bet on the lottery next to him, not to mention himself. I laughed at him: "The level is not high, and the enthusiasm is full. Regardless of winning or losing, the spirit is commendable. " He also ignored it and laughed it off.
In recent years, there have been more online chess games, but his gang of chess bandits have gathered less. On the rest day, my husband sat in front of the computer. Go online, then catch and kill, kill for one day. At this time, it is best to earn his sweet words: make a cup of tea and peel a fruit. I always get words like "good wife" and "good wife". I don't know chess. I like to sit by and watch the winning or losing. Hu Kan told a lie. Anyway, no one outside heard. But playing chess on the computer somehow lost the enthusiasm and atmosphere of face-to-face discussion. My husband is sometimes depressed, and so am I. Although there is less trouble in cleaning the battlefield, I can't hear the voiceless sound falling on the platform.
I never understood the fun of playing chess. However, I like the way he is focused and deep when playing chess.
It is common for him to play chess at home. On an idle autumn night or winter night, holding a carpet and holding a cup of hot tea, I knocked down under the warm light of the desk lamp. Tangible chess pieces are crystal clear, moist as jade, invisible offensive and defensive layout, and the strategy is in the chest. It's a bit like the ancient artistic conception of "knocking chess pieces at random and making snuff". At this time, I always thought: if I can play chess, then I can have a son with him, from youth to sideburns.