Socrates once said: "whether a person can achieve something depends only on whether he has self-esteem and self-confidence."
For thousands of years, in people's eyes, fate is mysterious, unpredictable and uncontrollable. A mysterious force is the supreme director who dominates people's lives, and human beings are always servants and slaves of fate. Half a century ago, a Belgian wise man named Maurice? Mr maeterlinck told us that man can be the director of fate, not a slave. Self-confidence is the first condition to master, dominate and overcome fate. Therefore, I think self-confidence is the cornerstone of success.
If a person wants to be confident, he must overcome his inferiority complex and establish self-confidence. 195 1 year, British female doctor Franklin discovered the double helix structure of DNA from her own X-ray diffraction. After research, she boldly put forward a hypothesis and gave a wonderful speech on this topic. However, many people question her findings and doubt the authenticity of her photos and the reliability of her assumptions. Under these pressures, Franklin also began to doubt himself: as an ordinary doctor, she put forward such a Gosen hypothesis. She wavered. Therefore, she publicly denied her hypothesis and did not continue her research. Later 1953, other scientists confirmed this hypothesis, and Franklin, who was not confident, missed the success.
The ship of life is driven by everyone. With confident sails, Qian Fan rushes to the other side of success.
Copernicus, a famous astronomer and pioneer of natural science, was the first to doubt and deny Ptolemy's geocentric theory, which influenced mankind for thousands of years. He was opposed and oppressed by millions of people, but he always believed in his theory that "the earth goes around the sun, not the sun goes around the earth" and did not give up easily. Finally, his Heliocentrism proved that Copernicus succeeded. If he doubts his own ability when others doubt him, he will not succeed in the future.
Confidence is not conceit. Conceited people like to create illusory self-satisfaction, hoping to get affirmation beyond their actual value, but it is often counterproductive. One of my classmates became a monitor in the first semester, but I didn't expect to lose the election at the beginning of this semester. He is angry, but in fact he is too confident and domineering to lose the election.
These examples tell us that self-confidence should overcome inferiority, and self-confidence is not conceit. With self-confidence, we can go to the other side of success.
We often hear people say that we should have confidence, so what is confidence?
Self-confidence is the heroic spirit displayed by the eagle spreading its wings and flying, the loftiness displayed by the towering peaks, the heroism displayed by the endless rivers, and the courage and spirit to go forward in the face of challenges.
The poet Du Fu told us that self-confidence is a spirit of "reaching the top, the other mountains all appear dwarfs under the sky.". ; The poet Li Bai told us that self-confidence is the pride of "since God has given talents, let them be employed"! , spin one thousand silver, all come back! ”； Chairman Mao told us that self-confidence is the ambition of "self-confidence in life for 200 years will be like hitting water for three thousand miles". With self-confidence, you can break your fear and usher in the dawn of success.
Beethoven confidently played the symphony of life, Shi Tiesheng confidently wrote a magnificent chapter of life, the women's volleyball team confidently won the trophy after 17 left, Liu Xiang confidently set off a yellow whirlwind at the Olympic Games, and Tai Lihua confidently danced amazing dances ... They are the best interpreters and implementers of confidence.
Self-confidence is the cornerstone and foundation of life. With self-confidence, you can be like a black petrel, fearless when the storm comes, and fight bravely, and you can forge ahead, forge ahead and create brilliance on the journey of life.
On the contrary, if one has no self-confidence, even if it works, it may become impossible. Also at the last Athens Olympic Games, a male synchronized diver in China made a fatal mistake in the last key jump due to lack of self-confidence and excessive pressure, leaving deep regret.
It can be seen how much self-confidence plays in life! The power of self-confidence is enough for the weak grass to break through the blockade of the earth and show great vitality; Enough to make light water droplets penetrate hard and thick boulders, showing tenacious strength; It is enough for the pine trees between the cliffs to overlook the snow and show their tenacious vitality.
Believe in yourself, the strength is in your heart. Only when you are sure that you believe in yourself, can you make others dare not despise you, and you can climb the highest peak of life, overlook the peaks and experience the feeling of "reaching the top and taking in everything in a glance". . Everyone should have self-confidence, arm themselves with self-confidence and overcome every challenge and setback in life. As the college entrance examination approaches, some people are afraid, some people are amazed, but some people are full of confidence. We should not shrink back or escape, because the power of self-confidence is enough to overcome all unpredictable difficulties and make people enjoy the sweetness of success.
Many facts have proved that self-confidence is a common quality of most people and an important factor for a person's success. It is often said that if a person is not afraid of being knocked down by others in life, he will get up again. The most terrible thing is to knock himself down and there is no hope. How can we avoid "knocking ourselves down"? This requires self-esteem and self-confidence.
A confident life will never be defeated by society, except for his own fatigue and inability to fight.
Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success in life, and the road to success must be climbed step by step with confidence. With self-confidence, people can achieve their desired achievements, become the people they want to be, and stick to the beliefs they pursue. Anyway, the motto of a confident person is: "I think I can, I can't now, and I will!" " "
Self-confidence can not only change the surrounding environment, but also change self-confidence
For example, there is a typical example: a psychologist chooses the most stupid and unlovable girl from a class of college students and asks her classmates to change their previous views on her. On a beautiful day, everyone rushed to take care of the girl, courted her and accompanied her home. Everyone really believes that she is a beautiful and intelligent girl with a fake. What was the result? In less than a year, the girl became very good, and even her behavior was completely different. She wisely told people that she was born again. Indeed, she has not become another person-however, she shows everyone's potential, and this beauty will only be shown when we believe in ourselves and people around us believe in us and love us.
It can be seen that self-confidence can work miracles.
However, self-confidence is not innate, and not everyone has it. Many people have low self-confidence, especially after experiencing some ups and downs in life, some people will feel ashamed. Others have actually learned how to belittle themselves to prevent failure in life. They think that self-confidence is a dangerous quality. The more confident a person is, the more likely he is to run into a nail and become the target of public criticism. Therefore, it is best to be a man with his tail between his legs.
Others have lost confidence since childhood, because adults always reprimand them like this: "Look, you idiot, fool, loser, you will be a street sweeper at most in the future!" " "Over time, he really agreed to these words. If he fails a little, he will comfort himself like this: "Anyway, I have been a fool and a loser since I was a child. How can I be whimsical? "
Analysis 1:
The poetry of this poem is obvious, but it is actually about self-improvement and self-confidence. The "strength" of the strong is the premise and condition of self-confidence. The weak are not "strong" enough, so they lack self-confidence, so they borrow the name of others and put gold on their faces. It can be seen that "strength" is the premise and condition of self-confidence. If you want to have confidence, you must first strengthen yourself.
The central meaning of poetry material can be summarized as "the strong have confidence". The basis is that there is such a sentence in the material: "The real strong don't need to borrow others to respect themselves, and they don't need to borrow things from outside to decorate themselves." In addition, it seems reasonable for some students to "find their own bright spots and build up their self-confidence".
The examination must be accurate, and we should be able to grasp the core of the topic, instead of finding a sentence from the material as the topic. Poetry reveals the phenomenon that the weak are not confident and raise the flag as tiger skin. As a strong lion, it can proudly tell others, "I am a lion". The sentence "I am a lion" itself reveals a kind of confidence. The topic of "I am me" is conditional, that is, to strive to be a strong person. Because only the strong can have peace and confidence.
Many students ignore the important premise of self-improvement in concept. Although the materials also reveal the meanings of "live high, be true to yourself" and "show your personality and insist on being yourself", they are not focused, because the meaning of the materials does not seem to advocate going your own way.
It turns out that the requirements for topic composition are relatively loose, as long as it is within the scope of the topic and not divorced from the topic. However, if you want to make your composition first-class, you must find a point that meets the core of the topic, so as to hit the bull's-eye.
Example 1
Be a strong person in life and have a healthy and confident life.
Chickens are born as digging poultry, and can't be eagles fighting the sky. But as an individual chicken, there is no need to feel inferior, because it can stand out among its peers through hard work, thus standing out from the crowd. Trained cockfighting is the brave among chickens. Winners are often cocky, while losers bow their heads and shrink their necks in front of their opponents, looking depressed.
As a member of society, people have various identities and roles. As the saying goes, 360 lines, each line is the best. As long as you are outstanding in your own social circle, you can have a confidence that belongs to the winner. Military strategists don't have to hurt themselves in front of entrepreneurs and businessmen, nor do politicians have to show superiority in front of scientists and scholars. Human society has different division of labor, each with its own advantages and disadvantages. But it must be pointed out that no matter what you do, you should be as outstanding as possible. In a word, you must be a strong man in life. Only in this way can you have pride and confidence.
Qin Huang Hanwu and Tang Zongsong Zu are famous emperors in the history of China. They were all wise kings in the feudal era, and they were also the favored sons of that era. They all had talents and qualities that ordinary people could not match at that time, and they had reason to be proud and confident. As a generation of politicians, Sun Yat-sen and Mao Zedong are both pioneers of the old democratic revolution and founders of the socialist era. They all belong to a generation of great men. In the field of natural science, Newton, Einstein and other scientific giants have created a new era of science. They deserve admiration. They are confident and happy when they are alive, and they can have no regrets after death.
The French writer Dumas failed to submit his manuscript when he was a beginner. His father told him that if you said you were Dumas' son, they wouldn't return your manuscript. Dumas didn't care, continued to study writing, and finally became famous with La Traviata and became a bright star in the history of French literature. Unwilling to live in the shadow of his father, arrogant Dumas gained a place in French literature through his own efforts. His fame and influence in the literary world are no less than his father's, and he can be said to be a model of self-improvement and self-confidence.
It is the brilliance and charm of these successful people to bravely shoulder the mission entrusted by history and strive to become a strong person in life. In the process of becoming stronger, the pressure and pain they bear are unimaginable to ordinary people. Mencius said that if the sky is a great task for Sri Lankan people, they must first put up with their thoughts, work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, and empty their bodies ... If they want to become strong, suffering is probably inevitable. Let's look at successful people in various fields. How many of them didn't go through countless hardships before they finally made a difference? Being strong is the premise of self-confidence, and hard work is the only way to become strong. "If the sky is sentimental and old, the human path will be vicissitudes." Only self-improvement is the road to success.
Let's be ambitious, full of energy, keep struggling, be a strong person in life and have a healthy and confident life. Only in this way can we be worthy of the times and our own life. Only in this way can we proudly tell people our names, and there is no need to hide them, let alone use other people's names for some needs.