Going to primary school can first give children a long blank time. We can use games, external observation, sports and other colorful activities that are more in line with children's cognitive laws to replace classroom learning. Children are naturally fond of games. Experts pointed out that children's "play" in the sense of adulthood is actually learning.
Even if we do nothing, blank time is very important for children, and children can learn spontaneously and do what they are really interested in. This kind of self-indulgent "fiddling" may be more conducive to the cultivation of children's concentration, interest, exploration spirit and imagination than arranging adequate "formal learning" for him.
Protect interest in learning
The ancients who took care of children in China said well, "If you want your children to be safe, you have to be hungry and cold." In fact, knowledge is one thing. If the child eats too much and is full, it must be anorexia. Therefore, going to primary school in kindergarten is actually to leave tomorrow's food for tomorrow, so that children can keep their interest in learning and have a "good appetite".
Reduce frustration
Some parents worry that if they don't learn now, they will find that they can't keep up with other children who are rushing to run, and their children will feel frustrated and inferior. As we all know, if you study beyond your ability in advance, even if you try hard, you can't learn well, which is the behavior that really makes children lose confidence and produce incompetence and frustration.
Before the age of six, our daily behavior helps children to establish their initial personality background, and don't dampen their inner self-confidence and courage by asking them to be beyond their age. The imprint of "I can't do it well" was engraved in his life long ago, and it will be difficult to erase it in the future, which will also affect his life in the future.
Protect creativity
We can think about why developing children's creativity and imagination can make children draw more pictures and do more manual work. Because there is no standard answer for these activities. In this open activity, children's imagination and creativity are encouraged and brought into play. But learning pinyin and arithmetic are different. It is wrong to write B as D, and it is also wrong to write 2 as 5. If children enter this learning method with correct answers too early, they will become rigid and stifle their creativity and imagination.
Improve parent-child relationship
"I don't accompany my homework, and my mother is kind and filial. You accompany your homework, and the chicken flies and the dog jumps. " Many parents are deeply touched. If children start to learn primary school content in advance in kindergarten, their understanding ability can't keep up and they can't hold the writing pen. It is conceivable that they must be stumbling and making slow progress.
How many parents can calm down at this time? "It's so simple, why can't you? ! ""I just said, how did you forget? ! "I really don't think you can teach pupils just because you are a college student. Playing games with children, sharing happy childhood and establishing a warm and stable emotional relationship that will benefit him for life are much more important than learning pinyin and mathematics sooner or later.
Protect children's physical and mental health
The physical quality of primary school students in China is worrying. At an early age, they wore thick glasses and were bent by heavy schoolbags. This situation will be even worse if primary education is started early in kindergarten. In Europe, America, Japan and other developed countries, kindergartens pay more attention to sports than learning.
This is actually based on science. The younger the child, the stronger the body is than the mental development. Growth is irreversible. Childhood has no foundation of physical and mental health, and it is difficult to make up for it when you grow up. And the study of knowledge, in fact, as long as you protect your child's interest, it is never too late. When children grow up to a more mature mental level, learning will become easier and more effective.
Wise parents and teachers can respect the law of children's growth and let go of anxiety. Children's life is a long journey, so it is wise to pay attention to the scenery. Give your child a happy childhood, and he will benefit from it all his life.