When attending a funeral, what can I say with the gift money:
1, I'm sorry for your loss, don't be too sad, pay attention to your health!
I was shocked to learn the bad news. The dead rest in peace. Please feel sorry for your loss.
3. The deceased has gone, and today people are sad!
4. You should be strong. Those who leave and those who want to live should not be sad because of his departure. Please inherit and share every minute he won't enjoy.
People can't be resurrected after death. Don't be so sad. You should comfort him with your performance. Although he is gone, we who are alive still have to live well.
The amount of gift money
The amount of gift money usually depends on the closeness of the relationship between the giver and the deceased. Generally speaking, the closer the blood relationship between the giver and the deceased, the higher the amount of gift money; If the giver is a close friend of the deceased, the amount of the gift is often not too low.
However, this is only a general reference standard, not a rigid rule, and the giver can decide the number of gifts according to his own mind. It should be noted that no matter how much the gift is, the amount must be odd, and even numbers are prohibited. The common practice is to add one to the whole hundred, such as 40 1, 60 1 and so on.
How much does a funeral usually cost?
Generally, the gift money for attending a funeral is 20 1 or 30 1. But in either case, you have to add a dollar to the back to indicate a funeral. According to the folk saying, the singular number is better. Of course, there may be no such taboo in some places, so it is not completely limited to this.
Relatives and friends usually bring gifts or cash gifts when they go to condolence. Gift money is sealed with yellow and blue brands, and the blue brand in the middle says "Sacrifice × Yuan". The words "pay tribute to × yuan". Gifts include plaques, couplets, banners, incense sticks and paper money.
Precautions:
1, don't wear colorful clothes.
When attending a funeral, you must try to wear dark clothes, preferably black. If you really don't, you can't wear colorful clothes. After all, this is a funeral, not a wedding. You must pay attention to your clothes.
2. Don't call the whole time.
In the process of attending the funeral, you must be serious and make yourself look like a natural expression of sadness, instead of fighting with people around you with a smile. This is too much. Don't disrespect the dead to avoid causing public outrage.
3. Encourage elders who have lost their loved ones.
If there are living elders who have lost their relatives at the funeral scene, you should comfort them moderately at this time, so that they will not be too sad and avoid affecting their health. We should pay attention to these living old people and take good care of their physical condition.
How to write an example of a white packet
An example of how to write a white packet is as follows:
According to ancient writing habits, in order to maintain the traditional style, it is necessary to write vertically. This is a custom of the Han nationality, which is applicable to most parts of the country.
From right to left, the first line on the left and the empty words at the top of the paper begin to write, "Mourn Uncle xxx for ever"; Almost all the spaces on the paper of China Bank are clearly written, with honorifics such as "Immortal Body"; At the end of the line, estimate the position of the spare word from the bottom of the paper and write "My nephew xxx respects." Do it.
Matters needing attention for white package:
1, the amount of gifts for white things should be odd, and even gift packages cannot be sealed. Singular means that bad things only happen once. If it is an even number, it means that it never rains but it pours, and it will offend the host family. Many people are used to sealing a gift package with big integers, which may inadvertently upset them. General funeral packages have a mantissa, and the mantissa is often 1, such as 50 1, 5 1 1 and so on.
2. When a funeral is held, the host family receives a gift package. In many places, the custom is to return the gift, that is, to send a small gift package to the giver. This gift package is generally about one yuan, symbolizing the good fortune of the giver. The giver must accept this gift package and cannot refuse it.
3. The time of the funeral package is also very particular. After the death of a loved one, the host family usually sends someone to send a funeral to relatives and friends. The white gift package is usually sent out by the messenger at the funeral for the messenger to collect. This messenger is often a part-time clerk. After receiving the gift package, he will register it in his personal notebook and then return the gift.
For the death of some relatives and friends, some people may send wreaths or elegiac couplets to the deceased because of special relations. Generally, it is also given to the host family, and it is given to the messenger when the messenger reports the funeral. Pay attention. It is necessary to account for the number of gifts and gift packages to avoid making a fool of the messenger. Tokens don't need to go into the gift package.
How to leave a message for funeral WeChat transfer?
1, please remember that his teachings and love will always accompany you, and his smiling kindness will always appear in your mind; In order to balance, please live a more active and happy life, let him smile proudly for you in heaven and narrow his kind eyes.
2. Birth, old age, illness and death are natural phenomena, and we feel sorry for your loss! Take care of yourself.
People can't be resurrected after death. Don't be so sad. You should comfort him with your performance. Although he is gone, we who are alive still have to live well.
The following is the method of WeChat transfer message:
1. First, open and log in to WeChat APP on your mobile phone.
2. On the main interface of WeChat, click the address book to find the friend to transfer money to.
3. In the friend chat dialog box, click the "+"sign in the lower right corner.
4. Pop up the menu window and click the "Transfer" option.
5. Enter the transfer amount. It should be noted here that the red envelope of Baishi is generally singular, and the mantissa is preferably 1, which means "reluctant".
6. Click "Add Transfer Description" and enter the information. Because you can only enter 10 at most, a simple note: "I'm sorry for your loss, take care!" Words of comfort like this.
7. After clicking "Forward" and sending it to a friend, enter a long paragraph of comforting words.
How to write the money given by Baishi?
The writing method of the envelope of Bai Shi gift: According to the ancient writing habits, in order to maintain the traditional style, it must be written vertically. This is a custom of the Han nationality, which is applicable to most parts of the country. Most of them are written in ancient Chinese.
The main points are as follows:
1, write vertically.
2. From right to left, the first line on the left and the empty words at the top of the paper begin to write, "I am sorry for Uncle xxx through the ages".
3. In China Bank, the upper and lower spaces are almost equal, and honorifics such as "Immortal Body" are written.
At the end of the line, estimate the position of the word "leisure" from the bottom of the paper and write "Dear nephew xxx". Do it. Note: On paper, the three lines are from right to left, and the right, middle and left lines are lower than the first line.
Problems needing attention in funeral packaging
1, the amount of gifts for white things should be odd, and even gift packages cannot be sealed. Singular means that bad things only happen once. If it is an even number, it means that it never rains but it pours, and it will offend the host family.
Many people are used to sealing a gift package with big integers, which may inadvertently upset them. General funeral packages have a mantissa, and the mantissa is often 1, such as 50 1, 5 1 1 and so on.
Some young people don't have the habit of writing packages now. Generally, you buy ready-made commercial packaging and give it directly as a gift. Therefore, it is easy for some young people to misuse parcels, especially those who don't understand the world and manners. Once they catch one, it's easy to offend people.
Historical background:
China silk was also introduced into India. The earliest records were found in ancient books in India. In the book Politics by Kautilya, an Indian politician and philosopher, there is a word cinapatta, which means "China's bundled silk".
It is said that Kautilya was born in the 4th century BC. He was a courtier of the King of Yue in the Peacock Dynasty. This shows that China silk was imported into India in the 4th century BC at the latest. In addition, from many words in Sanskrit, it can be seen that the ancient Indians had a much more accurate understanding of silk than the Greeks and Romans, because they knew that silk was spun from cocoons by insects.