What did the poet Yu Xiuhua say about the concept of love and his own destiny?

Yu Xiuhua? A famous poetess was born with cerebral palsy due to abortion and lack of oxygen, which caused her to be born disabled and unable to move. However, she came into contact with poetry earlier, published many representative works, and won the Hubei Literature Prize and other honors. Most of her poems are love poems, which focus on the pursuit and acquisition of women in love and have a deep desire for love. She hates being bound by a loveless marriage and pursues what she likes bravely. Such a woman is undoubtedly eager for love in her bones, and may also be physically disabled. Her love is often not answered, and she herself says that the love she pursues is painful.

In August, Yu Xiuhua accepted an interview with the column "Out of Circle", telling her true love view and thinking about her destiny. Yu Xiuhua claimed to have been rejected by a man he had known for six years, so he hid to heal, drank too much all day and had no inspiration to write poetry. For her, winning more prizes is not as meaningful as being with the man she loves. She also talked about the reasons for being rejected, saying that it might be because of her ordinary appearance and physical disability. If there is an afterlife, she just wants to be reborn as a normal woman. But she doesn't want to trade her talent for appearance. She wants to have both. These words moved me very much. She knows her destiny and what she wants.

However, Yu Xiuhua is a man with his own insistence. Even if she desperately wants a good appearance and a sound figure, she will not give up her talent. She is a struggle between normal people and disabled people, which is what she said. Her talent and character are worthy of appreciation. She fully understands that she won't let go in love, which is what she pursues most. Yu Xiuhua is definitely a woman who dares to love and hate.

Yu Xiuhua is different from normal people, not only in body, but also in mind. Her thoughts are beyond ordinary people, and what she expresses is different from ordinary people. In her poems, she really exposes the world and reflects on life. She will never be bound by the body, and her soul is beautiful and free.