Before writing this article, I quietly thought about it and felt lucky at the same time. Because I can always meet someone who can casually mention me; Let me find the exit and direction when I am confused!
Language is really an art sometimes.
The ancients said: Good words are warm in three winters.
Everyone is eager to be understood, encouraged and supported. And why do those outspoken people always make people feel bad? It is subconscious, because they are eager to express and correct the direction they think is wrong; I don't know that they have lost their way, and the export hurts people! People on earth are good at living. In fact, everyone's heart is kind, but because of different environments and different foundations, different outlook on life and values have been formed at different nodes! That's why different forms of souls are formed!
I forgot where I heard a sentence, but I think it makes sense! "Everything in the present is a summary of the past!" Actually, this is cause and effect. So, when someone hurts you with inappropriate words, choose to forgive. This is all their past accumulation and habits, not intentional!
The Tao Te Ching begins with the explanation of cause and effect:
Tao can be Tao, but it is not the usual Tao. A name can be named, but it is not a constant name.
The beginning of the nameless world; Mother of all things.
Therefore, there is always nothing, so I want to see its wonders; There is always something, so I want to see it.
From scratch, thoughts are at work; From scratch, it is also driven by ideas. Therefore, we should learn to look at things with an egoless mentality and do things with an existing mentality!
After all, how high is this?
We are all ordinary people, and there are too many complicated emotions buried in our hearts, so we can only remind ourselves to pull back from the brink when we lose our way, and don't be driven by the magic of emotions! !
I am lucky because those who warm my heart give me unlimited motivation! Accompany me through the inner winter and get out of the haze!
I want to remember everyone's kindness to me, and then use this warmth to repay those around me who need it.
Even if it is a kind smile to a stranger, a seat to an old man with gray hair, a verbal affirmation to a heart that needs to be appeased, and a pleasant communication to a beloved family; Don't worry, don't be impatient, feel the warmth and love that you spread to those around you who need it!
These are the best interpretations of warmth.
Nice to meet you, my dear friend!
Appreciate all the good and bad around you. You taught me to grow and understand. It is precisely because of this that the mind is surrounded by persistence and warmth!
I hope I can become stronger, warmer and more loved!
Please allow me to be selfish, because being surrounded by warmth is really addictive and feels great! ! !
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