But in fact, I have always felt inferior at Peking University. From entering Peking University to leaving Peking University for 1 1 years, I have been living in inferiority. It was not until I left Peking University that I discovered that Peking University was the reason for my inferiority. But inferiority is also good. I learned two skills from my inferiority complex. The first is the ability to read people's faces. Inferiority depends on people's faces. Because I don't believe in myself, I always try to read other people's thoughts. So when I see other people's eyes and actions, I will be curious about their psychological state. Later, it was found to be very effective in management. In management, we must find out what employees want and how the relationship with employees develops. This is the first skill that my inferiority complex at Peking University brought me in 1 1. The second skill is to practice the mentality of not treating yourself as a person. It is because of inferiority that we have this calm mentality. Finally, even if I get things done, I won't go too far. What people fear most is the feeling of "flying". If you take yourself too seriously, you will easily offend people, look down on people around you, and sometimes you will be careless.
When I graduated from Peking University, my grades were not good. After graduation, our generation does not need to worry about jobs, which are all assigned by the state. As long as you can graduate with poor grades, the state will definitely assign you a job. At that time, I was looking forward to leaving Peking University, because I was never better at Peking University, and my classmates never paid attention to me and couldn't find anyone. I definitely can't leave Peking University, so I want to leave Peking University wholeheartedly. All the job volunteers I filled in were units outside Peking University, but I was finally left behind by Peking University. Why? Students with good grades went to such good units as the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, Xinhua News Agency and Daily Newspaper. At that time, Peking University had just started CET-4 and CET-6 public English training, which expanded from the original English department to every student in Peking University. There is a big gap in English teachers in Peking University. In the end, all those who couldn't find jobs outside stayed as teachers at Peking University, and I was left behind as a result. However, this is also arranged by God. If I don't stay, there will be no career as a teacher in the future, and there will be no New Oriental today.
I was depressed when I stayed at Peking University, because my classmates were looking for better jobs than me, but I was not discouraged. I have a great advantage, that is, whether I feel inferior, my grades are poor, or I am looked down upon by others, I have not been discouraged and have been working hard silently. And there has always been a tenacity in my heart, which may come from my childhood experience. I have experienced all kinds of difficulties, for example, when I was a child, I didn't have any food at home, so I could eat enough with some wild vegetables. This experience makes me feel that I can always get through the difficulties. I tell these old stories to illustrate a truth: when you have a tenacious spirit, when you are willing to work slowly for a goal and spend time fighting for your future, you will often achieve greater success than the fast runner in the end.
Sometimes, the more anxious, the more important it may be; The more important things are, the more anxious they are, and the worse they are. Therefore, you should take your time and do it seriously, so as to make things perfect. Since life is not a sprint, you can't run at the speed of a sprint or marathon. I ran a marathon, but I didn't finish it because I couldn't reach the finish line. I like hiking very much. Carrying a bag of more than ten kilograms, I walk dozens of kilometers every day. There is nothing wrong with the blisters on the feet. Take your time. If you are really tired, take a rest and look at the surrounding scenery. Just keep your goal the same. In this case, maybe you will go far and see more scenery than others.