Parent-child reading experience: the pleasure of reading (1) I often ask my son, "Are you happy?" My son always answers me with satisfaction: "Mom, I am very happy because I have a happy family." Then he will talk endlessly about what his happiness comes from.
Although he is less than 8 years old now, he deeply realized that happiness with parents around him is far better than the blank of only material enjoyment without affection. Although my father and I are very busy at work, we won't miss any chance to chat, play games, travel, study and read with our children. We respect children very much and get along with them equally. We must lead by example, lead by example, not demanding. We must do what our children are asked to do first. A harmonious, warm and complete family environment will certainly promote the healthy development of children's body and mind. Only when children are physically and mentally healthy can they realize their dreams.
What is a child's dream? With the growth of age, dreams are constantly updated, from the original painter to the later toy designer, to the marine biological scientists and writers ... In fact, such changes are closely related to children's habit of reading extracurricular books, especially after primary school, under the guidance of teachers, children's reading interest is like a little ant who tastes sweet and desperately wants to get in. His bedside is always piled with all kinds of extracurricular books, and he always watches them until we urge him to sleep again and again every day. In fact, from the inside, I am glad that my son likes reading. )
My son reads by himself when I am doing something. When I am free, I study with my son. The pleasure from it is endless. At the same time, the son's knowledge and vocabulary accumulation have also been greatly improved invisibly. We shared many classic picture books together, such as: I love you very much, Mifei picture book series, Guli and Gula ... The two books that impressed me the most: Su He's Warm Lion and White Horse. These two stories were told to me by my son. Although his language is ordinary, the story is very touching and fully reflects his son's character. We also explored many scientific mysteries together: for example, we bought a whole set of small Newton Science Museum as a gift for Children's Day. Unconsciously, he actually mastered a lot of knowledge in books, and often asked questions to test me and his father. I have to admit that we can't answer many of these questions. At this time, my son will skillfully find out which book the topic is in, and then turn it out and explain it to me and his father patiently like a little teacher. Really, that's it. Besides, we also read many children's books that children are interested in, such as The Wandering of San Mao, The Adventure of Puppet, The Light in the Attic, Wang Series, Zhang Qiusheng's Pinyin Fairy Tales, Aesop's Fables and China's Centennial Classic Books on Children's Literature ... These meaningful children's books have made children understand a lot about being a man and cultivated their sentiments. Except for the good books recommended by the teacher, we are all satisfied with the books that children like. Because I remember when my child was in the first grade, Teacher Yang said, "After reading the book, everything will be easy."
When we travel in the sea of books with our children, we feel extremely happy. Sometimes, when we see that the children really laughed that day, we seem to be children again. The great educator Suhomlinski told us that all those educated, curious, noble and trustworthy young people mostly come from families with a passion for books. Therefore, we will accompany our child to read more and more good books in the process of his growth, so that his spiritual food will always be sufficient.
Parent-child reading experience: the pleasure of reading (2) Most parents are not unwilling to take care of their children, not unwilling to spend more time with their children, but suffering from the pressure of life, busy time and their own knowledge structure. They don't know what to do, not don't want to, but can't. Parents hope to do their best in the growth of their children, and hope to get twice the result with half the effort and have a far-reaching impact. Is there a way that is both relaxed and interesting, which can meet the needs of parents and children, take into account the interests of parents and children, and inadvertently complete the education of children without becoming a mere formality and dogma? Parents can convey their thoughts, hopes and demands to their children in a quiet way, and children can unconsciously reveal their thoughts, expectations and puzzles to their parents through it, so that parents and children can exchange their thoughts and feelings in a relaxed and loving atmosphere. Is there such a road in the world?
Yes, it is parent-child reading!
Innocence is a child's nature. Children always have endless dreams. There is not a child who doesn't like listening to stories. Reading the same book, children and adults have different life experiences, and they all incorporate their own experiences and feelings in the process of understanding and accepting. Children are eager to hear stories, which is an excellent opportunity. Parents can convey care and love to them in their own way, and convey correct values and world outlook to them. When the child tells you, please pay attention, his little head will tell you secrets that you don't know!
Maybe some parents don't like reading, but even if they don't, they still like listening to stories. Even if they don't like listening to stories, they will have stories and have different understandings and views on the world. Telling children stories they have heard and thought about is another way of reading. Everyone is a writer and everyone is a different book!
Reading with children, reading the same book, and feeling the fun in the book, both now and in the future, are a kind of family happiness for parents and a firm cornerstone for children's growth.
The experience of parent-child reading: the joy of reading (3) Children are God's most precious gift to mothers. My mother's life has been enriched by having children, and I can grow up with my son in more than 6 years of parent-child reading. What a wonderful thing in life!
It is the inner expectation of every parent to expect their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. Like all mothers, we all want our baby to be healthy and smart. I can't remember when I started reading with my son. We hope our son will fall in love with books and reading as soon as possible, taste the pleasure brought by spiritual food and become a happy "bookworm". We began to read unbreakable baby books with our children, first reading simple picture books and then reading classic children's books. Now we can read "big books" independently in the second grade of primary school. We are deeply gratified.
In the process of educating children, we seldom take punishment, but I often use "if you are not so good, mom won't tell you a story tonight" as a "threat" to make him submit. Up to now, my son takes parent-child reading as the top priority in his leisure time every night or before going to bed on weekends. And I often remind him: "finish your homework as soon as possible, it's too late, and we won't have time to study with our parents!" " "
Children begin to go to kindergarten when they are over two years old. Every night before going to bed, we will tell stories (mainly fairy tales and myths) to our children with books. I remember buying a set of different Ksenya Goryachova Camilla and Superman series (dinosaur adventures, Roman adventures, Egyptian adventures, human adventures, space adventures) for my children under the recommendation of my friends. We started studying when our children went to kindergarten. My son loves these two sets of books, and he is deeply attracted by Ksenya Goryachova Camilla, Superman and other characters, and sometimes he pesters me to talk about them. I remember when I was in the first grade of primary school, my son often took out this set of books from the shelf to reread them. He couldn't help laughing when he saw the highlights. My son has deeply realized the happiness brought by reading!
In order to cultivate my son's brave character, I bought him a boy story: brave boys gathered here and read the story to him, hoping to become chicken soup for his spiritual growth. He always listens attentively to my reading. After reading aloud, sometimes we will have a talk.
After attending elementary school, my son was lucky enough to know Mr. Yang who attached importance to reading. Teacher Yang often recommends good books to children, and we buy books under the guidance of the teacher. For example, the golden children's books series, the most beautiful masterpieces series, Winnie's witch magic picture book series, colorful crow series, rainbow cat bridge series, Wang Wenxin's fairy tale series, Tong Xixi series and other books were all read by my son in his spare time during the year and a half after he went to primary school.
When my son was in the first grade, he liked dinosaur encyclopedia for a while. We read this book together in his preschool class. In the first grade, he was able to read the book independently. I remember he took it to school as an extra-curricular book.
From the first semester of primary school, The Journey to the West is my son's favorite to listen to his mother read aloud. We try to read it once every night. If I really need to sleep because I am late, I will try to read it to him half the time. As a mother, I feel particularly satisfied whenever I see my son's smiling face when he listens to my vivid reading. There is more leisure time on weekends, and my son often cheers at me and says, "Today we have plenty of time for parents and children to study!" " "
My son likes reading books because he reads aloud. Every time I buy a new book, he can't wait to open it, then give his mother a big hug and say, "Thank you, Mom!" " "He sometimes gets up earlier than me on weekends. After getting up, he sat at his desk and read the books that interested him most. There are several weekend mornings this semester. After getting up, I found that he was reading China Youth Encyclopedia (Science and Technology Volume) or A Brief History of Everything carefully at his desk, which surprised me.
Boys are adventurous by nature. I remember when we took our son to the movie The Adventures of Tintin in the first grade, he was full of curiosity about the role of Tintin. I bought him a full set of The Adventures of Tintin on Dangdang. My son finished his homework as soon as he got home from school, and read the whole set of books in less than two weeks in his spare time. Later, he would choose several books to reread from time to time. Adventures of Onion, Adventures of the Boatman, Little Elf Mouse and other books are all his favorite books. Besides classic children's literature books, my son also likes reading books on natural science. At one time, he liked to read the encyclopedia of children's growth (plant world, sea elves, animal paradise) and was very interested in all kinds of animals and plants in the book. He also taught himself insects. After watching "100" series and "Science Panorama Series", he often tests my relevant knowledge on the way after school. He is obsessed with the formation of the universe, black holes and white holes, how to brake planes, etc., and his mind is full of "why". Through reading, his son's imagination has been opened. He has repeatedly said that his future dream is "inventor".
After graduating from primary school, sometimes I choose some beautiful essays and poems to read to my son before going to bed. I bought a set of "American Language" and found that the articles in it were well written, so I often selected some articles to read to him. Occasionally, I read him poems from the Gardener's Collection and Birds' Collection in Tagore's lyrics, and he listened carefully.
Now the important thing for my son before washing at night is to go to the bookcase and choose the extracurricular books to take to school the next day. Every day, there will be an extra-curricular book he likes in his schoolbag. Because my son fell in love with reading and made friends with books, he never liked watching TV at home. Even when watching TV, he watches the programs of CCTV's science and education channel, recording channel and children's channel, which is very self-controlled. I took my son on a trip this summer vacation. My son didn't forget to take some books he liked in his backpack, and we read them happily together during the trip. This semester, I took my son to the hospital to see the dentist several times. While waiting for the doctor, my son sat quietly reading the extracurricular books he carried with him.
My life with my son is wonderful because of parent-child reading. We will continue reading and read more classic books in the future. I hope my son can become a lifelong companion with the book and help him find his future interests and development direction. Once again, I deeply thank my son's class teacher, Mr. Yang, for his help and guidance in reading!
Parent-child reading experience: the joy of reading (4) In the enrichment, busyness, happiness and harvest, the second grade has already passed half unconsciously. With the hard cultivation and infinite care of teachers, Ziyi is making progress and growing day by day. As the teacher said, "strive to achieve a better life." From the beginning of reading to the love of reading, this step is inseparable from the correct guidance and careful training of teachers.
First, the cultivation of habits
Good habits are the wealth of a child's life, the guarantee of success and the style of life. As the saying goes, "small success is nature, and habit is nature." Teachers often say that the formation of a person's habits is reflected in every detail of daily life. Some trivial things may be big things for them when they are growing up. No matter what you study or do, you should ask Ziyi not to procrastinate and be half-hearted. When reading extracurricular books, you should read one book at a time, taste and understand slowly, and avoid the bad habit of anticlimactic.
Second, the reading environment
Reading is an extension of classroom learning and a supplement to what the school has learned. A quiet and comfortable reading environment is very important for children. Look! Rows of clean and tidy books in the bookcase, convenient learning tools on the desk and ornaments full of cultural flavor can all create a rich reading atmosphere, so that children can unconsciously enter the reading state. Ziyi seldom watches TV at home, only occasionally during holidays, but she is never addicted. She can turn off the TV in time and do what she wants. We hardly watch TV when the children are at home. If children are learning to read books, practice piano and draw pictures, but parents are sitting on the sofa enjoying the happiness brought by TV, what kind of influence will it have on children? As parents, we should try our best to drive her with our own practical actions and influence her subtly.
Third, study happily.
"Beyond textbooks, there is no way out." This year, the school and teachers recommended many good books suitable for children, and also subscribed to some newspapers and magazines. XX will write the story title of reading on our blackboard every day, which is an incentive for her and can also help her master her reading progress. On the reading card, XX extracted many beautiful words. These good words and sentences Ziyi can't help sharing with me every day: What does this idiom mean? How to better describe the scenery? Is this word wonderful to use here? What other words can be used instead of that sentence ... when writing a diary, she will naturally use such good words. Through reading, children know a lot of knowledge and gain a lot of knowledge. Sometimes we are quite proud when we take exams!
When reading, we often read to you paragraph by paragraph. When reciting, it is better than whose voice is beautiful and expressive. XX sometimes corrects my pronunciation, and I sometimes remind her of her speaking speed and tone. In reading, we have gained a lot of happiness. Through such lively and interesting training, our little host has really improved!
In the future study, we should pay more attention to cultivating her habit of thinking diligently. Reading is not just reading. If you just read blindly, it will become a mere formality. Therefore, reading should not only be "read", but also be "absorbed". As the saying goes, "read from the mouth, think from the heart, and do from the pen."
We are experiencing the joy of studying with our children, accompanying their daily growth and witnessing her little progress. Now write down these experiences and hope to share them with parents of other children. I wish Xinwei a better tomorrow!
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