Introduction: In this life, we have to walk many roads, some are straight and smooth, some are winding, some are prosperous, and some are desolate. In any case, you have to walk the road by yourself, you have to endure the hardships by yourself, and no one can fully rely on you. There is no such thing as no way to go. Even if you trek alone and persevere in loneliness, as long as you are willing to walk, everything you have stepped on is the road. If you think you can't go through it, you can look back after you cross it, but it's nothing more than that. Don’t avoid it, don’t shrink back, the future will come.
1. Live elegantly: Maybe your life is not rich; maybe your job is not good enough; maybe you are in trouble; maybe you have been abandoned by love. No matter what the reason is, when you go out, please make sure you feel refreshed, hold your head high, chest high, smile, and face life calmly. As long as you truly stand up for yourself, no one else can crush you. Inner strength is the real strength.
2. One of the signs of maturity is the ability to tease. Not only making fun of the world but also making fun of yourself. I respect this attitude. Don’t be stubborn, don’t get to the bottom of everything, don’t be unreasonable, don’t try to change others, don’t demand others according to your own moral standards, learn to understand the strangest things, learn to appreciate the artistic style that is farthest from yourself, in a word, Learn to be casual, and only by being casual can you be tolerant.
3. One factor that affects retirement is greed, and another factor is excessive persistence. No one should be overly obsessed with the interests of life. The so-called not being overly persistent means not being obsessed with a certain aspect, a certain desire, a certain intention, a certain purpose, or a certain process. Any paranoia may cause people to lose their pertinent judgment, thus missing the beautiful scenery and delaying life.
4. You only have one life. In fact, there is no need to be too demanding or extravagant about anything. Just have your own happy home, do what you want, love what you want, and work hard. Live every day well... Look closely at the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court, look at the clouds rolling in the sky from a distance... You can look at everything indifferently, get rid of distracting thoughts in your heart, and cultivate the pure land of your soul...
5. Many mistakes in life are because we don’t persist, don’t work hard, don’t hold back, and then deceive ourselves that everything is fate. As everyone knows, no matter how good your destiny is, you will have to go through wind, rain and darkness; no matter how bad it is, God will reserve a piece of sunshine for you. As long as you look for it with your heart, you will not stand in the haze forever. Only a few people understand that life is beautiful because of its shortcomings. To be a wise man of destiny, if you miss the scorching sun during the day, look forward to the stars at night.
6. A strong person may not be a strong person. A truly smart person is one who knows how to compromise himself. What is strong is easy to break, but what is soft will last forever. "Willfulness is your biggest enemy." We should learn to improve our personality, control our emotions, and not be too willful. Although it is a bit painful, if you want to succeed, you must remember: mature people do what they should do, not just what they like.
7. Confusion makes our lives as boring and ubiquitous as water. Over time, the gurgling water seeps out and merges into a sea, and only we can ferry ourselves to the other shore. So, keep your eyes open and don’t let confusion confuse you. Only when there is a shore in the heart can there be a ferry, a ship, and a tomorrow.
8. Life is like riding a train. The scenery in the past is so beautiful that it makes you linger, but you always need to move forward and leave. Then you tell yourself, it doesn’t matter, I will definitely come back in the future. Look again, but in fact, often you will never go back. The passing time, the retreating scenery, and the people we met will eventually drift away.
9. There are some words that should not be spoken lightly to others. Being eloquent is silver, and keeping a low profile is gold. There are some things that should not be done hastily. Standing in front of others will make others jealous. A tree that is beautiful in the forest will be destroyed. ; There are some injustices, which should not be vented with anger. All things come together to form the state of the world, and forbearance and determination can control others; there are some small profits, which cannot be reached at will. Gain is a kind of short-term, and loss is a state; some things are ordinary, and cannot be thrown away, because The reason why it is light lasts forever, because silence can become eternal.
10. The world is interactive. If you give the world some love, the world will give you some love in return. If the world is a wall, the mentality is the echo wall. With what attitude you speak, it will be echoed in what tone. Troubles are caused by demanding too much from the outside world. If you love others, others will love you; if you help others, others will also help you. Sow happiness and reap happiness; sow resentment and reap pain. Those who love going out love to return, and those who have gone have good luck come back.
11. The word "giving up" does not simply mean giving someone a few dollars, but giving up our knowledge. When we look at a problem, don't think that everything you say is right. Listen to other people's voices. This is also called "giving up". If you can really give up everything and not be greedy, it is not easy. You can try to do it. Especially when you are arguing with others, it is difficult to give up your opinion without getting angry.
12. Failure is destroying valuable things for others to see; success is packaging valuable things for others to see. The secret of success is not being afraid of failure and not forgetting failure. Successful people come out of the purgatory of failure. The cycle of success and failure constitutes a wonderful life. The judgment of success and failure is not at the starting point, but at the end point.
13. Rolls-Royce, the only one in the world! Don’t ask yourself if you can do it, just ask yourself if you want it. If you want it, you will do it. If you want it, you can do it. If you can, you can do it. Always remember what you want, not what you fear. Choice comes before action, action comes after decision! Choice is greater than effort! Efforts in the wrong direction are in vain!
14. Demand less from others and more from yourself; force your life less and give more sincerity; chase less and be more peaceful; complain less and be more grateful and content. The sun is everywhere and the flowers of happiness are blooming.
15. We need to face two worlds, the world outside ourselves and our own inner world. Many times, what can be said is not necessarily something that you care too much about; what can be written down, you can actually let go; what is deep in your heart is what you can't stop. Don’t expect everyone to understand us, let alone force us to understand everyone. In the world, everyone is a different individual, and there is no need to force consistency. We are all passers-by in time, and we only stay true to ourselves.
16. Destinations gather and dissipate, just like clouds and smoke. Life and death are separated, and the way of heaven is natural. Think about it, how many friends you have no contact with exist silently in your address book. It’s not that I don’t want to contact you, it’s just that life is cruel, time and space change, and you and I will never meet again. Life is just a journey. You meet me by chance, and I meet you. On the road of spiritual practice, we each move forward. Rather than meeting each other, it is better to miss them; rather than getting entangled, it is better to let them go.
17. Suffering is life, pain is experience, tiredness is work, change is destiny, complexity is the world, simplicity is life, independence is maturity, patience is experience, tolerance is Wisdom is wisdom, tranquility is cultivation, perseverance is great wisdom, forgetfulness is blessing, giving up is gaining, doing is possession, learning is knowledge, humility is improvement, perseverance is success, cherishing is preaching, love It is compassion, precepts is blessing, following is detachment, and mindfulness is present.
18. Don’t be indecisive when you are sure about something; when you have chosen a direction, just go on the road and don’t look back. Let go when it's time to let go, so that you can free your hands and seize the joy and happiness that originally belong to you; some things cannot be waited for, and a moment's hesitation will leave eternal regrets. If happiness is not at the corner of the road, it must be at the end of the road.
19. Human life is like walking on a seesaw. You always have to start at the lower end and work your way up, and with every step you take, the next step becomes more difficult. The higher you go, the harder it becomes to find balance. Just when you think you are getting higher, you are actually starting to go downhill. It turns out that when you find the balance point of life, you are standing at the highest point of life; learning to master the balance of life is to hold the key to happiness firmly in your hands.
20. Be tolerant, and if you are more tolerant, you will be gentle and gentle. Be a low-key person and others can see your beauty without words. Being low-key, calm, elegant and wise is a combination of patience and resilience and a strong character. Being low-key is the wisdom of life and the detachment of temperament.
21. When you are determined to follow a path, don’t look left and right. No matter how beautiful the scenery is, don’t linger. You should be clear about your purpose. You should be clear about what and where you are pursuing with a steely heart. , remind yourself from time to time.
22. Persistence can make you laugh to the end. Giving up can give you better choices. But when do you persist and when do you give up? Don’t think about how much you have given, but think about what you have gained. If you are moving towards your goal step by step with your efforts, then you should persist. If you are just paying unilaterally and see no hope, then stop your losses decisively. The sign of maturity is knowing when to persist and when to give up.
23. If you feel that you have endless homework to review, it means you are working hard for your grades; if you feel that you have endless things to do, it means you are working hard for your future; if you feel inferior in everything If you are right, it means you are trying to catch up; if it feels particularly difficult, it means you are going uphill. Remember: Miracles have another name, called hard work.
24. Don’t wait, there are not many opportunities that truly belong to you, action is always more important than fantasy; don’t complain, face conflicts and problems head-on, blaming others can only prove your incompetence; don’t be promiscuous, have three close friends That's enough, don't try to be friends with everyone; don't be impetuous, travel and read when you have time, cultivate your body and mind with the environment, and enrich your soul with knowledge; don't regret it, as long as it is your choice, no matter how difficult and helpless it is, you must grit your teeth. Go down.
25. In the years that have passed, there are always perfections and imperfections; the desires of the past are always burning and expanding; the original dreams are always shattered and always gone away. There are many things that cannot be grasped and can only be condensed into memories; the ideal is very plump, but the reality is very skinny! But no matter how cruel the reality is, we must stubbornly believe that as long as we move forward tenaciously, all the haze will be blown away in the wind. Hold on, the sun is definitely not far away!
26. Life is like a musical note, with ups and downs and highs and lows. Everyone's life is like an eternal song, with ups and downs. Not everyone's life is smooth sailing. There are always troubles of one kind or another that can't be shaken off. Sometimes, what makes us unable to go on is often not the difficult path, but our state of mind.
If you lose the sunshine mentality, you will not see the light in front of you.
27. There are only six words to be a human being: understand, see through, and see through. We need to understand things about the world and human relationships; we need to see through the ups and downs of fame and fortune; we need to see through things like birth, aging, sickness and death. The world is neither big nor small. Once you have seen it all, you will become indifferent to it. Our whole life is rented time, working for life, seriously, but not too seriously. Many things never become simple just because we care too much.
28. Don’t mind too much about people who treat you badly. No one has the obligation to treat you well. The knowledge you learn is the weapon you have. You can start from scratch, but you cannot be unarmed. How you treat others does not mean how others treat you. If you cannot see through this, it will only increase your troubles. Relatives only have one fate, so cherish them. In the next life, no matter you love them or not, you will never see them again.
29. The inability to communicate and understand must be the fault of both parties. If you don’t understand, it doesn’t matter. Big trees have their way of living, and wild flowers have their own unique style! It's not terrible that we don't understand each other. What's terrible is that too many self-righteous people always try to convince each other and demand that others agree with their own ideas. If you can't achieve your goal, you will gnash your teeth, as if the other person is hopelessly stubborn. This kind of person is the one who really doesn’t understand.
30. Through hard work and bumps in the world of mortals, we have met many different kinds of people who come and go around us. Some people are just passers-by in our lives, coming and going without a trace; some people are destined to stay together for a lifetime, but they can't stir up a trace of emotion in our hearts and are dull; some people just glance at it, but take root in our hearts from then on. , even miss him for a lifetime.
Editor's Note: There is never time to look back, and there is never a story to repeat. Maybe this is a regret, but it is not another kind of possession. When we waste time and time again and waste time and time again, we will eventually realize that we do not always have time to do a lot of wasted and regretful things, so we truly know how to cherish and truly understand the meaning of happiness and stability. Stable happiness lies in peace of mind. Life is just a journey, you pass by me, I pass by you
1. On days without wind, clouds are the guards of rain; on days without dreams, waiting will waste time. In this world, no one has eternity for anyone else, just sing the song of romance, sing the song of tranquility, fireworks, fleeting years, mortal world, vicissitudes of life, encounter each other lightly, and forget them lightly.
2. No matter what the situation is, it is always right to accumulate yourself, or to form your own knowledge system by reading a lot of books and thinking, or to train your own skills to become a professional master. These accumulations will make your life become There is thickness. When he was selected by the opportunity, he was fully prepared and then began to release his energy bit by bit. Without this accumulation, even good luck would be nothing more than a flash in the pan, because there would be no capital to overdraw.
3. Whenever and wherever, you must understand that you live for yourself. Don't take other people's evaluations too seriously. As long as you have a clear conscience in everything, you don't have to worry too much.
4. Those superficial compliments are dust in the sun, confusing your vision; those criticisms and curses are also poisons that anesthetize you, and will eventually mess up your mind.
5. You don’t have to search everything to know someone, otherwise you will be suspicious. There is no need to say everything to know someone, otherwise you will have no friends. There is no need to be harsh on those who are responsible, as if they are harsh enough, they will be far away from others. There is no need to be humble enough to respect others, as being humble enough will lead to a loss of bones. People don't have to retreat all the way, because if they retreat all the way, there will be few roads.
6. No matter how dangerous or difficult the road is, never passively change yourself. Only in this way will you be different.
7. Wisdom comes from listening, and regret comes from speaking. People who are neither eloquent nor silent will be in great misfortune. A gentleman's words are simple but true, while a villain's words are complex and empty. Saying something without saying it is talking too much, and talking too much will lead to resentment; saying something without saying it is nonsense, and talking nonsense will lead to trouble. Think more, speak less. Don't rely too much on the function of language and forget the power of silence. Speech comes from nature, silence comes from wisdom.
8. Life is not for compromise. The more you retreat, the less space you have to breathe. Life is not for making do. The more humble you are, some happy things will be further away from you. You don't have to tolerate it again and again in front of some people, and you can't let others trample on your bottom line. Only by straightening your back will the world give you more feedback.
9. The color that suits you best is the most beautiful color in the world.
10. Fate is created by oneself, appearance is born from the heart, everything in the world is transformed into appearance, if the heart does not move, everything will not move, if the heart does not change, everything will not change.
11. In this life, I can only say that some things are unexpected, some things are reasonable, some things are uncontrollable, some things are unsatisfactory, and some things are unsatisfactory. Things are illogical, and some things come to light suddenly, but no matter what happens, never forget your own heart, your own conscience, your own character and your own principles.
12. If there is fate, time and space are not distance; if there is no fate, we will not be able to understand each other even if we are together all day long. A wrong start may not lead to a perfect ending. Nothing in this world is certain. They are all touching, waiting, and slowly searching.
13. A person must first be injured before he can understand, he must first fall before he can begin to grow, and he must first lose before he can gain. Many times, it is in the ups and downs that we learn to live.
14. If the heart is close, the words and deeds will be as natural as flowing water; if the heart is distant, the words and deeds will be as bleak as the trees in autumn. Don't be afraid of being separated by the world, just be afraid of being in the north and south!
15. The best thing for a person is to be calm, even if he lives alone, traveling through cities one after another, walking through streets after another, looking up at the sky after another, and witnessing separation again and again. Then when others question you, you can say to yourself with a clear conscience, although every step is slow, I have never flinched.
16. Time is short and the world is far away. From now on, we will walk through the mountains and rivers in one day and one night quietly.
17. Do you know why it is better to miss each other than to meet? That's because meeting each other can only make people mourn helplessly in the face of reality, but nostalgia can turn the destined lies into the beautiful fairy tales they once were.
18. If you don’t know why you are busy, you will be busy without ideas and waste time. If you don’t have big things to do, you’ll get hung up on the little things and forget to move forward. If you don’t have dreams in your heart, you will regard petty profits as the object of pursuit. If you don't know the yearning in your heart, you will feel unsure and guilty as you go. If you cannot be the master of your soul, you will become a slave to external love objects.
19. The most ideal life situation is actually this: struggle in a big city and live in a small city. Don’t struggle until your eyes are dim. You must know when enough is enough. Status, money and desires will never end, but life must be experienced with all your heart at the right time, because you only have one life, so don’t waste it.
20. Life is just a journey. You pass by me, I pass by you, and then we move forward and practice separately. It is very realistic to describe the feelings of life: life is just a journey, you pass by me, I pass by
1. The suffering of life is between gains and losses. A broad-minded person can take it and let it go. , have no intention of gain or loss, and naturally sit calmly; when the mind is calm, you can have the leisure to taste the happiness you already have. Happiness will not leave anyone behind, and sooner or later it will find you; if you complain less, you will naturally have more happiness. Talk about people's shortcomings, don't think about people's faults, don't think about people's evil, don't praise people's mistakes, hope others understand you, you must first be honest and tolerant to others.
2. The highest state of life is that only by being low-key can you act in a high-profile manner, be noble but not showy, be flashy but not flashy, speak modestly to benefit the world, and behave low-key to be a good person; being low-key means meeting each other on a narrow road and turning sideways. Live with others; the earth becomes the sea when the earth is low, and the people become the king when they are low. Only by being low-key can you minimize human interference and obstacles, and it will be easier to achieve career success. The lower you put yourself, the higher your status in the hearts of others will be. The higher.
3. A brilliant life is earned with your own sweat and built with your own hands. Believe in yourself. Only you will truly understand yourself. What should you give up to pursue? Usually when you get something In the past, we would all give up certain talents in exchange for it. It is a social reality that we cannot have our cake and eat it too.
4. Calmness is the sophistication accumulated through life experience. It is a state in which moral character, knowledge and comprehensive quality are naturally displayed. Nine times out of ten, unsatisfactory things in life make us unable to predict and have no way to force ourselves. However, in good times we are not surprised by favors and disgrace, and we are content. In adverse circumstances, we are not sad or sad, and we never give up. When we walk to the bottom of the water and sit down to watch the clouds rise, Only then can we understand the ups and downs of the world and see the true meaning of life.
5. Life is actually about using what you can give in exchange for what you want, including your hard work, time, emotions, and even life; when you can’t give anything, you can only be indifferent. Look at losses; in life, be generous with what you should give away and be calm with what you cannot keep. Only by looking down upon gains and losses and not hesitating between gains and losses can you live a free and easy life, and the heart can breathe freely. The freedom of the heart is the greatest happiness!
6. Life is a book, whether you are willing or unwilling, you must write it and read it, and you must write it well and read it well; there are many things on the road of life. There are many ups and downs, if you choose to face them, you will succeed; if you choose to avoid them, then you will fail; on the road of life, you must learn to cherish and cherish everything that is beautiful, because when you lose it, you will regret it Out of reach.
7. The right knowledge and view of life refers to the knowledge and view that can help us put an end to pain and troubles. Based on this view, we will adjust our attitude towards the world and life and the way we deal with others, from being narrow-minded and From rigid and full of contradictions to broad, gentle, harmonious and harmonious, from not harming oneself, others and all sentient beings, to helping all sentient beings, from pain to happiness, from reincarnation to liberation.
8. In life, each of us has our own opinions, but they are not very clear, or it is always unclear.
In fact, this is right. No one can really explain life clearly in a few words, because everyone has a different understanding of life and has their own focus; in this complex environment of nature, each of us They are all struggling to write their own lives
9. Life is just a journey. You pass by me and I pass by you. A person must clearly know his role and position, just like he knows his own face. . If you know your role, you will not mistake your identity and status for everything in life; if you know your position, you will not be arrogant or belittle yourself.
10. Life is a process of continuous reduction of desires and needs; the deep meaning of destiny is to learn to give up and return, to give up all impetuousness and noise, and return to inner peace; life is not bitter, but bitter There are too many desires, and the body and mind are not tired at all. What is tired is that there are too many burdens; no matter how hard it is, you must use today's smile to chant it into a calm memory; no matter how tired you are, you must use the forgetfulness of the moment to travel through the world of mortals and let it go. My heart is calm.
11. There will be many unexpected things in life, so you must have enough patience to face them. People are like this. They always have to experience something before they understand some truths, and changes happen through experience. Life is your own, and so is your life. Don't waste too much time comparing yourself to others. When you are worried, think about why you are worried, and you will find that it is not a big deal. If you worry about it, you will worry. We need to know that everything that happens is due to fate. If things go well, be grateful; if things don't go well, repent and let go.
12. There are some things in life. If you miss them once, you will miss them forever. There are always many accidents and coincidences in life. Two parallel lines may also meet one day. There are many accidents and misses in life. Hold on. The kite in your hand will suddenly break its string; the most eternal happiness in the world is ordinary; the longest possession in life is to cherish; the important thing in life is not the position you stand on, but the direction you are facing; the key to obtaining happiness is The best way is to cherish what you have and forget what you don't have.
13. There are always ups and downs in life. Since you won’t be happy because the water vapor rises, why should you be sad when it rains? We often want to get together with old friends, but we always It means looking for opportunities; we often want to hug our grown-up children, but we always wait for the right time; we often want to write letters to long-lost friends to express our deep friendship, or to let him know that you admire him. But always tell yourself not to rush. In fact, every morning when we open our eyes, we have to tell ourselves that this is a special day. Every day and every minute is so precious; in the future, one day it will no longer exist in her dictionary.
14. Learn from the sunflower and be a person who actively absorbs positive energy. In fact, there are not many big storms in life. Most of the time in life, we are looking for trouble. The so-called seeking trouble means absorbing too much negative energy. To learn from sunflowers, look wherever there is sunshine. Contact more outstanding people, talk more about healthy and uplifting topics, and think more about issues that are beneficial to life development. If your heart is full of sunshine, even if it rains in life, it will turn into spring rain.
15. There is no perfect score in life, just like carrying a basket that is never full. Because we are not full, we will keep picking and harvest more and more. The so-called perfection actually only comes from our souls. Only those who truly know how to tolerate imperfections can achieve more perfection. Classic sentence: You just rely on me to like you
1. No matter how you go, there will be a way.
2. When a person doesn't love you, there is no difference between persistence and entanglement.
3. With limited time and different personalities, there will eventually be choices and shortcomings in life, but it is difficult to say which ones are better and which ones are worse.
4. Time can leave wrinkles on the skin, but it cannot leave a trace on the soul.
5. The most heartbreaking feeling in the world is not falling out of love, but that you deceived me when I gave you my heart.
6. Even if everyone in the world loves you, there is still one person who doesn’t love you; even if everyone in the world doesn’t love you, there is still one person who loves you.
7. Everyone’s story has wonderful and heartwarming moments, as well as ups and downs, depressing and boring moments. All you have to do is use the greatest courage to live the life you want most.
8. Deep in your and my heart, there is also a radio station. As long as it keeps receiving messages of beauty, hope, joy, courage and strength from the crowd and from infinite time, You and I will always be young.
9. When you are with her, you feel like you are in love between the two trees when you walk on the road; after you separate from her, you feel that there will never be anything between the two trees. connect.
10. That person filled your story in your youth, but your story ended with separation. There is another person who has never been in your youth, but will continue to write happier stories in the years to come. Please cherish it!
11. You will meet many people along the way.
Maybe I am accompanying you for one stop, maybe I am just a passer-by, so I leave many commas in my life, one comma for each experience, one comma for each relationship, one comma for each period, and countless commas waiting, just for the final ending.
12. No two people are completely suitable. Love needs to be developed slowly. As long as we are willing to invest time and energy in this love, we will become more and more the right person.
13. Companion does not have to go to the end. The laughter that the other party brings to you on a certain section of the road is enough.
14. You can’t be an orange that everyone likes, you can only work hard to be the best one.
15. When a person who does not understand love falls into love, the outcome is destined to hurt others and himself.