If you want to be remembered for a longer time, please rely on your works, not your works.
If you treat every day of your life as if it were your last day, perhaps your time will be used more valuable. But if everyone knew exactly when they would die, think about how crazy the world would be. Some people would seize the time to do good, and some would seize the time to do evil.
In fact, no one can say for sure how far we can go. There are always too many variables in life. The only thing that can be said with certainty is that the socialist belief will remain unwavering for a hundred years.
Chinese people are extremely humorless and like to take everything seriously. Lin Yutang said it right. Are you tired of living like this? It is recommended that you chant Buddhist scriptures or rap when you have nothing to do, which can relax your nerves.
I am satisfied that I am still so incapable of doing things. Treat the people you like with a smile. Be perfunctory to bored people.
Many times, the reason why the past always seemed beautiful was that we added too many gorgeous clips into it.
In fact, neither you nor I can change anything. Meeting by chance, fate opens and ends.
Many things are remembered for a moment, but they are remembered for a moment; many things are remembered for a moment, but they are never forgotten.
There was a drizzle outside the window, but there was no trace of moisture on the ground. It clearly existed but ended up nowhere.
Things that I once thought were within my grasp always slip away from my palms like quicksand without even realizing it.
Time can change many things, making the original unbelievable become a matter of course.
Be honest with people you think you are good at, treat people with low moral education with a bad face, and never make a show.
I firmly believe that a person who has read a hundred domestic and foreign masterpieces and a person who has read a hundred campus novels will have completely different foundations and connotations when they stand together.
Think of seemingly simple things as complicated. Think of seemingly complex things as simple.
The scariest thing is to have a lot of time and energy but an empty head.
Many times, it’s not that we are unable to explode, but that it takes too much energy to explode.
They all take themselves too seriously. Eager to have yourself or your point of view recognized. The lack of self-confidence in the bones and the strong utilitarianism evaporate into a bowl of greasy spiritual poison.
So, the best choice for people of my generation who are as shallow as me is to shut up their belligerent mouths and do what they can. It would be best if they can achieve some results. If they don’t, don’t bring chaos to society. , that’s good.
When you reach college and are about to enter the working age, you will feel that it is a great happiness to be able to carry things behind your mother and act as a bodyguard.
Creation should be done naturally and in accordance with inner changes. So is life. People don't have to feel wronged.
If a person goes his own way according to the "personality" imagined and required by others, wouldn't he fall into another kind of lack of personality?
The people who change the world are those who actually do things, not those who just talk but don’t do anything.
The greatest insult to a poor person is to say that he uses unfair means to escape poverty.
It doesn’t matter how tired he is from flying, just look at how high he flies.
"Strength" can be proven, but "feeling" cannot.
Love is vague, it is like sand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it flows.
When you like someone, you have many reasons. When you don't like someone, you don't need any reason.
Wealthy families can create different environments, so they are diverse; unfortunate families are always similar, because they are single.
There are two more circles in the annual ring, and the story is still looping. What I'm sorry for and what I'm sorry for have faded.
You can tell by listening to it whether a song has good intentions or not; you can tell by just a glance whether a person has good intentions or not. To achieve this insight, you have to listen to many wrong songs and look at the wrong people.
If the connotation is so easy to express, then naturally it cannot be called connotation.
The sound of thunder is small and the raindrops are heavy. Rain and people like this style.
Understanding your own taste, character and other fundamental attributes is the most difficult thing.
In addition to pursuing happiness in life, don't be lazy in thinking; thinking, especially thinking about the ultimate proposition, is always easy to fall into pain and hesitation. After realizing life to a certain extent, everyone has to make his or her own choice on how to balance being born and joining the world, and how to come and go between steel and concrete and rivers and forests.
The year is coming to an end, and there is no regret left. Right, bitter, giving, wrong, sweet, getting...all are enjoyable.
Confucius was obviously a philosopher, but the Analects made him a master of aphorisms. Not every deficiency needs to be filled.
Even if the ending is destined to be together, we should not ignore the pursuit of a beautiful process... We should not let the mechanical life in the world dilute the romantic feelings of being born in this world.
Once bitten by a snake, it takes ten years to cross the same boat, and a hundred years of loneliness.
I squint my eyes not to see you clearly, because I am afraid that I will underestimate you in the end.
One drink and one peck, could it be a predetermined decision. I actually thought it only took me twenty-five years to meet you.
Time makes people understand which ones are hypocritical and which ones are ice-cold.
To laugh indiscriminately is to be insincere, and to cry well is to deceive.
There are too many things in life that you don’t understand, but everything has its cause and effect. Only the people in the game know whether they are good or bad.
It is a terrible thing to get used to a habit - you are not willing to resist.
I always feel that every trouble in life is a kind of tempering, so it is not a bad thing to say.
The reason why I like to give way to others, even to small people, is because there are too many blurred-faced people in my life who make way for me while I am running around desperately.
Human energy and time are limited, and doing many things at the same time will only mess up everything.
In fact, what I pursue is not a dream, but an ideal.
No matter how broad the scope of vision, no matter how rich the knowledge, no matter how deep the cultivation, I think that no one can fully understand a thing.
The so-called right and wrong and right and wrong in daily life are nothing more than many people thinking so, so they have become norms, morals, and then laws. What I feel is only what I feel, because you and I are both limited.
Many things are abandoned. There are too many regrets left behind to make up for it by turning around.
A lot of happiness and memories are so irreproducible. Isn’t it important to cherish what you have in front of you?
The ideals of young people are very similar to their hairstyle. They change it this way and then that way, worrying about gains and losses and not knowing what to do.
People are really different, not just their fingerprints. The so-called empathy is nothing more than a patchwork plan.
"Arrived as Promised" - Monologue
Will those short-lived encounters and short-lived beauty plant long-lasting seeds in my heart? I believe more and more that people connected by love will definitely meet again, at a certain time, at a certain place, in a form that I can't imagine now, or maybe in each other's minds, in the vast sea of ????galactic stars. , we have already collided with each other countless times, and met happily countless times.
"The World" - Monologue
We are in the prime of life
We are between rich and poor
We are intertwined between reality and fiction Intersection
Keep looking for any kind of encounter
Appearance is important, but it is not as important as what is inside. There are so many good-looking people, it's not unusual.
Behind all seemingly normal achievements, there is a need for sacrifice.
It’s normal not to be understood. Everyone will not be 100% understood. Sometimes you can’t understand yourself. What we do is: embrace those we understand and say goodbye to those we don’t understand. Those who don’t understand may suddenly understand at some point in the future, and we can embrace it at any time.
Question: What can be done to improve understanding between two people?
I think it’s about language communication. But if you are not essentially the same type of person, then language communication is of no use. For example...: You just need to eat it with people who like to eat coriander. You don't have to force people who don't like it to eat it with you, and don't feel bad about not eating it. At a certain stage, you will no longer be so eager to be understood by others. In fact, everyone’s life is their own, no matter whether they understand it or not...
Question: Do you compare your music with others?
I think you should not compare yourself with others casually, because if you compare with the genius masters of the past and present, you will easily feel inferior. Inferiority is a negative emotion. If you compare with the average person, It is easy to feel complacent and feel that we are pretty good. Complacency is also a negative emotion. There is no need for us to create this negative emotion. Just compare yourself with yourself. I am a little better today than yesterday, and this year is a little better than last year. That’s good.
In addition to satisfying my fans and friends, I also want to satisfy myself. Because I am not a pleaser, I will produce exactly what the market needs, and I will relatively give true self-expression.
Question: I am unwilling to accept the status quo at work and cannot find a way to improve. Do you have any suggestions?
It is actually difficult to give advice on this, because it is very dangerous to give advice to other people in life. Everyone has their own way to go. I will not feed you chicken soup for the soul, nor will I give you Feed poisonous chicken soup. Let me quote the advice of a predecessor. Zeng Guofan said eight words: "Be careful about your life and concentrate on your work." Be careful about your life, which does not mean appointments, but means that you have to accept yourself, the good and bad situations in life, and then Recognize where your abilities lie, and then get on with it. Many times you just think too much and take very little action, so you just stand still.
Question: One of my best friends always says bad things about you. I’m so angry. I hope you don’t take those gossips to heart.
Thank you! Just don't take it to heart. Firstly, I couldn't see it, and secondly, even if I saw it, I wouldn't take it seriously, let alone take it seriously.
The more you observe the ins and outs of a thing, or the essence of the thing, you will have your own insights into the words used to describe the thing. Then the next step is to talk about this writing skill. The refined and expressive words we see are often the result of repeated deliberation and are not achieved overnight. Of course, there are also cases where good luck comes by accident, but most of the time it is the result of careful consideration. Even the word "examination" itself has an allusion - Jia Dao asked Han Yu: "'The bird stayed in the tree beside the pond, and the monk knocked (pushed) on the Yuexiamen'. Is it better to use 'knock' or 'push'?" ...To sum up the creation of poetry and words, the artistry of language comes first from the observation of things, and secondly from the careful consideration of words.
People are always more likely to like people who like them, so you must let the other person know that you like him/her and express it. And people are more familiar with people and things they are familiar with, so let the other person know you well - for example, you often send him messages, send photos you took, texts you wrote, or chat about daily life, etc.
Question: What do you think the meaning of life is? Do I think life is meaningless?
What a big topic. Regardless of whether the human world is worth it or not, one thing is certain, we can only be in the human world for the rest of our lives, right? We should make peace with it as it comes. We must accept this reality and then look for meaning. You can say that life is meaningless, because all meaning is the product of human thinking and is subjective. Objectively speaking, the disappearance of this earth may be nothing to the entire universe, and it has no meaning, let alone human activities. So we don’t have to talk about the macroscopic meaning. We give our little lives some meaning through our own way of living. …So meaning is given through your life, your own choices, your own search. If you do nothing and live your life in a muddle, then the meaning of your life is to use your actions to prove that life is meaningless.
No matter which one you choose, there is a high probability that you will regret it in the future. ... Sometimes life is like throwing dice. You always have to dare to throw it out. The result after throwing it out often depends on luck... It is right to choose carefully, but you should not think too much. . The most important thing is that you don't regard "finding a perfect love" as a way to achieve happiness or an end point of happiness, otherwise you will be disappointed in the end. Everyone's happiness and salvation lies in themselves. The better you cultivate yourself, the fewer demands and demands you will have on the external world and others, and the lower your requirements will be.
Question: What behavior can a girl do to prove that she loves me?
No, there is no performance to prove it. .....If you don't believe something, you can always find a reason. There are many things that you just need to believe without proof. Just like many people believe that there is an afterlife, but I think they would never die on the spot to prove it to you, right?
Question: How to “know people”? I always make mistakes, whether with work partners or relationships.
Don’t take what he says too seriously. When you look at a person, look at his actions. Whether you are recruiting, employing or negotiating with someone, the other person may say something that particularly impresses you, but don't take it too seriously. You have to see what he actually does, and then judge whether his nature is good or not. Also, in fact, no one is perfect, you have to learn to "grasp the big and let go of the small". If this person is generally good, then it is not a mistake. I used to say, don’t look at people with a magnifying glass, that’s not objective, right? But now many people use microscopes to look at other people, and what you see must be bacteria. How you choose to see the world is what your world is like. There is such a truth: "If the water is clear, there will be no fish; if the people are clear, there will be no disciples." - Don't have too high demands on people or things
I will give you a piece of Huang Tingjian's "Poetry for a Shepherd Boy": Riding The cattle are far away from the front village, and the piccolo is blowing across the long distance. There are so many famous and wealthy people in Chang'an who are not as good as you if they run out of agencies. ——People should live leisurely and leisurely and not pursue fame and fortune.