Yu Xiuhua, who became popular overnight, has many labels on her body: cerebral palsy, peasant woman and poet? It is because of these informative labels that all her things are magnified.
People look at her life with a little "curiosity" and "condescending" mentality, but they are touched by her frankness and stubbornness.
After Yu Xiuhua became famous, she finally had the confidence to speak and the ability to choose. She did the most important thing: she ended her 2-year "illiberal" marriage.
To this end, she gave her ex-husband 15, yuan and bought him a new house in the village.
After the divorce, they were particularly relaxed. On the way back, they played a joke and got a divorce certificate, which untied the psychological shackles for 2 years. This poetess who has been pursuing freedom finally got what she wanted.
You are a disabled person. How can you live after divorce?
Normal people may not understand how important the word freedom is to Yu Xiuhua.
She is not free about her body. Cerebral palsy due to lack of oxygen, inconvenient movement since childhood, uncontrollable expression and stumbling language, Yu Xiuhua is different from others.
Her parents were going to let her stop studying after junior high school, but Yu Xiuhua went to the principal herself and insisted on going to high school. The principal confiscated her tuition and let her go to high school.
Two years later, Yu Xiuhua felt too bitter and tired, so he dropped out of school and went home.
At the age of p>19, my mother made the decision and married her to a man 12 years older, Yin Shiping, a "normal" honest man who came to be my son-in-law.
Yu Xiuhua didn't know what marriage meant at first. Her mother's love was so heavy that she had to take it.
At the age of p>2, she gave birth to a child and became a mother. Later, she asked for a divorce many times, but her parents threatened to die, but they refused.
Yes, you are a woman with cerebral palsy. You can't work in a part-time job, a small business or a field job. If you are divorced, how will your parents live after a hundred years?
At that time, only Yu Xiuhua knew about her inner exuberance. To outsiders, this is an ordinary peasant woman who can only mow grass and feed rabbits. If someone wants it, they should be satisfied.
what does she use to resist marriage?
I have never been in love, and my spiritual world is far from perfect
In p>215, a poem by Yu Xiuhua became popular on the Internet, and many netizens commented: I was shocked when I saw the first sentence, which directly hit people's hearts.
This is an "open" poem, which can set off a storm in the brain.
How precious love is. Yu Xiuhua longs to be loved, and longs for perfect love to save her from fire and water.
After becoming famous, Yu Xiuhua finally gained confidence. She and her husband have known each other for 2 years, so she doesn't know what can impress him most.
it's just money.
does Yin Shiping love Yu Xiuhua? Do not love, very disgusted.
As a door-to-door son-in-law, everyone in the countryside knows that the ancestral home field will be his after his parents-in-law have been in the past 1 years. As for his wife Yu Xiuhua, it is extremely forbearing to feed her.
In the p>2 years of marriage, there is one thing that makes Yu Xiuhua deeply upset, which is a great blow.
One year during the Spring Festival, Yin Shiping took Yu Xiuhua to ask for 8 yuan's salary owed by the boss. He said to her,
"Stop the boss's car when it comes out. You are disabled and he dare not hit you."
"What if we hit it?"
Yu Xiuhua asked. Yin Shiping was silent.
At this moment, all Yu Xiuhua's discontent and anger reached the top. This man, using his status as a vulnerable group, used it as a salary tool.
is her husband bad? He looks honest and has a typical "rural man" shortcoming, but he is not a big rapist.
They don't have any emotional foundation, and their spiritual cultivation is not at the same level. They are not the same people.
Yu Xiuhua's hands and feet are inconvenient, and his mind is full of poetry and distance, while Yin Shiping's hands and feet are complete, but only in front of him.
When you come back 15, this month and 1, next month, people can't stand the temptation.
When the divorce is put on the table again, there is still resistance, and the mother is still worried about her daughter, persuading her not to leave; Yin Shiping is working outside the home, making excuses repeatedly, just not going home to go through the formalities.
"Just give him money and say anything!"
Yu Xiuhua took out almost all of his manuscript fees and said to her husband, "I will give you 15, yuan when you come back this month (divorce) and 1, yuan when you come back next month".
Yin Shiping: "Then I'll come back this month."
In this way, in December 25, the two divorced and got rid of each other. Yin Shiping had a newly bought house and 15, yuan in cash, so it was not difficult to marry a "normal" daughter-in-law.
Yu Xiuhua doesn't care so much. Freedom is the most important thing. She can create with peace of mind and love anyone.
Thinking:
Is Yu Xiuhua's popularity inevitable? Talent without luck, obscurity for life, luck without talent, a flash in the pan will eventually become empty. She is unfortunate, how much freedom this wobbly life has bound her, and she is lucky. Her bold talents gush out and get recognition. When she has money and fame, she no longer needs to be ignored or "obedient". What money brings her is her confidence and the right to speak.
at the age of p>4, she finally became her own master.
Resources: documentary "Staggering Life"