I am not familiar with history or poetry, but from the literary works I have read, I know more or less the daily state of women. Many books written by men directly use women's names as titles, such as Anna karenin by lev tolstoy, Tess of the D 'Urbervilles by Thomas Hardy and so on, while women are hard to list. These books all praise women as kind and beautiful human spirits. Close the book, these beautiful out-of-touch elves are chopping suet in the kitchen. She was busy in the kitchen with her hair tied high, apron tied and cuffs rolled. In the patriarchal era, women's status is always so low. Even in today's seemingly equal age, the status of women is actually slightly lower than that of men. Influenced by traditional thinking, it depends more on the direct influence of economic level, that is, economy is everything.
A few days ago, friends chatted, and the topic of women never bypassed family, husband and children. Children are born with the same love, broken bones and tendons. And the husband, as the saying goes, is the husband within ten feet. When it comes to this topic, the atmosphere gradually becomes active, and all kinds of husbands are vivid. In fact, it is not only women who gossip, but also men, who may not know how to speak ill of their wives behind their backs. Most men eat what is in the bowl, look at what is in the pot, and even think about what is on other people's plates. Some husbands go out in bright clothes, and their shoes are as shiny as their hair. At home, they can sit and never stand, and lie and never lie. As the saying goes, there are thousands of fools in Qian Qian, and Tik Tok and Aauto faster are equally divided. I get bored sometimes. Is it that funny? In this way, you consume yourself invisibly. The key is to look. The voice is still so loud, and I still giggle from time to time. Everything in this world is balanced. Some people play and some people watch. Some people pretend to be crazy and sell stupidity, and some people become stupid with them. While women are busy from morning till night. It's a little light in the morning, get up to make breakfast, settle down the children, go to work by yourself, then go home from work to cook, and take time out to wash clothes and mop the floor. It is hard enough to eat three meals a day, so we should always innovate, otherwise the picky person will always be an armchair strategist. Therefore, every woman who hides her dream of chopping suet will become an excellent cook. From angel to chef, there is only the distance between literary works.
Woolf said: "I hope you can try your best to earn enough money for yourself, so that you can travel, do nothing, think about the future or past of the world, read, dream or wander in the street, and let your mind sink deeply into this stream." I don't know if this is the life that most women yearn for, but this is the life that I have always dreamed of. Try your best to eat and wear warm clothes. There is no other way to earn enough money to see the world and wander around idly. It's time to get up and make breakfast every day, otherwise it's time for the baby to go to school. Even settling down to read is often a luxury. After work, there will always be endless housework waiting. Everything is busy in one day, and it is a sad happiness to drag yourself to do what you like in the dead of night. With the growth of age, a good sleep gradually drifted away. I haven't experienced the feeling of sleeping till dawn for many years. I always wake up several times in the middle and then go to sleep in a daze. I often laugh at myself for waking up naturally every day, but waking up earlier and more frequently than others. I had a painless gastroscope and an injection of anesthetic that day, and I slept very comfortably. I joked with my colleagues that I had slept comfortably for so many years. It's really like Mr. Lin Qingxuan said: I don't think about anything when I sleep, and I don't think about anything when I wake up. In fact, among the female friends I know, this situation is not rare. Under the double pressure of career and family, even a good sleep is a luxury. How can you think, read and dream when you do nothing?
Woolf is lucky and unfortunate at the same time. Her luck comes from her parents' literary influence. At that time, only boys could go to regular schools, and her mother insisted on educating her children at home. I have developed the habit of reading since I was a child. At the age of 9, I began to practice writing with my father's encouragement. Unfortunately, Woolf lost her mother at the age of 13 and her father at the age of 22. She experienced two mental breakdowns in a few years, and literary creation became her spiritual lifeline. Although the appearance of her husband Leonard Woolf gave her great strength, she left more or less sequelae because of two huge mental breakdowns. Finally, at the age of 59, she wrote a farewell letter to her relatives and threw herself into the Seine River, from which she disappeared. Her thought has been pursued by women for nearly a hundred years, that is, spiritual freedom depends on material basis and poetic freedom depends on spiritual freedom. Therefore, more and more girls try their best to run forward. After realizing financial freedom, they proudly said: I can earn money, cook, wash clothes, eat whatever I want and do whatever I want. I can live well alone, and no one can stop me from seeing the world. I hope my girl will live like this in the future, with both spiritual freedom and poetry freedom.
Yesterday, when I was walking with my classmates, I passed Renji Bridge. Suddenly, she said that a man committed suicide by jumping off a bridge for 2000 yuan. I seem to have heard of such a thing, but the details are not very clear. In fact, 2000 yuan is not the last straw to crush a camel. Under the invisible pressure of life for a long time, the collapse finally broke out in an instant. Lijiang River witnessed the final despair. Only this despair was gently swept away by the river flowing day and night. When a red sun rises from the east, the water is still rippling as if nothing had happened. Students also said that now, I don't know why, I always feel that life is getting more and more numb. Eat and sleep after work, and don't even bother to move at home on the rest day. I joked that this is a symptom of many middle-aged women, including myself. After today, after tomorrow, every day Lack of enthusiasm and pursuit of life, I wonder if there is too much suet, and people have become numb. I asked her to try reading, but she said she couldn't stand it, and she wanted to doze off as soon as she picked up the book. I said maybe we should take a trip at this time, and she said maybe. But I think the child is still studying, so just bear with it and wait. There must always be body and soul on the road. Since you can't free your feet, let your soul travel to books for the time being. Yu Xiansheng's road is a book. Mr Yu Guangzhong also said: If you don't study, Wan Li Road is just a postman. I don't want to be a pure postman. ...
A woman chopping suet looked out of the window at the moment. The world in April was full of beauty, and Woolf's words came back to her mind: being yourself is more important than anything else.