毖(bì)The spring water also flows in Qi
I am pregnant with Wei Mi but don’t think about it
娈(luán)The concubines chatted with him and conspired with him
Go and stay in Jǐ (jǐ), drink sweet treats (jiàn) in you (nǐ)
A woman has a line (xíng), parents and brothers far away
Ask me some questions Gu Sui and his uncle
Go out and stay in the dry place to drink and eat in peace
Zaizhi Zaiju (xiá) and return (huán) Che Yanmai
Trent ( chuán) Zhen (zhēn) is harmful to Wei's faults
I miss the fat spring and sigh forever
Thinking about my hair and crying my heart is long
Traveling with words To write (xiè) I am worried
毖: The appearance of spring water flowing. Qi: Qishui in the Wei border flows into the Wei River. Youhuai: Because of missing. Juan: It looks beautiful. Zhuji: refers to the women surnamed Ji who are married together, and the surname is Ji in Weiguo.
泲, ni, qian, and yan: are all place names. OK: Marry. Contains: pronouncing words. Grease: The grease that coats axles. Jurisdiction: The metal keys at both ends of the axle.
Returning the car: turning the car back to Weiguo. Mai: Travel far. Trent: rapid. Zhen: To. Immaculate: Not to the point. It may be interpreted as not without, a word of doubt.
Feiquan, Xu, and Cao: all are cities in Weiguo. Feiquan is the "spring" in the first chapter. Write: except also. It has the same sound and meaning as "unloading".
This is a poem of longing for home. A woman who left her motherland to defend her country and married in a foreign country has been dreaming about her motherland all day long. She wanted to return to visit her motherland, but it was inconvenient. She was anxious and unbearable, so she had to "drive... "When I travel, I write about my worries" and use poetry to talk about my emotions.
? This poem has four chapters, with the thread of longing for return—god returning—not being able to return, highlighting the contradiction between thought and reality and expressing the depressed mood. The first and second sentences of the first chapter start with a spring running day and night as a metaphor for my everlasting homesickness. Three or four sentences that express my longing: Although I am married far away, I miss Weiguo day and night. Chapters two and three are based on fantasy portraits, recalling the wedding scene and imagining what the motherland looks like now. Chapter 4: Returning from the dream to reality, things have changed and people have changed, adding to the endless sadness of separation.
Why can't she go back to her parents' home? The woman in "Ge Tan" is excited and ready to go back to her parents' home. The preface to the poem says: "In "Spring Water", Wei's daughter longs for home. She married a prince and lost her parents. She longed to return home but could not, so she wrote this poem to express herself." According to the analysis of "Mao Shi Zhengyi", generally speaking, it has been A married woman has the right to return to her natal family as long as she is diligent and thrifty in running the household and respects the female teachers assigned to her by her husband's family. However, if you are a queen or a prince's wife, you can only return to Ning when your parents are still alive. Once your parents die, even if there are brothers in your natal family, you cannot return to Ning. Instead, you can send a doctor from your husband's family to your natal family to greet your brothers. According to the banquets and car driving described in the poem, the woman was a Marquis of Wei rather than a commoner. At this time, the girl's parents were dead, so she could not return to her country, so she wrote this poem.
? Presumably the queens and wives of the princes in the pre-Qin Dynasty must have a deep understanding of this sentence: "When parents are here, there is still a destination in life; when parents are gone, there is only a journey in life." Now when we talk about going back to our parents’ home, we will think of the popular singing and dancing song “Back to our parents’ home”: a chicken in the left hand, a duck in the right hand, and a fat baby on the back. The song is full of joy of returning home.
Although returning to one's parents' home has become a simple matter for most people, it is not easy for another kind of people: daughters who are married far away. Married to a foreign country due to love or work, and due to various reasons, unable to return as soon as promised. If you miss your home for a long time, you will also fall into pain. You will also feel regretful because you are unable to serve your parents and feel unworthy of your upbringing. That's why people who come here now have the warning "Don't marry far away when your parents are here".
? I couldn’t help but think of my experience with Na. In 2003, she left our hometown of Henan for Xinjiang because of love and I for work. We just graduated from college and soon became girls who married far away. In the past seventeen years, I have only been home a handful of times. When we met, we sighed more than once: If we could make a choice again, we would never marry far away. It's not that life is not happy or easy now, but it's because there are too many regrets when parents and relatives are not around. I often dream of returning to the small courtyard in my hometown, chatting and cooking delicious food with my parents, playing with my childhood friends, meeting my little sisters to go to the market in the town, and going to the river to do laundry with my aunts... But now I have thousands of The distance of kilometers blocks contact. When homesick, we can only console ourselves through phone calls and video chats.
Reading "Spring" again, I once again experienced the sadness of marrying far away.