We came to this world because we had to. In the end, we leave this world because we have to leave. In the days in between, you must also be burdened with unshirkable responsibilities and obligations. No one asks you whether you are willing to bear them or whether you want to face them. This is everyone's life, without exception.
I particularly like Maupassant's passage in "Life": Life may not be as good as you imagine, but it will not be as bad as you imagine.
I feel that people are both more fragile and stronger than you imagine. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I can burst into tears with just one sentence. Sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a lot. Since we are lucky enough to come into this world, we should be grateful and work hard to make the most of the opportunities God has given us, appreciate the splendor of the world, and cherish every unexpected encounter in life.
Everyone is getting along well and living a good life every day. Don't live up to the opportunity of being a human being, don't miss every wonderful scenery in life.
The reason why people suffer is because the height is not enough and the structure is too small. If the height is not high enough, all you will see are problems; if the layout is too small, all you will struggle with is trivial matters. If the height is high enough, you can see all the small mountains; if the layout is large, all you can see is the scenery.
Some people always feel that they are unsatisfactory in everything and inferior to others in everything. In fact, life is not easy for everyone, and everyone’s life is like a person knowing whether the water is cold or warm. What we see is that others are wearing bright clothes and angry horses, and are wanton and happy, but we don't know what kind of environment they have been in, and how many times they have struggled in ups and downs, surrounded by dangers.
Human circumstances and risks coexist, and efforts and success coexist. While we envy others’ high-quality lives, have you ever thought about whether you have enough ability to take corresponding or unimaginable risks? ? Do you have enough perseverance to work hard to achieve what you desire, even if you face difficulties that exceed your expectations?
There is no need to envy others. Everyone has different origins, different backgrounds, and different opportunities, so they create different lives. There is nothing that cannot be figured out, nothing that cannot be seen through. There is no need to look up to others. You must know that we are on the fifth floor looking up at the unattainable heights on the tenth floor, but we don’t know that you are also looking up at the heaven and earth on the first floor. On the tenth floor, the heights of the tenth floor are extremely cold, and on the first floor, there is a vast plain.
The reason why people are tired is because they think too much, are too competitive, and have too much vanity.
Care too much about what others think of you, and your attitude towards yourself.
We overestimate the ideal state of life when we only meet each other for the first time, and we underestimate the reality that time has already changed everything.
In fact, because of different perspectives and different starting points, there are ten selves with different personalities among the ten people, and there are one hundred completely different selves among the one hundred people. We all care about it, and we care about it. Come here? We don’t need to compare with others’ excellence, only with our past selves. Then every day now is a period of improvement.
If the heart does not move, the wind will not do anything.
If you are not injured, you will be fine for years to come.
The best cultivation and cultivation for adults is to be emotionally stable and to be able to discover the value and meaning of existence in any environment. Don't give up a day's good mood just because of one thing, and don't take away a day's happiness just because of someone else's words. It's unnecessary and not worth it.
The reason why people are entangled is that their ideals are full and their reality is skinny. Don't let yourself go, use regrets and regrets to doubt and deny your current life; use ifs and assumptions to imagine and set the future.
This is unrealistic.
We don’t have to stand at the age of 50 to regret our 30-year-old life, nor do we need to stand at the age of 30 to regret our 18-year-old youth. We should not judge ourselves from the height of later times. This is unfair.
Try to make peace with life and accept what has happened, the things that make you sad and happy. Try to reconcile with yourself and accept yourself at different times, including your imperfections.
We should not set future life, because the future is so variable that sometimes we are caught off guard and we have no time to plan and correct. We don’t know which comes first, tomorrow or the accident.
What we can do is to seize the moment, cherish the people in front of us and around us, and live every day you have is enough.
The reason why people are empty is because their hearts are too complicated. When everyone comes into this world, they are naked and pure babies.
If everyone was as flexible and tolerant as water, then the world would be so clear and bright. Water purifies all things. No matter how things are in the world, it accepts them with an open mind and no regrets, and then slowly purifies itself. A human being should be as simple and honest as water. There is a gap in your heart, and you have no way to treat others. Just like a clear spring, it seems unfathomable at first glance, but it is pure and transparent.
As a human being, you should also follow the trend, be gentle like water, be affectionate, loving, and pure.
Living a simpler life and living a more realistic life will be much easier and happier.
Yang Jiang said that the quietness of the years is only a moment, and the chicken feathers on the ground are daily life. Even if the world is occasionally cold, there will still be flowers blooming inside. Lightly happy, quiet love. Deeply understood and lightly relieved. What you see in the distance is the scenery, what you see up close is life. We are all working hard to live, and we hope that this life will be peaceful and peaceful, with only words of warmth and no words of sadness.
About the author: Qiangweihuakai, whose real name is Wang Li, is from Chicheng County, Hebei Province, and the columnist of Yudrop Literature. A post-70s generation who loves the fragrance of words and is obsessed with prose and poetry.