5052/安安
There are less than ten days left in 2018. The days flow through the fingers like fine sand. Standing at the end of the years, looking back at this year, I always feel that I should use some words to record it.
There is a saying that goes something like this: only a review can lead to a comeback.
.01.
2018 should be considered an easy year for me, because for most of the year, I was just doing one thing - preparing for the cost test division.
2018 is another stressful year, because this year, I only did one major thing: certification!
Now that the results have not come out, I feel very uneasy. But within the scope of my ability, I have achieved as much as anyone else's efforts. As for the results, I will leave it to time.
Why am I so persistent in taking the professional license exam after I am nearly 40 years old and become a full-time mother of two.
In fact, it is also due to a concept that I have always mentioned in my recent sharing with Uncle Cat - before you want to decisively choose the life you want, everyone must have a guarantee. ability.
That’s right, with an excellent skill at hand, this is the last resort for you and me. With it, you and I can pursue the poetry and distance you want more bravely and fearlessly.
Living at home these years, I feel anxious and agitated from time to time. Ultimately, my inner insecurity comes from my increasingly less independent financial ability. In this impetuous society, women have more requirements and challenges. You have to be able to enter the hall, you have to be able to cook, you have to have armor, and you have to have weaknesses. You are a mother of children, and you are still yourself...
After careful consideration, I chose to regain the profession that I once relied on for survival and persisted in taking the cost engineer qualification certificate. On the one hand, I have nearly ten years of experience, and on the other hand, it can indeed be the best stepping stone for me to return to the workplace in the future. And even if I don’t go back to work, it can still relieve me of the pressure of paying social security.
I used to always want to take the exam, but I never really put my heart into it. I found it so difficult that I could hardly pass it. That's the case with many things. When you don't really put your mind to it, it feels very difficult and almost impossible to achieve.
But this year, when I really devoted myself to studying, I discovered that it is not as difficult as I thought. As long as you pay enough attention, everything is controllable.
From March 24th to October 26th, 7 months, more than 200 days, spanning the three seasons of spring, summer and autumn, whether it is windy or rainy, go out early and come back late. In the library, with many young people, the learning atmosphere is really good.
Many evenings, after the library got off work, I went to the book corner in a square near my home. When I arrived, there were many people, and they gradually dispersed around me every day. I was immersed in the topic and forgot everything around me. I was the last one to leave every night, and was responsible for turning off the lights in the library corner...
Each of the four courses was over 400 pages long. I listened to the course materials no less than four times, and I also did the real questions over and over again. Repeat four times and mark them all in the book.
This is the first time in these years that I am preparing for the exam so seriously. It feels good to be serious. Everything is under your control, and you won’t be completely confused about what to test like before. Although there were some mistakes in the end, which resulted in me being confident about only two doors, I already have a solid foundation even if I try it again next year.
The following are some of the questions I have done.
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About community participation.
In 2017, I participated in Uncle Cat’s Xiaozao Group, and this year I participated in Uncle Cat’s reading camp. Whether it is Xiaozao or the reading camp, people are improving and sublimating bit by bit spiritually. Most of the veterans in the group are very serious and awesome people, and they all have the ultimate altruistic spirit.
They all practice Uncle Cat’s 18 words to the extreme - read good books, meet great people, write diligently, love sharing, value practice, and always be altruistic.
I have this obsession in my heart - making yourself better is the key to solving all problems.
Due to preparation for the exam this year, I participated in few reading camp activities. The "Intensive Reading Theme Camp" from the end of March to the beginning of April read one book a day, and then output 800 words of insights based on the reading content every day, and used "whale" to Check-in" tool for text and voice check-in.
I just completed the task on time and did not get any other special results. This made me feel somewhat frustrated. In addition, the preparation time for the later examination was tight and the study pressure was high, so I gradually stopped participating.
A high-quality community will grow very quickly if you can devote yourself to participating and practicing it. I have seen that many cat friends have greatly improved their personal abilities as time goes by, and many of them have also begun to cheat in their lives.
Some of them have found their future direction in life, and have become more determined in their goals. They have linked to various outstanding people through the community. After a few months in the community, many people have slowly found a niche that suits them. field, and followed the talented people to pursue their future.
As a member of the deep diving party, because there is no participation, of course there is no link. I can only climb high buildings in the dead of night to find some essence to digest and internalize it into what I need.
In other words, after reviewing the past two years in the Mao Group, I have gained a lot psychologically. At least I have clarified the path and direction I should stick to. Compared with the confusion and panic in the past two years, I feel much more confident now.
Put your mind at ease, try to stay away from anxiety, and only compare yourself with your past self. If you persist for a long time, you will definitely make a qualitative leap.
? .03.
Uncle Cat also mentioned to us in his sharing - time is my life. In this life, I must stay as close to good things as possible.
"Those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black."
Bodo Fisher, the author of "Puppy Money" said: "Those who sleep with dogs are destined to be Grew up with fleas. ”
If you want to succeed, you must pay attention to social interaction. Since this year, I have consciously improved the quality of my circle of friends. Only by working hard and becoming stronger can I have the capital to get close to people with higher energy.
In the past, I was full of negative energy, worrying about family chores all day long, and my friends were limited to "short-term communication between parents."
Facts have proved that you can only set your sights Get out of those trivial matters, do your best to upgrade your circle of friends, look up, and pay attention to those who are better than you. The most important thing is that you have to become stronger day by day. Only when you are strong can you have the capital to gradually reach those who are better than you. Strong people.
I remember that in the early days of the reading camp, I had articles published on "Plagiarism Jianghu". Occasionally, I would post an article to the reading camp, and it would be the best of the day. At that time, some cat friends would take the initiative to add me, and we would also talk to each other about some growth methods. But then I gradually withdrew from writing, and those who linked to me gradually became stronger. As time goes by, you will find that you have nothing to say when you go to the link. If you are polite, you will say that you are busy. He was rude and didn't reply. It's not difficult to understand. People follow people who are better than themselves.
Why do I mention this. In fact, what I want to say is that no matter what, you must keep yourself on the road of self-improvement. Even if you only stop occasionally along the way, it will be difficult to catch up with the previous group of people again. ?
? . 04.
I once read a passage that said: There is essentially no difference between working hard and not working hard, only extreme hard work makes the difference. Only by working extremely hard can we bring you more good stories and make your life different.
Working hard will leave a way out for yourself, and you will feel that if you don’t do it today, you will still have time to do it tomorrow, but extreme effort is different. Extreme effort is like a normalized effort, normalized Effort has a characteristic that treats all self-discipline as a habit, rather than relying on strong perseverance to promote it.
You have to believe that wherever you exert force, your gains will be there.
Time is our life, we must invest it in high-value people and things to get rich returns.
I feel safe and hope that we will practice to the best of our ability to make ourselves better.