? The growth of a child is a one-way ticket, and the growth of a child is irreversible and unrepeatable. Accompanied by children, we only have one chance, and if we miss it, we will miss it forever. The company of parents is the best gift for children. It is irreplaceable by anyone, and it is also irreplaceable by other substances. Children who are accompanied by their parents have a strong sense of security, self-confidence and good interpersonal relationships.
? Cai Xiaoxiao, an expert in family education in China, has trained six outstanding children, including five doctors and one master/kloc-0. He said that his career was his father, and he "managed his father's role as a career". In his view, the growth of children should always be the first in all daily affairs. He accompanied his children to study, travel and experience life. Participate in every moment of children's growth. Father Gilbert, a professor of psychology at Harvard University, once said in an interview with Yang Lan, "Ten years later, you will regret missing a project today, but you will regret not spending an hour with your children." US President Barack Obama said that he was elected president for the first time. During the election campaign, he said that he was very proud of one thing. In the election campaign of February1month, he never missed a parent-teacher meeting of his children. Dear parents, have you attended all the children's parent-teacher conferences? Do you know all the children's teachers? Do you know children's preferences? Do you know the children's classroom? It is reported that a student was sent to the wrong school by his father because his mother usually picked him up. That day, his mother had something for his father to send him. The father let the child get off in front of a school, and the child couldn't find the school after getting off. Finally, the traffic police helped him to school. I personally see parents holding parent-teacher conferences in the wrong classroom, because they don't know which class their children are in, and some don't even know what grade their children are in. We keep saying that we love children, but where is the love? Is love right? How should we love children?
? First of all, companionship is the best love for children.
? Before the age of three, home is the whole of the child, parents are the most attached objects of the child, and home is the most secure place for the child; Children go to kindergarten and primary school, and home is their night time; After attending junior high school and senior high school, for children living in school, home is the weekend; When a child goes to college, it is winter and summer vacation at home; After marriage, home is the Spring Festival for children. In this way, our time with our children is numbered.
? Enjoy the happiness and happiness of getting along with children, and slowly appreciate every scenery and mood with children. What a happy thing it is to leave good memories. Childhood is the first half of a person's life, and happy childhood memories are the gift of a child's life. "Some people use childhood to cure their whole lives, while others use their whole lives to cure their childhood". Companionship is the best psychological nourishment for children. Accompanying is mutual, nourishing is mutual, and giving is mutual. The process of growing up with children is also the process of self-growth and self-cultivation of our parents.
Secondly, companionship is the best education.
? The companionship of parents is the best way of education, in which children will be subtly influenced by their parents' good personality. "Raising" means "supporting". High-quality companionship is the foundation of establishing a harmonious parent-child relationship. Relationship is education, and there is no education without relationship. Relationship precedes education, including education, and transcends education. The warm companionship of parents will make children feel love and respect, and gradually establish a free and harmonious parent-child relationship; With a solid parent-child relationship, education will become relaxed, happy and natural! Accompanied by their parents, children will develop good habits and sound personality and grow up happily; Children will develop in the direction expected by their parents. A survey in the United States shows that children who get high marks often eat with their parents.
? Finally, talk about the IPad or you who accompanied her childhood.
Companionship is the best love and companionship is the best education. Then what is companionship? Is it companionship to be with children? That's definitely not! Many parents come home from work, share a room with their children, play mobile phones and do their own things. Children don't care about their parents and parents don't care about their children. This is not companionship! Real companionship is to be with children, do things or games that children are interested in, and let children feel the love and warmth from their parents. High-quality companionship affects children's future development. High-quality companionship includes time guarantee, love and emotional input, and doing meaningful things together. Parents' companionship should be intentional, not "hard": "Being in the Han" is perfunctory, not companionship: effective companionship needs to understand children's deep feelings.
? When children study, parents quietly read some books and write some words; When the child is watching TV, talk to him about TV stories and social news; On the way to school, I talked and laughed with my children. The child said that the school was very happy and interesting, and parents also shared their experiences: when the child was sad, he silently accompanied him, gave him a warm hug and gave him some comfort and guidance; When a child is happy, listen patiently and share his happiness. Give children the opportunity to speak, communicate effectively with children, understand children, understand children, and walk into their hearts. Opening children's hearts and solving problems without education is the highest state of education.
? Some parents say that they are busy making money and want to give their children a better life. Have you heard the story of a little boy asking his father how much he earns an hour? After the child knew the answer, he bought his father's time with pocket money, hoping that his father would play with him. Are we a little sad after hearing this story? What did the little boy tell us? Is money the most important thing? Do you think children need money most? What children need most is not money, but love and the company of their parents. Money is not a child's best wealth. Lin Side said to me, "What should I do if all the children are like me?" ? If you are virtuous and have more money, you will lose your ambition; My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. What did you leave the money for? Foolish and rich, benefit to increase it. "Companionship is the best gift for children. Companionship is the best love, and love is the best education. Without love, there is no education: parents are the guides and coaches of children, and the growth of children needs our company, our example, our listening, tolerance, respect and understanding; Watering children's hearts with the milk of love in companionship, urging children's feelings of love, and letting children learn to learn and learn to be grateful. As long as the child always has a grateful heart, it is bound to be accompanied by warm, confident, firm and kind-hearted life quality.
We are not the richest parents or the best parents, but we can give our children the best gift-companionship! Let's grow up with our children, let them bathe in the sunshine, and let flower of life grow up happily!