1. My child, you are not the center of the world. Mother revolves around you, father revolves around you, grandparents revolve around you, grandparents revolve around you, but not everyone revolves around you. You are not the center of the world. One day you will find that you are no longer the center of attention, or even ignored or discriminated against. My child, this is all normal. Are you ready?
2. My child, you are about to become a teenager, do you know? In human life, teenagers are the most important. This is a time full of life, enthusiasm and expectations everywhere. In this era, you are about to look forward to your future. Set a goal for yourself. Don't put pressure on yourself. Just do whatever you want to do boldly. Because I don’t want you to regret it in the future, regret your youthful whiteness and muddy goals. Your goals contain your innocence, your hopes, and our common expectations. That is the most beautiful thing in the world, and we will work together to fight for it.
3. You must be mentally prepared. There are too many things in this world that you cannot get, so you must have a correct and good attitude. You can calmly read philosophy and Buddhism and truly learn the dialectical relationship between success and failure. Temporary failures are inevitable on your way forward. We will not blame you or put too much burden and pressure on you. No matter how many or how big the troubles are in your heart, you should have a tolerant heart and always face life and others with a smile. You should know that there are too many people in this world who are poorer and more miserable than you, so there is no need to look for trouble.
4. Parents can give you life, but they cannot live for you; parents can pass on knowledge to you, but they cannot guarantee your academic excellence; parents can point you in the direction, but they cannot lead you there; parents Parents allow you freedom, but cannot be responsible for your freedom; parents can teach you to distinguish right from wrong, but they cannot make decisions for you; parents can buy you beautiful clothes, but they cannot guarantee that you have a heart that loves beauty; parents It can give you love, but it cannot guarantee that you will feel it.
5. I hope that my daughter will study humbly, learn more where she has strengths and keep improving, and learn more where she is weak, and strive to have noble moral sentiments and good cultural qualities.
6. Watching you grow up, your mother and family will take better care of you, allowing you to learn to walk with your own feet, eat with your own hands, and express with your own mouths. The journey of life has already begun for you. But don’t worry, we will accompany you through it all. But the final road requires you to walk with your own feet, and no one can replace it. Go forward steadily step by step and firmly believe in yourself: there is no road longer than your feet, and there is no mountain higher than yourself.
7. Dear child, when you were a child, we told you stories of heroes, not that you must become a hero, but that we hope you have a pure character; when you were young, we asked you to Contact with poetry, painting, and music is to fill your soul with noble tastes. These noble tastes will sustain your life and prevent you from forgetting the fragrance of roses even in the harshest winter.
8. Baby, you are the beginning of a beautiful fairy tale at this moment. The story in the future may be all-encompassing, but it must be beautiful, like the gorgeous morning light. There may be wind and rain, but there will definitely be bright sunshine to greet you. I wish you health, happiness, intelligence, innocence and kindness.
9. Dear baby, no matter how old you are, no matter how far away you are from us, no matter what you do in the future, in our hearts, you will always be the concern of our parents! No matter when and where we are, we are willing to share the joy and sorrow of your life with you! My baby will always be healthy, happy and joyful. This is your parents’ wish for your growth. Let your parents’ love continue in you.