Article 10 of the Ten Commandments of the Old Testament: Do not covet one's home; Do not covet a man's wife, male and female servants, oxen and donkeys and all that he has.
You sleep in the same room as others. If it is someone else's wife, it is not in conformity with the doctrine. If it is not someone else's wife, excuse me, isn't this person someone else's daughter? A woman is guarded by her father before marriage. If you sleep with someone else's daughter, aren't you greedy for other people's things?
It is clearly pointed out in the Ten Commandments that one should not covet one's own … and all his possessions. As long as other people's daughters are not married or become monks, they are guarded by their fathers and belong to others. After marriage, she was guarded by her husband. You slept with someone else's daughter without their consent, which is not only a matter of lust, but also more serious.
Can those who say "see things from God's perspective" really see things from God's perspective? Don't end up doing evil in the name of God, and then console yourself that God will forgive you. That's really stupid.