There is a popular saying in society now: it is difficult to give birth to a noble child in a cold door. Although many people hold a negative attitude towards this, there is no denying that this statement has some truth. The so-called poor family: nothing more than poor family. This kind of family economy is not good, mostly at the level of food and clothing. A little better, I can eat and wear warm clothes, and I am afraid that the poor will starve to death. Of course, such a family has similar relatives, and there are basically no highly educated talents and no stable jobs. Relatives who mix well probably work outside and earn a little. Generally, they mix at home and farm.
In such a family, children learn by themselves. If they learn well, they are diligent. If you don't learn well, you can only sigh that the child is "stupid", then complain and accept it helplessly. Parents will not put too much pressure on children who are not good at learning, because there are usually other children to look forward to. Children who study well become the hope of the whole family, even the hope of the whole family. However, learning is not smooth sailing. Because of poverty, children in rural areas have little extracurricular reading, no hobbies and only diligence. With the deepening of learning and the increase of learning difficulty, many children with excellent grades will feel hard and their grades will drop. Once children's grades are found to be declining, parents tend to be very anxious, put pressure on their children, and even think that their children don't listen to lectures in class. Some parents even complain to their children in the name of love, how hard their parents usually work, how much they have paid for this family and so on. Children will feel great pressure after hearing these words, and even feel guilty and feel sorry for their parents. Under such pressure, if you are strong enough to survive, it may usually be accompanied by this pressure for a long time. Children's courses are very heavy. How can they learn well under such great pressure?
It's hard to go to college. Most rural children can only attend one university, and few children can attend two. Only a handful of people can be admitted to key universities. When choosing a major, it has reached a critical point. Because there is no guidance, rural children are completely unfamiliar with many majors and don't know what to do after reading this major. I am also confused about my future. Most of the children in some colleges and universities will choose technical courses before they enter the factory, because rural children can bear hardships. Some children in grade two schools will listen to their parents' opinions and choose doctors or teachers, while others will choose other flashy occupations and not engage in such occupations. Specialty determines the future, especially children in rural areas.
After graduation, children who choose a career as teachers or doctors can easily find jobs, so that their jobs are stable. In the eyes of adults, they are regarded as promising children. After other children come out, they can only go to work in ordinary enterprises. Because there is no skill, the school is average and the competitiveness is weak, many children will change jobs frequently. Even if they can find a good job, there is almost nothing left except rent and daily expenses, which is very stressful. Fall in love, get married, etc. Repeatedly delayed by these factors. Because of financial constraints, rural children dare not resign easily, dare not start businesses easily, have no connections, have no background, and only struggle.
Children born in poverty want a way out, and there seems to be no choice but to study. Reading can at least change your destiny, you don't have to work as hard as your parents and live at the bottom of society. Only children born in poverty are still difficult to develop greatly, and the pattern of parents has greatly affected the development of children.