1. I finally understand that some roads can only be walked alone. Those who have invited people to go with them will spend time together in the rainy season, but one day they will eventually be separated at a certain ferry. Walking alone on the worldly road, the green radish brushes the skirt of the clothes, and the blue clouds wet the promise. Mountains and water can be forgotten, and the sun and the moon can have nothing to do with each other. At that time, there was only one person's joy in the floating world, and one person's long flowing water.
2. It is said that the world is blurred, and we often lose ourselves in the sea of ??smoke, and the fireworks that surround the world always choke you and me from breathing freely. Thousands of sails have passed, and when I look back on those years, that pure dream has already faded away. Now, what is left behind by the years is only desolation.
3. Some people say that falling in love with a city is because there is someone you like living in the city. In fact, falling in love with a city may be because of a vivid scenery in the city, a childhood memory, or a familiar old house. Perhaps, just for this city. Just like falling in love with someone, sometimes there is no need for any reason, no antecedents, nothing to do with romance, just love.
4. We should believe that everyone comes to the world with a mission. No matter how ordinary, insignificant and insignificant he is, there will always be a corner where he will be put aside, and there will always be someone who needs his existence. Some people stay in their own small world, guarding simple stability and happiness, and live their lives without any disturbance. Some people, in the chaotic world, perform the joys and sorrows of life with gorgeous gestures.
5. It only takes a moment to meet someone, but it often takes a lifetime to fall in love with someone. It is not a fault to meet by chance and then turn around, nor is it perfect to be in love forever. In the destined encounter, we really have no other choice.
6. Everyone knows that there is no such thing as a banquet that lasts forever, but they still promise forever. How far is forever? How many people have asked this question. Some say it is always tomorrow; others say it is forever; still others say it is eternity. Maybe they were all right, or maybe they were all wrong, or maybe nothing in this world lasts forever. You once traveled thousands of miles to make a covenant, and one day you will suddenly leave, and it will be a lifetime before we meet again.
7. Many people have become slaves of time, following time in a hurry, forgetting what they wanted to pursue in the first place and what they have got now.
8. Waiting for a colorful flower event is happiness; building dreams with the person you like under the sun is happiness; guarding a period of warm and cold time and growing old slowly is also happiness.
9. Staying is a moment, turning around is the end of the world.
10. People who are destined to be together, no matter how far apart they are, will eventually get together and join hands in this world. People who are not destined to each other, even if they are close at hand, are like strangers and have no chance to meet.
11. Time passes by in such a hurry that some stories are written yesterday before they can truly begin; some people become passers-by before they can truly fall in love with each other.
12. Everyone’s life is filled with scenes of drama, whether true or false, long or short, happy or sad. The me you played in this scene, and I played you in that scene, each smiled and each shed tears. The end of one scene means the beginning of another, so we don't have to be too immersed in yesterday. Whether you remember it or forget it, life is a reincarnation. It comes and goes without ever stopping.
14. It is said that time is the best medicine. When you feel that you are unable to do what you want, it is better to leave everything to time. It will make you forget everything you should forget and let you start from a story carelessly. Go into another story.
15. The past is gone forever, but why do people always miss the past uncontrollably when they are sad and melancholy? Maybe it’s because we are all too ordinary and cannot withstand the humiliation of ordinary life day after day. I think back when we were standing at the farewell ferry, how many people said the words that they would never look back. In the end, it is those who need to rely on memories to survive, turning out the yellowed youth book and reading it over and over again.
16. Life is always praying for perfection. I feel that good tea needs a good pot, good flowers need a good vase, and a beautiful woman should be matched with a talented man. But I don’t know that sometimes shortcomings are a kind of beauty, and being casual can make you more happy. Too delicate, too perfect, but it will make you spend your days in shock. Even if you plan to survive in this world, don’t expect too much and don’t ask too many questions about why. And when every road is a deserted path, everyone is a passer-by, and every memory is the past.
17. A person has to experience too many separations and separations in his life, and those sudden separations often leave people unprepared. We don't meet each other everywhere in life, but sometimes we turn around and it's really a lifetime. From now on, we will never see each other again.
18. A person will encounter countless encounters in his life. Some people are scenery that you will forget after seeing them. Some people take root in your heart. Those inexplicable feelings are all caused by unreasonable fate. The fate is deep and shallow, and it has been known for a long time. No matter how you and I practice in the future, we can’t change the way we were at the beginning.
19. Happiness is such a luxury thing. There are always too many regrets in life, and it is not up to you and me to indulge in happiness.
20. People say that when you carry your luggage, you are a passerby; when you put down your baggage, you have found your hometown.
In fact, everyone understands that there is no absolute stability in life. Since we are all passers-by, we should walk through the ups and downs of the world with a calm and indifferent heart, and watch the ups and downs of the world with a smile.
21. There is a hidden wound in everyone's heart. This wound is not easily revealed to others, and one does not dare to touch it easily. I always hope to be hidden in the deepest corner, covered by the moss of the years, shielded from sunlight, rain and dew, thinking that one day the wound will fade away with time. Maybe it's true. Time is the best medicine in the world. It can heal your wounds and make the once deep-rooted love become blurry.
23. Only when a person's life ends can he find his true destination. For the rest of the time in this world, he will always be a passerby.
24. Dynasties change, mountains and rivers change owners, and everything in the world will change. In fact, we don’t need to work tirelessly to pursue eternity. Live in the present, do everything you want to do, go to every city that is destined to you, see every touching scenery, and cherish every passerby you pass. Even though I went through ups and downs and suffered all the hardships, I had no regrets.
25. No matter how you hide it and want to retain the innocence of youth, time will still ruthlessly leave the marks of growth rings and wind and frost on your face.
26. Everyone’s life is a journey, but the path they take is different, the direction they choose is different, the emotions they pay are different, and the stories that happen are also different.
27. Keeping a memory is only for a moment, but cherishing a memory is forever.
28. Time is fleeting, and it will never come back. The scenery we have seen may be able to be seen again, but the people who have passed away will never look back. No matter how many thoughts you have, except for the occasional wandering in your dreams, the rest of the time he is just a vague impression.
29. Many love affairs in the world are actually just lies spread by time, but we are willing to persist in a lie without regrets, even recalling it for the rest of our lives.
30. Only when one gets rid of loneliness can he regain the hustle and bustle; only after he has gone through all the sorrow can he see joy again; after he tastes all the bitterness, can he regain his sweetness naturally.
31. There are too many things in life that cannot be copied, such as youth, emotions, happiness, health, and many past beauties and past tragedies that cannot be repeated. This is fine, since you have had it before, there is no need to fear losing it at this moment. Some people say that the longer a person is on this earth, the more he will lose. Because we watch the people around us leave us one by one, and we are unable to bring them back, but the new greenery is always incompatible with us. Perhaps this is the price of the annual rings, the price that everyone must pay. Time does not allow you to bargain. What should be dispersed will eventually no longer belong to you.
? 32. There are too many things in this world that we cannot let go of. Even a person who has lost all hope may still have a glimmer of hope for survival before dying. For example, you can see a ray of warm sunshine, an ant strolling in the garden, or a piece of green grass swaying in the wind. In just a moment, he may understand that life is so good. Life is often like this, there are many truths that cannot be understood through hard thinking and meditation, but in an ordinary moment, everything has the answer.
? 33. Life is unpredictable, with ups and downs, but once it has passed, everything will be calm. Whether it is sadness or joy, the time that has been passed cannot be repeated. The things you were once obsessed with may no longer be worth mentioning, and the people you once loved may have become strangers. These seemingly simple truths can only be understood through personal experience.
? 34. We all know that although the colorful spring scenery is pleasing to the eye, it cannot match the changes of the four seasons. It will always open when it is time to open, and it will eventually end when it is time to end. But we can plant a bodhi tree in our hearts and it will remain green all year round.
? 35. Maybe we are too busy and ignore the fresh scenery in the noisy market, or maybe we are always missing some important fragments in the process of cultivation. Perhaps, life needs to be left blank. A broken lotus and missing moon are also a kind of beauty, and a simple meal is also a kind of happiness. Life is not about begging, so no matter how embarrassing your life is, you must go on calmly and live up to your life.
? 36. Therefore, many things that seem to be owned may not actually be owned. Those who seem to be leaving may not actually be leaving. If there is a definite destiny between cause and effect, one day, everything that should be forgotten will be forgotten, and everything that should be reunited will be reunited. It's just that time flies by in chaos, and by that time, it may have changed to another way, another state of mind. And people who are walking around in search of dreams meet on the crowded road, maybe they are strangers, maybe they are familiar; they may be dependent on each other, or they may be divergent.
? 37. Not all the past is beautiful, there are still many traces that we want to erase but cannot. Some people say that you can choose to forget the painful past, but even if you forget it, it does not mean that it really does not exist. Since it was a process that could not be omitted, I had to endure it silently, just treating it as an ignorant mistake made by a young and inexperienced person.
? 38. No fate can last a lifetime. No matter how gorgeous the banquet is, it will come to an end one day. Knowing this, why bother to gather and disperse the two Yiyi. We are all passers-by in the scenes of life. Some people come to this scene, and some people are lost to that scene.
If we can't keep the promise, don't make it lightly. Even if we grow old, we can still taste the cup of wine brewed with worries and happiness alone.
? 39. A landscape, a passerby, a story, no one has to explain to anyone when leaving. Since we are destined to be separated, it doesn't matter whether you and I at the end of the world are well on our own, whether the weather is sunny or not.
?Lin Huiyin is happy, Xu Zhimo has loved her all her life, Liang Sicheng has been with her all her life, Jin Yuelin has been waiting for her all her life...
?Before marriage, Liang Sicheng asked Lin Huiyin: " There is a saying, I will only ask this once, and I will never ask again, why me?" Lin Huiyin replied: "The answer is very long, I will spend my whole life answering you, are you ready to listen to me?" After marriage, Liang Sicheng once said I humorously said to a friend: "There is a saying in China: 'Articles are good for oneself, and wives are good for others.' But for me, my wife is good for myself, and articles are good for my wife."
?One day, Liang Sicheng came back from abroad. Lin Huiyin told him in frustration: "I am very distressed because I fell in love with two people at the same time and I don't know what to do?"
?Liang Sicheng After hearing this, he was very shocked, and an indescribable pain enveloped him. After a night of ideological struggle, although he was in pain, but thinking of the advantages of another man, he resolutely told Lin Huiyin: "You are free, if you choose Jin Yuelin , I wish you happiness forever." Lin Huiyin not only did not leave him, but was extremely moved and said something to Liang Sicheng that no man in the world could refuse: You gave me the unbearable weight in my life, and I will use it. I will pay it back in my lifetime!
?If a hundred people come to me and ask me the criteria for a perfect woman, then I will answer a hundred times that it is Lin Huiyin. Yes, she is already a legend and a woman who can only look up to. She has long been separated by such misty years and the deep affection of those men, and her beauty has become a silhouette on the page of the book. Everyone knows the story of her and Xu Zhimo. He wrote such a poem for her, but in the end she still didn't choose him. However, compared to Xu Zhimo's fierce love, Jin Yuelin's deep affection is more touching.
? Wang Zengqi wrote an article "Mr. Jin Yuelin", which contains such a detail. It is said that many years after Lin Huiyin's death, Mr. Jin suddenly and solemnly invited some close friends to a banquet at a Beijing hotel. Everyone was puzzled. Before the banquet started, he announced: "Today is Lin Huiyin's birthday!" Everyone in the audience sighed.
? He never married for her, because in his heart, no one in the world could replace her.
? Even many years later, when he was already eighty years old, nearly half a century had passed since the beautiful days of his youth. But when someone brought a photo of Lin Huiyin that he had never seen before and asked him to identify the time and place where the photo was taken, he would still stare at it for a long time and the corners of his mouth would gradually bend down, as if he was about to cry, and his throat would move slightly. , like there are thousands of words choked there. In the end, he remained silent and held the photo tightly, as if he was afraid that the person in the photo would fly away. After a long time, he raised his head and said to others like a child pleading: Give it to me!
? At Lin's memorial service, the elegiac couplet he wrote for her was particularly unique, "A poetic Qianxun Waterfall, an April day in the world forever." April is always used in the West to refer to the bright sun, abundance and abundance. In his heart, she was always the most beautiful April in the world. He still remembered the scene at that time. He told people that the memorial service was held at Xianliang Temple, and that day, he never stopped crying. He slowly spoke, his voice gradually getting lower, like a book slowly turning to the last page.
? Someone asked him to write some words for the reprint of Lin's poetry collection. He thought for a long time, many expressions flashed across his face, as if he remembered many things at once. But in the end, he still shook his head and said word for word, all my words should be said to herself, I can't say it. He paused and continued, "I didn't have the chance to say anything to her myself. I didn't want to say it and I didn't want to have such words." After he finished speaking, he closed his eyes, lowered his head, and became silent.
? Many years ago, I read such words and choked up in tears. People of that era cherished and cherished relationships very much. Loving someone was probably a long-term, lifelong thing. Therefore, love must be cautious but lasting.
? He never said to her that he would love her forever, nor did he say that he would wait for her. He just did it all silently and wordlessly. I love her but don't want to let her make a painful choice, so I can only stay silent like this. Because, if you can say it, it's probably not true.
? But what we see most nowadays are men who care about everything they pay. Efforts must be rewarded. Calculating love is like calculating the exchange rate of a fund. No one is willing to do a losing business. If you feel that you have suffered a little loss, you will definitely ask for it back. Faced with such a terrible reality, it is really disheartening to look at the touching and long-lasting love in the 1930s.
? Love is certainly worth cherishing, but it is not difficult for someone to love you all the time. But the most beautiful and best thing is that there is someone who will still think of you when he is old, so deeply that he will never forget you in his life.
? He will think of your appearance when you were young. In his heart, you will always be the seventeen-year-old little fairy in white clothes. He will think of a gentle smile on his lips unconsciously. , sighing and saying, she... Then there was silence. Under the silence, there were originally thousands of words, but there is no need to say them anymore. In his heart, you are the only one in the world forever. It’s been a month. There are many ways and reasons for love. I don’t want to blame anyone here, but I think Jin Yuelin’s story sounds more shocking.
? Jin Yuelin never married for Lin Huiyin, lived next to each other for a long time, and also coordinated the conflicts between their husbands and wives. He stood not far from Lin Weiyin all his life, silently paying attention to her vicissitudes of life, and accompanying her in the joys and sorrows of life.
How wonderful it would be if life were just like the first time we met!