Since the prevalence of Confucianism, which expressed the bondage of moral codes about emotion, people's courtship has turned to a euphemistic and implicit way. Han won his lover's heart in pursuit of Zhuo Wenjun's "Phoenix Seeking Phoenix". The pursuit of phoenix here is obviously an implied move, not a naked pursuit; And the other person can understand this hint, which also shows that they have a heart. This reflects the romance of ancient courtship.
Courtship with ancient poems has become the first choice of most ancient people, and it is very useful. Han Yuefu folk song "Evil"? Evil! I want to know you, and I will live long. Mountains have no edges, rivers are endless, there is Lei Zhen in winter and rain and snow in summer. Heaven and earth are one, but dare to separate from you? This popular love poem shows the protagonist's deep yearning and sincere love, which is moving. Li Chi Ngai's Operator? I live in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River and you live in the lower reaches. I miss you every day, but I can't see you, so I drink Yangtze River water. The water of the Yangtze River flows eastward for a long time, and I don't know when it will stop, and neither will their lovesickness and parting hatred. I only hope that your heart is the same as mine, and you will not live up to this mutual yearning. ? This poem is more subtle and profound, expressing the parting and hatred of acacia incisively and vividly. Tang Li Shangyin's Short Message to Friends in the North on a Rainy Night? When you ask about the return date, it's hard to say, evening rain, Manqiuchi. When * * * cut the candle at the west window, but talk about the rain at night. ? Borrowing scenery to express emotion is implicit and meaningful. The expression of emotion in ancient poetry is subtle and beautiful, which gives people an elegant and romantic feeling. Such courtship methods are all moving.