Mr. Lu Xun said that "Jiao Da of Jiafu doesn't love Sister Lin", which is often quoted by everyone, indicating that the concept of love is branded by class. I really beg to differ. Will there be a man who doesn't love sister Lin? Either he's an idiot or he has a sexual orientation problem. I have seen a view that the criteria for choosing a spouse for young men in rural areas are the kind of village girls who are healthy, strong and "man-like". This is a little bullshit. Good health is of course important. But if we find a farmer, give him a beautiful girl like Sister Lin, and give him a rough-handed squatting village woman. Which do you think he will choose? A buddy in my hometown has a true story. When they met, they only looked for good-looking ones, threatening: "I'd rather wait on the kang when I'm sick, and I'll keep my whore, as long as it looks good." Later, I did find a beautiful one. I have had encephalitis, and my face is always glistening. I don't usually work in the mountains. I can only cook one meal and catch an episode. But this guy always keeps his promise. Of course, he doesn't really want to find a slut. I'm just saying.
Beauty is beauty. What has utilitarian orientation and realistic consideration is no longer pure universal beauty.
However, I soon learned that some people really don't like Sister Lin.
Why don't some people like Daiyu? There are probably several reasons:
First: Daiyu is ill and in poor health.
Number two: She's so mean.
Third: she is too young.
Fourth: persecution paranoia.
The vulgarity of the first commentator lies in his bones and is not worth refuting.
The second one, the most typical one, is that she canceled that Granny Liu was a female locust. Granny Liu was originally attached to wealth and came to ask for something. Rong Guofu used her class position to make fun of her relatives condescendingly. The reason for laughing is the most vulgar and pathetic place of human nature. It is to realize your sense of superiority, but it may not be superior in fact. ) It's exactly what each needs and communicates on an equal footing. I can't say who is mean. Even this time, the title is "Yuan robbed a mother locust". After reading these answers carefully, Dai Yu is not so mean as the author. If it is too true, it is more obvious that the commentator is making much ado about nothing.
You said Daiyu was mean, but Xiangyun sneered that she was a real celebrity. It is disgusting to say that Daiyu is hypocritical and lofty. Daiyu was only joking, so why should Miss Shi sneer! Daiyu said nothing. The truly lofty Miaoyu is even more funny, saying that Daiyu is a layman. Bitches always accuse others of being bitches. This seems to be called "projection" in psychology? Miaoyu herself, what Wang Kai's cup, (so-and-so's urinal, hee hee), is simply vulgar. Where's Daiyu? "I don't want any smelly man's!"
The third one is too small. I just like watching each other have sex. If your GF or wife doesn't have sex with you, it means: at least she doesn't love you or even like you, but she doesn't care about you at all. Do you really want a woman who is not jealous? Then you are either a slut or a Woodenhead who doesn't understand amorous feelings.
Look at Daiyu's "Ignore him, it will be all right in a minute", so it is the third one. It turned out that she was not waiting for Baoyu to go with her, but actually stopped outside the door to wait for Baoyu. That's why I heard Baoyu say this.
Remember her play called "Sister-in-law"? Remember when Baoyu looked at Baochai's arm? Is Daiyu stingy? She doesn't even ask for anything. She won't force her husband to be the number one scholar, get a doctor, or make a fortune by speculation. She only hopes that Baoyu has him in his heart. You don't even have to say anything. I know everything you have to say, and there is nothing else to say.
Most people who like Baochai are snobs; Most people who like auspicious clouds are temperamental people; Most people who like Daiyu are men among men. Because Daiyu is a "flower soul" and the daughter among daughters. Who else in the red chamber is more feminine than her? Say one. Come out and listen.
Article 4: Looking at Daiyu's funeral words, "360 days a year, the wind, frost and sword are fierce", Sister Lin often makes a mountain out of a molehill and always seems to make trouble without reason. It seems that everyone else has a problem with her. In fact, the Jia family is the eyes of the rich from top to bottom, and they are all upset. Daiyu is alone, with no money and no one. It is really weak grass. It's not her turn to pick the rest of the things. Baoyu, a childhood friend, is not her turn. Mrs. Wang couldn't wait for Daiyu to die early. She said Qingwen's eyebrows looked like Sister Lin's, and she also cursed Qingwen's "daughter's consumption". Daiyu is not consumption. This is a perfect test of Freud's theory. It is easy to copy and inspect the Grand View Garden, which is almost equal to Daiyu. Baochai is a relative of Guo Rongfu, so I won't look it up. Is it Daiyu? Fu thought Daiyu was one of her own. Does Grandmother Jia really love Daiyu? That's not true. The granddaughter Jia Mu wants to choose is Baoqin. Chapter 57: In Biography of Menstruation, Daiyu heard from Aunt Xue that the old lady was going to give Baoyu a treasure piano. What does she think?
Perhaps the reason why I don't like Daiyu can be added: She is so talented.
Indeed, the author is most partial to her. Daiyu's works are all outstanding. Wang Guowei's "Words on Earth" said: All scenery words are nothing more than love words. Perhaps the situation of Xueqin is heart-shaped, which is closer to Daiyu. Therefore, writing poems for it is the best. Even if it is perfunctory, it is different from the seasonal works of ordinary people. The Grand View Garden provides propositional poems. Only she is Wu Yan. Even if you are dealing with work, you are above others. Five words and seven methods of peach blossom funeral words. It can be described as both. Even the poems written by Haitang are unique. Li Wan is a Taoist, so she doesn't comment on poetry. She said Baochai was the first because Baochai's poems had status. "Cherish your beauty and hide the door during the day" is very good, but this is a poem. Not everyone wears famous brands and puts on LV POSE, so they are better than others. Who is more like the wife of the county magistrate and who is more like the wife of the president? What highlights Baochai's identity is her catkin poem Linjiang Fairy, which shows her calm bearing and heart of keeping pace with the times.
Later, it was headed by two Haitang poems by Xiangyun. But Xiangyun has only one sentence: "A cluster is shallow and a cluster is deep". However, we still can't say that "the curtain in Hunan is half-rolled, the door is half-covered, the ice is broken into soil, and the jade is a basin". I wonder if the author really agrees with Li Wan's point of view.
But in fact there are only two real poets in A Dream of Red Mansions: Baoyu and Daiyu.
What is a poet?
They are such people: sensitive and affectionate. Flowers bloom and fall, which makes them sad. Different birds, animals, fish and insects live and die, which makes them moved. Good people's ups and downs make them burst into tears. The indifference of the world made them cry. They love nature and all the beautiful life. Is the lover of the universe.
What do you think is the real difference between people and animals?
Walking upright without hair? Does a bald ostrich count? Can you make tools? So do chimpanzees. Or a lot of endless cannibalism? This is a bit reliable. But there is a kind of snake that only eats the same kind. It will build beautiful houses, make all kinds of beautiful luxuries, drink the most expensive red wine in the most expensive mansion, and have sex with several lovers at the same time in the most comfortable bed. (or in the most expensive sports car). Forget it. There is no essential difference between this and a full pig lying on the hay in the sun and moaning comfortably. A passionate lion holds down his wife and daughter 99 times in 24 hours. There is no essential difference.
That must be the pursuit of beauty, right? But the love of beauty is not unique to people. Female animals generally like beautiful males. Moreover, if they don't evolve into unobtrusive terrapin to avoid natural enemies, they will also be naturally chosen to be beautiful for courtship. If the pheasant is beautiful. It will be easily exposed when it hatches.
Or, have a religious belief? Come on, I've seen big-eyed thieves (country voles) visit the sun. Wisdom? We think of dolphins. Dolphins surpass us in brain weight, brain-to-weight ratio and brain activity area. They didn't become us just because they didn't face the unique environment and corresponding challenges of human beings.
What is that? Besides, what makes us feel more noble than cockroaches and mice? More noble than parrots and lions?
Philosophical speculation and scientific research explore the truth? Yes, it makes us far superior to all kinds of creatures. But its most important purpose is to seek truth, which makes us advanced and progressive. Moreover, after the combination of science and technology and industry and commerce, we have undoubtedly become the masters of all living things. All animals tremble under our rule and face an increasingly dark and desperate future. People only need to worry about themselves. Science gives us strength, but it is not noble.
Is it ethics? All social animals have it. Like hyenas and wolves. The so-called ethics can only be based on specific ethnic groups and specific survival activities. Its nobility and secularity are inevitable.
What the hell is that?
I think it's sympathy. This is a noble heart of sympathy. It is this that makes people obviously different from and higher than all kinds of animals.
Sometimes, we can also call her a fraternity.
The poet sees all life in himself. See yourself from other lives.
The vegetation is dry and prosperous, and the spring and autumn are orderly. The beauty is old and the hero is dead. People who come are happy, but those who leave are sad.
Therefore, the poet will feel the same way when he sees the beast struggling under the knife and axe, and tears will come to his eyes when he listens to the ninth symphony. Even "looking for sorrow and hatred for no reason."
It is the poet who makes us realize that life is full of poetry. All the joys and sorrows of life can be sung.
He is satisfied with the softness of the wind, the drifting clouds and the fragrant beauty of the soil. He is obsessed with the beauty of death, infinite beauty and eternal beauty.
The poet's heart is also a part of God's heart. The essence of the heart is love. The heart is born in things and dies in things. The heart is in me. Also outside of me. God legislates for the universe. Mathematics legislates for order. Thinkers and politicians legislate for society. Poets do not participate in legislation. He is free. He is sentimental. He sings and speaks for all the good life.
But it is almost unreasonable for ordinary people to think that they are "stupid", that they are "dull" and that they are sentimental.
Gentle poets, like heroes, are different from unscrupulous heroes and cynical rascals. They have no bandits. No hooliganism. So it is very fragile. Therefore, there are few poets and soldiers.
Baoyu loves Daiyu mainly because of his bosom friend consciousness. If you marry a wife, what more can you ask for? It is better to have friends than to have sex.
It's just that each other is too smart and noble, and it's hard to avoid being too picky. Can you live forever? It is unlucky to think about beauty, which makes your lover sad.
Is this necessarily bad? Beauty, like those heroes, always dies at the most dazzling moment. Their misfortune is precisely our luck. They let us appreciate the unquestionable beauty with sadness and regret. That beauty is no longer defiled, and there is no chance to get old and broken. From then on, I bid farewell to the limited individual life, which belongs to infinity and eternity.
Therefore, most artists are always addicted to creating tragedies. He created beauty and then destroyed it in front of you. All this breaks your heart.
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Considering that Qin Xue didn't directly or indirectly hint whether Jiao Da loves Sister Lin, and Jiao Da can't testify in person, even if she testifies, there is no guarantee that she is telling the truth. So, sir, this sentence can only be in doubt. But if we say that "not every reader likes A Dream of Red Mansions", this proposition must be correct. At least I used to hate it.
When I first read the Red Chamber, I just felt impatient. It doesn't even feel like a man. Jia Baoyu is particularly boring. Doing nothing all day and hanging out with girls. Gay, too It doesn't matter, but it's too much to belittle men's worship of women, but I doubt whether Mr. Jia is a rapist. So apart from "Jia Baoyu's first sexual rain experiment", it can be said that it was swallowed. I'm not interested in the intrigue, infighting and so on typical of China.
Another reason for my impatience is that I am used to reading martial arts novels, and I like the storyline that is promoted from a single perspective. Hook, progress, entanglement, climax and ending in one go. A Dream of Red Mansions is a polygonal network structure, and the author often writes "refuge". It's like when I made out with Xiao San and just touched her hand, her child cried; The sleeping child just kissed her face, and she said she wanted to make instant noodles. No sooner had I undressed after eating noodles than the person who paid the electricity bill came. Then-her husband caught the rape with a knife, and then there was an earthquake. Are you bored? I'm bored anyway.
Although I have a cursory look, anyone will be impressed by Daiyu's loneliness, sensitivity, thoughtfulness and grand view garden.
My favorite is Qingwen. It is probably because Qingwen is a maid and Daiyu is a young lady. Since in the economic society, there will inevitably be class limitations. I'm from the grass roots, and I'm not very interested in Miss Childe. In fact, it is really two identities of a person.
Qingwen tore a fan, patched the fur when she was ill, and turned her hair upside down. I crept outside at the foot of the mountain to scare the musk moon-I couldn't put it down with bright colors.
Qingwen can't read, she can't write poetry herself, and she has no chance to get an education. She can't compare with Dai Yu, Xiangyun Baochai, or even Tanchun Baoqin. Not even Xiangling. But someone wrote it for her. Besides the poems written by the author's daughter Furong, there are many poems lamented by later generations. There are two poems about Qingwen, written by Ming Yi, the earliest poet in the Red Chamber.
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Born a little golden girl, she is so proud that she can be compared with many floating clouds. It is difficult for lotus flowers to blow the autumn wind, and there is no way to attract new birds.
Secondly,
The son of Jinyi sprouts orchids, but the pink lady doesn't break melons. Young people and young people might as well share a sofa and dream of multiple curtains.
A better poem for Qingwen was written by Qin Xue on behalf of Baoyu. Mr. Zhou believes that there are two lines in Baoyu's four seasons landscape poems that refer to Qingwen.
Spring nights are the best.
Nature is lazy, lazy, and can't stand the frequency of jokes.
Winter nights are the best.
The slave girl's green sleeves are cold, and the gold mink's wine is light.
Artistic conception is pleasant. Makes people want to see the style. But the best poem about Qingwen was written by herself. Her life is an excellent poem.
Qingwen is beautiful. Wang Xifeng said, "As far as these girls are concerned, they are not as good as Qingwen." Mrs. Wang, an old bitch, is useless, but sinister and diabolical. I am bent on killing a beautiful and capable girl. What does Qingwen look like in her eyes? "Water snake waist, shoulder cutting, eyebrow eye is somewhat like your sister Lin's" water snake waist, shoulder cutting makes people want to see the appearance. So Qingwen is a standard beauty.
Qingwen is stronger. Because A Dream of Red Mansions has been revised many times, her background has changed. There are contradictions in the work because it has not been completely revised. On the one hand, they said, "I can't help being angry with Qingwen and Qiyue. They are both first-class. With the help of Lao Zi Niang's face, they hung him upside down. You said you couldn't be angry. " It can be seen that Qingwen's background is not low. The book says that she wears red sleeping shoes, and points out that the male slaves she plays with wear green socks. The girl's foot-binding shows that her background is not humble. On the one hand, she is a servant of the Jia family and a servant girl around Lai Da. Even a slave's slave, born in the lowest place. This is the author's later idea. But Qingwen has no inferiority and modesty. Be confident in your character. She said, "Who is nobler than who?" . When celebrating Baoyu's birthday, she casually said, "He is still at the table today. He will certainly invite you. Just wait. " Pinger recognized a flaw as a joke. Yes, in Qingwen's mind, Baoyu is not a master, nor is he a slave. They are equal in personality. So Baoyu is called "He". How much affection does the word "he" contain! Isn't it true that a-mei is called a lover and his wife is called a husband?
Shi Xiangyun said, "This duck head doesn't belong to that girl. How can you ask for osmanthus oil on it?" Qingwen refused and led her sisters to Xiangyun to ask for real osmanthus oil. Zhui Er stole Pinger's shrimp bracelet and hated her for her low character and disappointing. Scold Zhui Er for being "shallow-minded and light-handed, slapping his mouth in this world".
Qingwen is very clever. "One Qingwen is the cleverest" (seventy-four). Qingwen is observant and knows xiren and Baoyu like the back of her hand. Qingwen machine changes. When I met Mrs. Wang, I protected myself well and believed what Mrs. Wang said. I thought she didn't usually touch Baoyu. Poor mouth is not necessarily clumsy, poor heart will be clumsy. Look at Qingwen's voice and smile, her words are sharp and her marksmanship is awesome. The mind is clever in the mouth and skillful in the hand. Grandmother Jia said, "I think Qingwen is very good. Why did she get up like this? I mean, these girls are not as smooth as him, and only he can be used by Baoyu in the future. " When it comes to needlework, Qingwen of Jia family thinks that she is the second, and no one dares to be the first. For a while, we were all familiar with Qingwen for autumn.
Qingwen is crazy. Baoyu was a little surprised at this time. In addition to Daiyu, he only has xiren in his heart. For Baoyu, xiren is a servant, a concubine and a mother. There is nothing I can do about it. Baoyu is a constant chauffeur and needs considerate service. There are many slaves, and someone has to take care of them. My mother is a perverted female wolf, and my sister Yuan Chun has married into the palace again. The missing maternal love can only be made up by attacking people. Once she tore a fan, Qingwen accidentally dropped it. Baoyu sighed, "Fool, fool! What about the future? Tomorrow you mind your own business, so reckless? Qingwen felt deeply hurt and sneered and retorted, "Sir Zhong has been very angry recently, so he will show Lianzi everything he does. You hit an attacker the day before yesterday, and now you come to us. If you want to play, you must beat me. It is common to drop a fan. At first, I didn't know how many glass jars and agate bowls were damaged, and I didn't see the atmosphere. That's what a fan does now. Why come! If you don't like us, send us and choose a good ambassador. Isn't it good to be away from each other? "
What a witty remark!
In fact, does she want Baoyu to send it out? As she said before she died, "It's silly to say that everyone is in one place anyway." This time, it caused a storm because Baoyu said, "Mind your own business tomorrow", suggesting that Baoyu had long planned to let Qingwen go out and marry someone else. How can Qingwen not be angry? Qingwen is certainly more jealous when xiren comes to make trouble. Anyone who is smarter can hear that Qingwen is jealous. If a boy knows that a girl like Qingwen is willing to drink vinegar for himself, he can laugh with joy. Funny Baoyu didn't understand and asked his wife to send Qingwen out. Qingwen submit to humiliation, finally dare not insist. : "How long have I been clamoring to go? Forgive me for being angry. Send me words. Just go back, and you can't get out of this door if you hit your head. " It makes people love and pity. She is glib and heartless, but now she dare not shut up and finally relent. The next sentence is very imaginative. Qingwen cried to speak, and Lin Daiyu came in and went out again. Qingwen may reveal some of her thoughts to Baoyu. Unfortunately, Daiyu came, and Qingwen had to hide her words in her heart again. It's Daiyu! She is the one whom Baoyu really loves! I wonder what kind of mood she is at the moment. If it is Baochai or anyone else, I wonder if Qingwen will be speechless again, probably.
Qingwen is very brave. "Who is nobler than who! I don't want to offend my wife. " She retorted Baoyu, "I want to kick him, but I can't give her a hard time." She is a person who would rather be heated than have a fever on her face. Ask if you want to kill, not insult. When looking at the Grand View Garden, "I saw Qingwen breaking in with her hair, opening the box with a clear voice, grasping the foundation with both hands, and pouring it underground, everything poured out."
Qingwen respects herself. Baochai's "cherishing Fang Zi and hiding the door in the daytime" is mostly a show. Baochai is more indifferent to cool thin than to Tanchun. It seems that the lines are the "golden mean", and all directions are exquisite and watertight. But in fact, it is still a kind of "homesickness wish", which coincides with the madness of Confucius and Mencius. If a person makes everyone around him say yes, he is either a hypocrite or a schemer. Qingwen's self-esteem comes from nature, without affectation or embellishment. Calling her frivolous is like a duck criticizing the eagle for being too arrogant and brave. In fact, it's just that her mind is free and easy, and her emotions are out of her heart. Baoyu wants to take a bath with her. If she changes to Bi Hen or Xiaohong, who can refuse? But Qingwen refused. You may think that Qingwen is usually frivolous, but there is publicity, but it is not frivolous. After a 63-night banquet, Aroma said, "Qingwen forgot to be ashamed. I remember he sang a song." It can be seen that Qingwen is usually steady.
Qingwen is free and easy. On her deathbed, she dreamed: "I saw Qingwen coming from the outside, as before." She came in and smiled at Baoyu: "You have a good life, I will never live again." Say that finish, turn around and go. Forty-one words, plain words, but powerful strokes, are particularly sad. It made me cry.
Qingwen's "relatives" are ungrateful and have no mutual affection. She lay on the cold kang and died tragically. She always speaks fast and has few friends. After death, the musk moon and autumn lines are merciless. Where is Baoyu? He molested Jinchuan, but he couldn't stand the trouble, so he left Jinchuan and ran away. The injured Jinchuan finally jumped into the well. Qingwen was in trouble, and he stood by. Qingwen wrote an article "The Daughter of Furong" when she died. I was still very naive at that time. When I read the seventy-ninth chapter, I saw that even Daiyu, who had made friends with Qingwen in the past, was discussing the eulogy with Baoyu, and I couldn't help but fly into a rage. Very dissatisfied with the author. I feel that Baoyu is hopeless. Holding Qingwen's body and crying is better than not saying a word.
Zhang Ailing once wrote A Dream of Red Mansions. She learned from the Red Chamber in her life, and of course, Jin Pingmei. Because they are all novelists, some viewpoints are closer to the truth than scholars who specialize in textual research. According to Zhang's speculation, Qingwen's role was later increased. Thanks to Qin Xue's choice. It is this late-maturing figure that allows us to see such a good girl.
Qingwen is the shadow of Daiyu, another Daiyu. Daiyu chose the flower sign as hibiscus and Qingwen as the god of hibiscus. Furong's daughter also married Daiyu. They are similar in character, appearance and ending. They are all young and energetic. Resentment for the rest of my life. Qingwen and Daiyu are really two and one, and one and two. But Qingwen has three things besides herself: Daiyu, Yuanyang and Xiangyun. These are just my favorite characters in the Red Chamber. Or is this your favorite?