Middle-aged men's "rebellious psychology" in marriage
Psychologists once analyzed, "Middle-aged men are mature social individuals and family individuals. Their inner world is actually far from being as stable as the outside world imagined. More often, they are contradictory. "
Because in the eyes of some middle-aged men, as their children get married, they feel less eager to live while unloading this burden.
This endless marriage life is like a terrible siege for men who are eager for new things and have the spirit of adventure, trapping their hearts.
They are eager to break free, so they have the same "rebellious psychology" as teenagers, which makes them choose to cheat.
Do you understand the three reasons why middle-aged men can't look back after cheating?
Once the feelings of adults are cracked, they can't be completely recovered.
In the emotional world of adults, apart from love, there is also the integrity of each other's marriage.
When both of them disappear, the marriage will come to an end.
No matter how much we love each other, it is better to disappear at that moment than to forget each other.
"Cheating" is such a killer that makes each other lose confidence in marriage and trust in each other.
For middle-aged men, once they step into this dirty mud, there is no turning back.
Look at the eight-year-old sister-in-law relationship, articles and Ma Yili that once envied many people in the entertainment circle.
As a middle-aged man with a family and children, the article was cheated by the media after starring in the TV series Naked Marriage with Yao Di.
Ma Yili didn't divorce Wen immediately after knowing this, but said "Do it well and cherish it".
But after a lapse of five years, the two announced the divorce results.
The feelings of adults are not like playing house. There are cracks in marriage, and there is always a hurdle.
People who have been depressed for half a lifetime have collapsed, so that they can't continue to make do.
Some middle-aged men choose to cheat in middle age, not because of a whim, but because they choose to make do when they are young.
Their marriage was probably a mistake from the beginning.
We don't love each other very much, but we are old; Or the woman you like, the family is not satisfied; In short, I didn't choose at random, and finally managed to live together.
They face a woman they don't love every day, suppress their feelings and live in anxiety at the same time.
Finally, one day, they can't stand such a depressed life. So cheating became the key to their inner freedom.
For such a man, after half a life of pain, he finally has the courage to break his present life. Will he turn back?
At this time, my family of origin is like an endless abyss. Although the freshness in front of you can't be called the salvation of life, it can at least comfort yourself. Therefore, they would rather make people collapse than repeat the same mistakes.
The face problem of middle-aged man makes him choose to make mistakes and indulge himself.
Men have a psychological characteristic, that is, saving face.
Especially in middle age, this kind of psychology has not been alleviated, but has become more serious.
If they choose to cheat during this period, the chance of turning back is almost zero.