If you rent a house alone, will life be boring?

The feeling of renting a house alone is that although I am lonely occasionally, I can do whatever I want most of the time, which is very comfortable. He can dance wildly in the room on a whim in the middle of the night, or he can stay up late to catch a favorite TV series and sleep in it the next day. But you can throw clothes, bags and express delivery all over the world, and no one will say that you are in a mess. You can wait until you feel unbearable. You can also throw away the pots and pans after dinner and wait until you want to eat again at night.

It's a feeling that your life is completely under your control. You will spend a lot of time with yourself. Of course, you also need to devote a lot of energy to your daily life. No one will order takeout to take you to dinner, and no one will sit on the sofa with you and drink and chat on weekends. But you can set a table on the balcony and read lazily. You can also keep a cat or two at home and let them spend your boring daily life with you. Even from my roommate's point of view, a person's life is very cool, even if it is a bit sloppy.

And many people don't know that when you share a room with others, no matter how different your living habits are, it will have a subtle influence on each other. If your roommate is often untidy and makes your home messy, over time you will become untidy and don't like cleaning. If your roommate is single, you will also feel that you are not in a hurry to find a boyfriend, and you will often confide in each other and cry about the tragic situation of being forced to get married at home, so as to relieve anxiety.

If the other person is a positive person, you may become diligent and eager to learn, but many times you will lose the ability of self-examination and reflection in the very different life situations between the two sides and huddle together. When you are alone, there is no reference around you. Although it is easy to go to another lonely and negative extreme, your sense of crisis and anxiety will be stronger without the dependence and companionship of your peers, so you will try your best to manage and restrain your life, and you will try your best to please yourself. You will understand that you have to bear the responsibility for your life, and you have no choice but to be strong.

Of course, you will also be afraid that you will always walk alone, because when a person adapts to his own life, he will be afraid that others will suddenly break in.

However, I still think that living alone is an important way for a person to grow up quickly and get to know himself deeply. Although girls rent a house alone, they have many practical concerns, such as rent, personal safety and emergencies. However, as long as she chooses a house with a better environment within her ability and takes necessary self-protection measures, it is not a big problem.

Try it at least once and you will fall in love with this happy little life.