Dear students, I heard from my classmates two days ago that some students packed their things and said loudly "class is over" before the history teacher stopped. Hearing this, I was extremely sad. On the one hand, I am very sad that the teacher's inculcation has not been respected by the students. On the other hand, I am very sad that such a thing happened in our class. Students, respecting teachers and attaching importance to teaching has always been a traditional virtue of our country. As a high school student, you can't be unaware of it, can you? Today, I will talk with my classmates about how to "learn to respect others".
Everyone has a certain degree of self-esteem. If you want others to respect you, you must respect others first. A person who doesn't know how to respect others will never be respected by others. In our study and life, our attitude towards others often determines others' attitude towards us, just like a person standing in front of a mirror, you smile, and the person in the mirror also smiles; You frown, and the people in the mirror frown; You yell at the mirror, and the people in the mirror will yell at you. Therefore, in order to gain the goodwill and respect of others, we must first respect others. Only by respecting others can we get praise and respect from others.
Students, in the process of interacting with others, you must not hurt each other's self-esteem, otherwise, it must be you who suffer. An American student from China often helps a restaurant wash dishes in his spare time. The head of the kitchen is an American, generous but also nagging. He often stands by and "talks" when international students are working: You are so lucky. Our government has approved you to study here. Now I've given you a job and a lot of food, so you can even save money for eating ... Once, when the invigilator tried to repeat these words, the foreign students stood up and pointed at each other's nose and said, "If you say one more word, I'll beat your nose flat." Since then, the supervisor has never made similar "remarks" because he knows how to respect others.
This matter may give us some enlightenment. As a student, we should listen to the teacher carefully, listen to the teacher's explanation with an open mind, accumulate knowledge and increase our talents in order to do a good job in our study. To study well, the premise is to respect teachers. When the teacher is working hard in class, all he hears is an ironic sentence "It's time for the teacher to finish class". How disappointed the teacher will be! Because the teacher's work has not received due respect. Since one's own labor is not respected, there is no need to be so serious. Think about it, you students must be the last to boo! Of course, I'm sure the teacher won't do that. Let me tell you another story.
This is a true story that happened in Manhattan, new york, USA.
One day, a middle-aged woman in her forties led a little boy into the garden downstairs of the headquarters building of the famous American enterprise "Giant Elephant Group" and sat down on a bench. She kept talking to the boy as if she were angry. Not far away, an old man with gray hair is pruning shrubs.
Suddenly, the middle-aged woman took out a shiny toilet paper from her carry-on bag and threw it on the bush that the old man had just trimmed. The old man turned to look at the middle-aged woman in amazement, and the middle-aged woman looked at him coldly. Without saying anything, the old man went to pick up the toilet paper and threw it into the garbage basket.
After a while, the middle-aged woman took out a mass of toilet paper and threw it over. The old man went over and picked up the toilet paper and threw it into the basket, then went back to the original place to continue his work. However, as soon as the old man picked up the scissors, the third group of toilet paper fell on the bush in front of him ... In this way, the old man picked up the paper thrown by six or seven groups of middle-aged women in succession, but he never showed dissatisfaction and boredom.
"Look!" The middle-aged woman pointed to the old man pruning shrubs and said loudly to the boy, "I hope you understand that if you don't go to school well now, you will be as worthless as him in the future and can only do these humble jobs!" " "
Hearing this, the old man put down his scissors and came over and said kindly to the middle-aged woman, "madam, this is the private garden of the group." According to the regulations, only employees of the group can come in. "
"Of course, I am the department manager of a company under the Giant Elephant Group, and I work in this building!" The middle-aged woman said proudly, and at the same time took out a certificate and waved it at the old man.
"Can I borrow your mobile phone?" The old man was silent for a while and said.
The middle-aged woman reluctantly handed the mobile phone to the old man, and at the same time lost no time to enlighten her son: "Look at these poor people, they can't even afford a mobile phone at such a big age. You must work hard in the future! "
After the phone call, the old man returned the mobile phone to the woman. After a while, a man came in a hurry and stood in front of the old man respectfully. The old man said to the bearer, "I now propose to remove this lady from her position as the elephant group!" " "Ok, I'll follow your instructions at once!" The man repeatedly replied.
After the old man told him, he went straight to the little boy. He reached out and touched the boy's head and said meaningfully, "I hope you understand that the most important thing in this world is to learn to respect everyone …" Then the old man left them three and slowly left. The middle-aged woman was stunned by what happened suddenly in front of her eyes. She knows that man, who is a senior employee in the Giant Elephant Group who is responsible for the appointment and dismissal of employees at all levels. "You ... how can you respect this old gardener so much?" She asked in confusion.
"What did you say? Old gardener? He is Mr. James, the president of the group! " The middle-aged woman suddenly collapsed on the bench.
This story further shows that only by truly learning to respect others and everyone around you can we gain the respect of others and finally not lose ourselves.
Teacher's message: "Respecting others means respecting yourself", and a collective often relies on mutual support and respect to maintain harmony and tacit understanding among its members. Respect is the torch, conveying the trust and love between hearts; Respect is a golden key, which can open all the locked souls and drive them to win glory for the collective.
Design of class meeting activities with the theme of "respecting others is your own need"
Li, Middle School Affiliated to First Medical University
Class meeting theme: respecting others is your own need.
Participants: all the students in Class One and Six of Senior High School, and the head teacher.
Form: poetry reading, sketch, cross talk, sitcom, watching MV.
Special Guest: Teacher Mars, the head of student-oriented education in the teaching and research section of the school.
Activity basis: moral education reader
Design Intention: Through the in-depth study of Moral Education Reader, combined with the actual situation of students in this class, it is found that there are still some problems in behavior habits and ideology of students of this age group. For example, some students don't listen to lectures and gossip, and some students call names at recess and call each other nicknames. Rich students sometimes look down on poor students, while good students laugh at poor students. The students in our class have low entrance scores, poor foundation, poor learning enthusiasm and initiative, especially poor behavior habits, which is often reflected by the class teacher. In order to strengthen and improve the ideological and moral construction of minors, improve the quality of class students, standardize students' behavior habits, cultivate good moral quality and civilized behavior, and help students establish self-confidence, our class held a class meeting with the theme of "respecting others is their own needs". Through the theme activities of class meeting, we can promote the harmony between classmates and teachers and students. In order to achieve the goal of moral education, the activities follow the principle of moral education adhering to the principle of being close to reality, life and minors, and proceed from their ideological reality and life reality, which is easy to understand, entertaining and gradual. Use vivid and popular language, vivid and typical examples, easy-to-understand forms, persuasion methods, participation methods and discussion methods to further enhance the pertinence and effectiveness of the work and enhance the attraction and appeal of the work.
Senior high school is a critical period to cultivate a person's outlook on life and values, and it is also an important stage to cultivate good habits and improve personality. Based on the principle of "student-centered, situation-centered and activity-centered", with the independent participation of students, a class meeting with the theme of "respecting others is your own need" was held, so that students can get education and entertainment from the activities. This is necessary to improve students' moral quality, form good behavior habits, improve the quality of the whole people and train more talents for the country.
In addition, students nowadays are basically only children. They have been spoiled since childhood, but they seldom know how to be grateful, and some even don't respect their parents. Therefore, in this class meeting, we should respect teachers, classmates, parents and others. School education and family education have their own characteristics and advantages, which can promote each other. When these two advantages are organically combined, the resultant force of school moral education and family moral education will be enhanced. Through this theme education activity, the school's own educational advantages can be radiated to the category of family education.
Activity preparation:
1, with students as the main body for topic selection and preparation.
To show the theme in a short class, we must have a whole idea. In view of this problem, we held a class committee meeting to discuss, and held an enlarged meeting to solicit students' opinions, and finally basically determined the basic ideological line of this theme class meeting. First of all, make a questionnaire to find out what the students dislike most about disrespecting others, what real stories of disrespecting others have happened in and out of class around them, what do you want to say to them when you see these bad behavior habits, have you ever been disrespected by others, and what do you think when others don't respect you? Have you ever disrespected others in your daily life? How will you respect others in the future? Through the analysis of the results of the questionnaire survey, the theme of the class meeting was finally determined: "Respecting others is our own need". Implemented the spirit of proceeding from the reality of students' lives.
In the preparation of the activity, I discussed the overall plan with the class Committee and defined the division of labor. Other students actively participated, made suggestions and were very enthusiastic. Basically, every student put forward his own suggestions on the form and content of this activity, which were summarized by the monitor, discussed by the opening Committee and the class teacher, and determined the specific implementation plan.
During this period, students are still in the process of adapting to high school life because they have only been in high school for more than two months. In addition, time is relatively tight because the first foreign language module exam since high school and the mid-term exams of other subjects are coming soon. However, the students overcame all difficulties with full enthusiasm, made full use of all the spare time after class, activity class and school to rehearse the program nervously, and found other students as the audience to evaluate and put forward suggestions for improvement. Among them, in the rehearsal of cross talk and sitcom, several actors are the students with the worst academic performance in our class, but they are particularly enthusiastic and take the initiative to participate in the rehearsal, which makes me sit up and take notice of them. From this, I deeply realized that if students are interested in what they are doing, their enthusiasm will be high, not the size of the thing itself. It also makes me believe that as long as they do it seriously, they will do it well.
2, with a variety of activities, entertaining, simplifying, enhance the attraction.
In this class meeting, different forms of activities were designed, such as poetry reading, sketches, cross talk, sitcoms and so on. In order to achieve the educational purpose of each program, a large number of students' thoughts and discussions were also inserted, which fully reflected the centrality, entertainment and conciseness of the activities. This activity has various forms and rich contents, which greatly attracted students. The activity embodies the main line of the class meeting. For example, poetry reading, let students know what is respect and what is the specific behavior of respect. The sitcom "Two Students" shows some disrespectful behaviors around us, so that students can reflect on themselves while watching the performance, or think about their usual words and deeds from other places, and talk about how we should respect teachers as students. The comic dialogue "The Five Senses Strive for Merit" is about the bad consequences caused by the disharmony and mutual disrespect of the five senses. From the opposite side, it shows that respect is everyone's own need, and respect for others is the first thing to get respect from others. The essay "Birthday Cake" mainly talks about mutual respect among students. Through these activities, the class meeting was pushed to a climax and the purpose of entertaining was achieved.
Seize the opportunity to launch an initiative
Initiate the whole class to take action, starting from me, taking practical actions, starting from the small things around us, and respecting teachers, parents, classmates and others. The content of the initiative is an extension after the class meeting. The class committee is responsible for soliciting students' opinions and suggestions, and establishing class behavior norms after class according to the actual situation of schools, classes and students. For example, listening carefully in class, taking notes, not gossiping and not sleeping are all respects for teachers. Students don't swear, nickname, etc. It is the most basic respect among students. When you get home, say hello to your family first, talk politely to your parents, and don't talk back. This is the minimum respect for parents.
4. Continuation of the theme class meeting
Through the whole process of class meeting organization, we can find students' bright spots, praise their excellent performance, and encourage every student to do everything well as long as they work hard, thus establishing self-confidence. By watching the MV: "Everyone isNo. 1", we can inspire every student, no matter what the current foundation is, as long as we persist in studying hard, we will certainly succeed and help every student build up self-confidence.
Head teacher's summary: This theme class meeting is the first class meeting since we entered high school. The students created and performed wonderful programs with their wisdom and talents, and expressed what respect is and what the specific behavior of respect is through the programs. Respect is everyone's own needs, and only by respecting others can we get their respect. I suggest that the whole class take action, start with me and the little things around us, and respect teachers, parents, classmates and others. Through the whole process of class meeting organization, I found the bright spots of many students. I was deeply moved by your excellent performance, so I finally sent you a song "Everyone isNo. 1".
Activity characteristics:
1. Take students as the main body to carry out activities, with high enthusiasm and strong participation, and every student is a participant in the activities;
2. Taking activities as the carrier, the activities are diverse and attractive to students;
3. Take the form and content of the program as the main line to make education entertaining and easy to understand;
4. Students write and guide themselves to cultivate their creativity;
5. Middle school students speak more, and convey the educational purpose in time through the program to achieve the educational effect;
6. Through the whole process of class meeting activities, help students with poor foundation to establish self-confidence and good outlook on life and values.
Conclusion: In this activity, every student was moved. As a class teacher, I also hope that they will respect others in their later lives. However, there is only a short class meeting, and it is a long-term process to cultivate students' good behavior habits, which requires our constant guidance and supervision. After the class meeting, we issued an initiative to the whole class to respect others as our code of conduct.
Attachment: Main Flow of Activities
1. Opening: The host announced the beginning of the class meeting, and everyone stood up and sang the national anthem.
2. Students talk about how they understand the theme of the class meeting.
3. recite a poem.
4. Students express their opinions. Let students have a deeper understanding of what respect is and what is the specific expression of respect.
5. The scene of the sitcom Two Students reappears. In class, students don't listen carefully and don't respect the teacher's behavior.
6. Students speak. Let the students see what disrespectful behaviors are in the performance. Let the students reflect on themselves while watching the performance, or put themselves in their shoes and talk about how we should respect our teachers as students.
7. The cross talk "The Five Senses Strive for Merit" says that the five senses are not harmonious and do not respect each other, which shows that people should be respected from the opposite side.
8. Essay "Birthday Cake". Basically, students should respect each other, whether they are poor or not.
9. Students speak. Students talk about disrespectful things at school or at home, talk about their own views on these things, and what should be done.
10. Summary of the host.
1 1. Summary of the class teacher. 12. Launch an initiative
13. Look at the MV: "Everyone isNo. 1" 14. Announce the class meeting.