Smiling at your phone, but scolding your children with a straight face? "I believe that many parents have this situation more or less. In the eyes of their children, parents seem to have these two faces. One is smiling and chatting enthusiastically with friends on the phone, and the other is turning to face the child and scolding the child with a straight face. . Have you ever experienced this?
There is a poem circulating on the Internet. This poem was not created by a famous poet, but was written by a primary school student. The content in it stung the reality, and many netizens praised it after seeing it, saying they felt sorry for the child!
The name of this poem is "Things on the Cell Phone", and it is about children reading it. I realize that my parents are always addicted to mobile phones, but they don't care about them. In this poem, the parents' indifferent attitude towards their children is very obvious. They always like to say to their children, "Okay, just play by yourself." "Go", and then turn around and indulge in the world of mobile phones.
Or when children are playing with toys, they will tell them with a straight face, "If you play with them again, throw them away", but they turn around and are full of enthusiasm for their mobile phones. As parents of children, they never think about their children and only treat them coldly.
In fact, the life described in this poem is not just an example. This is the norm in most families. As a result, many children become addicted to the Internet with their parents and no longer have any expectations for real life. As a result, many children become alienated from their parents and their family ties fade. Parents who are too addicted to mobile phones not only form bad habits, but also develop bad habits. The important thing is that it will have a great impact on children.
Parents who are too addicted to mobile phones will have more than a little impact on their children
★Arouse children's interest in playing with mobile phones
Parents are role models for their children, so children are likely to follow what parents do. In addition, children have a strong ability to imitate since they were young, so when parents are too addicted to mobile phones, children will also be curious about mobile phones and become exposed to the Internet. However, once exposed to the Internet, children with insufficient self-control are prone to addiction, causing children to dislike learning.
★Affecting family relationships
Most children rarely understand it at a young age. The job of parents is not easy. In their eyes, they only see their parents playing with their mobile phones to relax after work, but they are faced with a lot of homework. Gradually, the children will become unbalanced and they cannot understand why their parents. They are always comfortable, but they are tired and hard.
★Children become sensitive and fragile
When parents are always in a leisurely mood and scrolling through their mobile phones after work. , children are naturally abandoned and thrown aside. For children, this behavior of their parents often leads to changes in their personalities, because children gradually no longer want to communicate with their parents. , and their hearts become very sensitive and fragile, because they believe from the bottom of their hearts that their parents will no longer be their protective umbrella.
In fact, when parents scold their children, they might as well think about whether their behavior is correct? As a parent, have you really set an example? If not, why should we educate our children?