Essay Time flies, Love Never Dies —— Dedicated to my dear brother Zhang Dehong.

Memories evoke plumes of smoke, and memories are full of green. A little sister plays games behind her brother's back, helps adults watch chickens and ducks, and calls her mother home in sorghum fields and ponds ... Most of her sisters carry her back and take care of her brother carefully, but his brother doesn't say a word. My brother is me and your brother is you. You will never remember these scenes when you were a child, but I still remember her now. Time flies, now my sister has reached the age of destiny, and you have passed the age of no doubt, but you can't die of love!

Time is changing, but love will never change. You are one year old, I am six years old, and I have a nine-year-old sister. I came to Mohe Camel Farm in Qinghai where my father worked with my mother from Sichuan in the south, and was reunited with my brother and two sisters who came here early. My mother is responsible for cooking and housework at home. I still take you, take you everywhere and take good care of you. How happy is my brother? Therefore, for your sake, my sister is courageous and dares to quarrel with her peers to protect you. For your sake, I won't take part in games that children don't play with you. Later, I learned to play sandbags and bungee jumping with my peers. I can carry you on my back. You are ill, and your mother needs medicine. I never like injections without taking medicine, so I took them off and said, "Let me give them to my brother"; You seldom make dad angry, and dad hits you with a stick. I feel sorry for your swollen eyes. At that time, you were used to drinking milk and yogurt, and none of us were used to it, but for you, we often tasted cold milk and hot milk. At that time, the big fishy smell was irresistible to you and me! Also, the conditions are difficult. Eight people in my family can share a big apple and a peach at most, but I often don't eat or taste it at all and save it for my brother! In order to take you more, I went to night school for a year. At school, I was very concerned about my brother. When I finish my homework quickly, I will take you to play and teach you simple culture. You should come to see me after school. The camel farm in Mohe is windy and dusty. My classmates will wear scarves and walk together. Sometimes the wind is too strong to come and I cry at home. Now I can't forget your lovely appearance in cotton-padded jacket trousers and Lei Feng cotton cap. I remember that at that time, the meals at home, and sometimes some fried meat, were eaten by my father who worked hard to support his family. When you get to the table, shout "meat, meat"!

When I was in the third grade, my family went to Delingha, and slowly you also went to school. You have prepared a schoolbag to eat and go to school together, or you can follow me and my sister. I remember that sometimes it snows knee-deep in winter. We drove you all the way to school, and your cotton shoes were wet. I will go to your class and bake your shoes by the fire. I go home to finish my homework consciously, or just follow me and my sister to pull out the pig grass to feed the rabbit's "rabbit milk", so I won't let you do it. My sister and I go to the market to pick up watermelon skins and feed the ducks without you, so you will protect a lot, but you will also wait for us to leave us delicious food. At that time, my father had a wrap-up meeting on New Year's Eve, and many times we were praised for earning exercise books and story books, so let's cheer together. I still remember when the fifth grade was about to take the junior high school exam, you called you so tired that I would carry you to school two days later. As a result, measles broke out and infected me. I was ill at home, so I didn't take the exam. As a result, I postponed the exam holiday and studied hard, and my exam results were still very high, ranking first in the school!

When my mother was ill in high school, my father retired and went back to Sichuan together. You live with my sister and we are well taken care of. We are grateful that the eldest sister-in-law loves us more than her sister. She really loves others as herself! The Haixi Military Division in the home of my elder sister's brother-in-law has become a beautiful but lonely memory that we can't erase. When my parents are away, I take care of you like a sister (of course, my sister has been taking care of you like a mother since then). At one stage, my second sister at work took us and we cooked by ourselves. There is little meat in the dishes we often cook, and everyone is scrambling to put it under the rice. I gave you what I could with my chopsticks, and my second sister and my little sister gave you a lot of love (of course, my brother took out most of his salary to help his parents support us). Your second sister cried after getting on the train at work. She is attached to her little sister. Now she still has something to say to comfort her. Later, you went back to your hometown in the late junior high school. I still can't forget the sight of you looking around on the roof of the bungalow! Later, due to illness, the college entrance examination failed by three points, and I went back to my hometown to study again. We are together, and my mother takes good care of us. We often come back late from self-study in the evening, and knock on the door alternately with our companions and shout "Mom, Mom, open the door"!

Later, I went to bank of qinghai school and technical secondary school, and you went to Qinghai Institute for Nationalities (later promoted to Qinghai University for Nationalities). I graduated and got married, and you stayed in school to teach and study for a doctorate. Wind and rain have never drowned their worries, and time has never forgotten their thoughts. When you first started working, apart from eating by yourself, the rest was mainly for your brothers and sisters to help you go to college. Sometimes I will try to help you solve the extra expenses. Brother, you didn't live up to your family's expectations. You worked hard and got excellent grades. You were finally left at school. The whole family is happy for you! I'm home, and I'm busy at work. Especially when my child was three years old, I took him to college and undergraduate. I try to be excellent, my family is harmonious enough to award prizes, but you care less about my brother. I am in Golmud, and you are in Xining, more than 800 kilometers away. At that time, I could only send greetings and care, and then contact him by phone, always unable to say how much time. I know my brother has won many awards, been an excellent teacher for many years, and is "the most popular teacher among students". I was very proud of my sister when I went to Xining on business and listened to your students talk about your elegant demeanor and admiring eyes. Only once did I have the opportunity to sort out your honor and publish papers and works did I know that my brother had made great academic achievements! 1994 You come to Golmud to play. I was in love at that time. Your arrival was warmly received by my lover, and later your brother-in-law. You go back and say to all your family members, "It's very kind of Xiaoqu Ge", and the family members recognize it, which also urges me to shorten the probation period and make an open love affair at work before deciding to get married. Now I have been happily married for 25 years.

Brother and sister, we got married one after another and were busy with work and family affairs. Brother, you went to graduate school, and then went to study for a doctor. In the meantime, you must bear all the difficulties and pains. You said that the process of going to see a doctor is like "dying once", and you can become the youngest doctor and professor in the school. Do you know that it is not easy to be a sister and the family behind the glory?

Xiao Yuefeng welcomes youth, and Xiao Hongyun is brilliant. Dude, I'm really ashamed. In reality, I am busy with my family and work. I don't know how young you are, but how young you are During the holiday, you are either studying for a master's degree and doing research, or going back to your hometown to see your parents. Brother and sister seldom meet and contact, but their hearts are always connected. You are bent on pursuing your studies, and your marriage is dragging on. Mom and Dad complain in front of us, and we are also trying to find a way and are anxious. It is not easy to leave home without many acquaintances. When dad looked at you before he died, you knelt on the bed and cried, knowing dad's regret. I also have a great burden for this, and even trouble you to get married. I pray every day and devote myself wholeheartedly. "There are many good things", and I really made a happy marriage for you. My sister doesn't want my brother to be a matchmaker, but I get along with your mother-in-law. You have become a family, and my mother thanks me. Over the years, my mother has been very happy and comfortable, and I believe my father will be comforted and happy in heaven!

There is sound in the quiet night, and the wind and sand blow in the north; There is no silence in the starry night, and my thoughts are like waves. In the past six years, my lover has been transferred to Xining, and I have been living in Xining because of illness. In a city, if you have delicious food at home, please come or bring it to you, and help you when someone is busy. After all, it takes more than half an hour by car, and there are classes and schools, mainly the family members of Leshan. They all go back during the holidays and there are not many parties. Every time I go to the bookstore to buy books, I always go to the bookstore after dinner, or come over for dinner after class in the afternoon and then come back. So my brother often not only eats a good meal, but also brings something back. Go back to Leshan's house and prepare something for the families on both sides. Brother, sometimes you take less and eat less. I always talk about myself. My family says I am lucky to have my sister and brother! With the expiration of the doctor's eight-year service, your wish to return to Sichuan has been successfully realized despite twists and turns. It's great to have a small family now and be reunited with everyone! Today, you have been back for half a month. When you report to the school over there to go through the formalities, you are worried about the hope of success. Also, I want to go back in three or four days. I have opened the window when the heating is hot here, but the wet and cold in Leshan is definitely unbearable (my hometown people are used to not being afraid of the cold), so I care. As a result, I said today that I can't stand the cold. I felt better in the library today, and I couldn't help crying. I said my mother's house has heating. Go to her house. My brother's family is small, so it's not the way to live in my mother's house (in fact, my mother is old and sick, and she doesn't want her youngest son to accompany her). I just need to add some heating equipment and hope that the cold winter will pass quickly. I also advised my brother and sister to cry the first time they returned to Leshan. Now she is completely used to it, saying that Leshan is not too hot in winter and Leng Xia is not too hot, and "gold will not be exchanged". It is good for my brother to adapt to the climate and environment in the second year.

Shan Lan's fog shows the realm, Songtao Lin Hai shows the momentum, and the years are marked, and all rivers run into the sea. Without family, I concentrate on studying modern literature at university. I'm so lonely, and I got married too late. In recent years, I have not been in the same place, my wife and children have taken care of each other less, and my life and social experience are also lacking. Brother, we should adapt to the new environment and new life. The fragility, shortcomings, mistakes and faults of the past have become the past. Here, relatives, students and colleagues will send many expressions of blessing. Some relatives give you precious gifts, and some classmates cook for you, calling you his "second father in this life". You will also get a special "good teacher" certificate and a gift of love. The special instructions of the school are hard to give up, and old colleagues are hard to forget. Your work also has a title. I remember the sincere teaching of the old professor during your visit. When you left Qinghai, your director drove you to the airport, and when you entered the terminal, it also proved that you had good academic products, good human feelings, good friendship and good family ties! I can't forget the last time you watched the security check, waiting for time to wave. I am ambivalent in my heart: I am sad, but I know you will have more career and family reunion when you go back! It is also a relief to think that you have retired and can go back to get together often. After 67, your brother-in-law retired and settled in the same city two or three stops away!

With the passage of time, Zhao Hui will collect memories and go straight to the depths, but beauty cannot be hidden, which will add new strength and hope to reality. Brother, how much thought did you have on the balcony rocking chair when you were in the dormitory here? Seeing the words "knowledgeable and thoughtful" written by my father, I will be inspired and spurred, and I will do my best. No one in the family loves to buy books and read books so much. You are a good all-rounder in arts and sciences, and now English mathematics is still good. You can also discuss the English graduation thesis that helps my college English major! Your published monographs, such as Research on Folk Memory in China's Novels in the New Era and Anxiety Covered up, show your wisdom, sagacity, sagacity and sensitivity. You always have the habit of getting up early listening to music and reading books, and you love to cook by yourself (you have come to my house many times to cook Sichuan food, which is very good)! Unforgettable, you and your little sister share my troubles and take care of your nephew. You are very kind to my mother-in-law who came to Xining and get along well with the in-laws we met. It is very popular! There are also visits and greetings to relatives, elders and benefactors in Xining, so that we can all take time to go together and let elders and relatives feel our true feelings and good family style. Our brothers and sisters love each other and are famous for their filial piety to their parents. I take care of my country mother-in-law's frozen hands. You call me "China's good wife". I love literature and sometimes I write. You read well and call me "Northwest Writer". I think this is only a few tenths of your talent. In recent years, my love for my mother has increased even more. I took it thousands of miles away and turned on a good TV. When I go home, I spend a lot of time with my mother. Your mother-in-law loves her mother's health and often visits her, bringing me "Yangwei Pork Belly Soup" and good food for tonic. Your wife and children also love our mother. Buying clothes and saying warm words will make her and you add joy and happiness to her old age!

There is a kind of love that is always praised, and there is a kind of love that can't be stopped; There is a kind of love that will always be bound, and there is a kind of love that will eventually be inspired. This is the sincere love of my sister-in-law! ! Brother, there are many difficulties in life, which are inevitable, but "a happy heart is a good medicine" and "always be happy in everything and always be grateful". We can learn the advantages of my father's optimism, cheerfulness, caring, calmly handling difficulties and dilemmas, as well as my mother's patience, diligence, selflessness and love for children and family by using the sentence annotated by my father's topic "Learning and Thinking". You are the youngest in our family. In addition to your parents' selflessness and generosity, you have a brother and sister-in-law, and the brother-in-law of our four sisters. The love and help you get from now to the future should be the source of your love release and dedication! Remember the great help and love your wife and mother-in-law gave you during the two years when you encountered great difficulties in your life! I am very glad that in the love of big and small families, under the influence of my little sister and me, you have a lasting gratitude and happy attitude and a relatively open mind, strong dependence and hope, and gradually become stronger and stronger in recent years. I believe that you will make new achievements in teaching and educating people in the new environment and in a harmonious atmosphere. You will use this time to go back to China to overcome the difficulty that you often can't be quiet and alone. Firmly and calmly face and deal with the situation and problems in the integration of large families and small families, strive to take care of the family and love others as your own responsibility, look up to the heavenly father, follow the commandment of "Honor your parents, make you happy and live a long life", and abide by the covenants of "monogamy for life", "Love your wife and children as your own life" and "Love your mother-in-law as your parents", and you will continue to gain twice as much. Sister's love will always be with you! !

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