1. Because you understand, you are compassionate - this is what Zhang Ailing said to Hu Lancheng.
2. "The bond between life and death is broad, and I am happy with my son; I hold my son's hand and grow old together with my son" is a sad poem, but its attitude towards life is so affirmative. I don't like heroics. I like the tragic and heroic, but I also like the desolation. The heroic is just power, without beauty, and seems to lack humanity. Sadness is like a bright red and green color scheme, a strong contrast. ——From Zhang Ailing's essay "My Own Article"
3. There is always time and opportunity for things to be done; there are always excuses for things not to be done. ——From "Quotations of Zhang Ailing"
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4. A close friend is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful part of our nature - from "Quotations of Zhang Ailing"
5. Do something for others, but feel a little resentful, and live It is interesting, otherwise it would be too empty - from "Quotations of Zhang Ailing"
6. Teaching is difficult - you have to act and be a human being - from "Quotations of Zhang Ailing"
7 , books are the best friends. The only drawback is that it deepens my myopia, but it is still worth it - from "Quotations of Zhang Ailing"
8. Photos are just broken shells of life; the years have passed, and the melon seeds are just a handful. After swallowing it, everyone knows the taste for themselves, and all that is left for everyone to see is the ugly black and white melon seed shells - from Zhang Ailing's novel "Serial Set"
9. The whole world will laugh with you Laugh, cry alone - from Zhang Ailing's novel "Withering Flowers"
10. We can never go back - "Half Life"
11. I want You know, there is always someone waiting for you in this world, no matter when or where you are, anyway, you know, there is always such a person. ——"Half Life"
12. If you marry a red rose, over time, the red rose will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white rose will still be "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; if you marry a white rose, The white rose is like a grain of rice on the clothes, and the red one is like a cinnabar mole on the heart. ——"Red Roses White Roses"
13. We are all people who are used to loneliness. ——"Half Life"
14. For people after the age of thirty, ten or eight years are just a matter of time.
For young people, three to five years can be a lifetime - "Eighteen Spring"
15. Are you young? It doesn't matter, you will be old in two years.
16. Useless women are the most powerful women.
17. Holding hands is a very sad process, because after holding hands, you let go.
18. The life of an ordinary person, no matter how good it is, is like a peach blossom fan. If you hit your head and the blood splashes on the fan, just add a little bit of it and dye it into a peach blossom.
19. Hateful things in life: (1) Begonias are fragrant; (2) shad are spiny; (3) Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" is incomplete; (4) Gao E's reckless change of death was more than justified.
20. Because we know each other, we understand. Because we understand, we are compassionate.
21. Small sorrows and difficulties can develop a serious outlook on life.
22. Emotions are difficult to deal with. You cannot just put them in the refrigerator and think that they can be stored for a certain period of time without deteriorating.
23. Human beings are always afraid of things they don’t know.
24. Remember despair and hope, fighting each other.
25. You will never understand my sadness, just like the day does not understand the darkness of night.
26. In the world we live in, most things are beyond our understanding.
27. I am a flower that does not bloom. I have learned to wither before I learn to bloom.
28. If memory has a smell, it would be the fragrance of camphor, sweet and steady, like clearly remembered music, sweet and melancholy, like forgotten sorrow. ——"Changing Clothes"
29. There are big and small waits in a person's life, and people gradually forget what they are waiting for.
30. In front of you, I become very low, as low as dust. But I like it in my heart, flowers blooming from the dust. (Zhang Ailing wrote on the back of the photo she gave to Hu Lancheng)
31. Ah, you have to become famous early. If you come too late, the happiness will not be so exciting. Even if individuals can wait, times are in a hurry, destruction is already occurring, and even greater destruction is coming.
32. What I hate most are women who think they are knowledgeable and men who think they are beautiful.
33. Being able to love someone enough to ask for pocket money is a severe test.
34. There is always time and opportunity for things to be done; there are always excuses for things not to be done.
35. A close friend is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful part of our nature.
36. Books are your best friends. The only drawback is that it makes me more near-sighted, but it's worth it.
37. A person can best show the noble qualities of his nature when he is in love. This is why romance novels have always been popular - both at home and abroad.
38. Many women waste time because they are unhappy, which is a compensatory effect.
For example, her husband is indifferent to her and spends money indiscriminately.
I can still imagine the psychology of ecstatic people; I simply cannot understand people like you who are too humble!
39. Even if it is a treasure treasured at home, you have to take it out every once in a while and let others appreciate and comment on it, and then you will rediscover its value.
40. However, when the wine is in the stomach and things are in the heart, there always seems to be a layer in between. No matter how much wine you drink, it can't reach your heart.
41. Kind people will always suffer. The burden of sorrow seems to be innate, so they can only be patient.
42. A child in a loving family, no matter how unstable his life, is still full of self-confidence and compassion - positive, enterprising and brave.
43. The cutest thing in life is when you let go.
44. Many things that we thought we would never forget in our lifetime are forgotten by us in the days when we never forget them.
45. Will the love engraved on the back of the chair be like the flowers on the cement, blooming in a lonely forest without wind?
46. Let’s forget about some things that haven’t been finished yet.
47. Those people who said they would never separate have long been scattered in the world.
48. It turns out that children who are involved with words are never happy. Their happiness is like playful children, wandering to the sky, wandering to the sky but refusing to come back.
49. You will never see me when I am the loneliest, because I am the loneliest only when you are not by my side.
50. One day I will walk away from you silently without making any sound.
51. I look at you smiling, silent, proud, and disappointed just like now, so I am happy with you and sad with you, but I always stand in the present while you always stay in the past.
52. Not every effort will be rewarded, but efforts must be made for every harvest. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition.
53. When you truly love something, you will find how fragile and powerless language is. There is always a gap between words and feelings.
54. Forgetting is our unchangeable destiny. Everything is like a misaligned drawing. Everything in the past cannot be returned to the past, so it slowly extends and staggers bit by bit. Maybe things are staggered. We should really forget.
55. Memory is like water poured into the palm of your hand. No matter you spread it out or hold it tightly, it will eventually flow cleanly from your fingers, drop by drop.
56. I looked back at my growth path and watched day by day. I stood on the roadside with my hands in the pockets of my windbreaker and saw countless people passing by me expressionlessly. As I walked by, occasionally someone would stop and smile at me, as bright as a peach blossom. I know that these people who stay will eventually become the warmth in my life. Seeing them reminds me of never leaving.
57. One day everything will change beyond recognition. Time has not taught me anything, but it has taught me not to believe in myths easily.
58. The wind blows hollowly. Another year passed like this. The coming year will continue like this. I don’t know whether there is frustration hidden behind the stability, or whether there is stability in the depression. We just can't find it.
59. When a beast is injured, it can run to a cave to hide, then lick its wounds and persist on its own, but once it is greeted with greetings, it cannot bear it.
60. I have always liked the afternoon sunshine. It makes me believe that everything in this world will turn around, and that destiny is generous and beautiful.
61. The most disgusting person, if you study carefully, you will always find that he is just a pitiful person. < /p>
63. Disappointment is sometimes a kind of happiness. Disappointment occurs because of expectations. Because there is love, there will be expectations, so even if you are disappointed, it is still a kind of happiness, although this kind of happiness is a bit painful.
64. When you are born in this world, there is no emotion that is not riddled with holes.
65. I love you, and for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything - including you.
66. When I hear something that is obviously irrelevant, I will think of you several times in my mind.
67. When you die, my story ends, but when I die, your story is still long.
68. The saddest distance in the world is that two people were originally very far apart and did not know each other. Suddenly one day, they met and fell in love, and the distance became very close. Then one day, they no longer loved each other, and the two people who were so close became far apart, even farther than before.
69. Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.
70. Loneliness is not something you are born with, but starts from the moment you fall in love with someone.
71. Some people are destined to wait for others, and some people are destined to be waited for.
72. I thought love could overcome everything, but who knew she was powerless sometimes.
I thought love could fill up the regrets in life. However, it is love that creates more regrets. The ups and downs keep repeating themselves in a love. For another person, the sky would not always be blue.
73. Love will end when it comes to an end. When the time comes, it doesn’t matter if you don’t want to.
74. Love turns out to be drinking poisonous wine with a smile.
75. It is difficult to love someone, and even harder to give up the one you love.
76. When you fall in love with someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting him; afraid of losing him.
77. Only when you were not loved by others will you cherish the person who will love you in the future.
78. Every butterfly is the ghost of a former flower, coming back to find itself.
79. A promise that is not fulfilled when it is needed most is a betrayal. It is no longer interesting to fulfill it in the future.
80. A person’s biggest shortcoming is not selfishness, sentimentality, brutality, and willfulness, but paranoid love for someone who doesn’t love himself.
81. When he was young, he dared to speak, but no one paid attention to him. When you reach middle age, you have gained a position in society, and your words carry considerable weight, and everyone is willing to listen to you. However, you are trying hard to learn to be a good person, and you should only speak in a negative manner. When you speak, you should avoid being cold and cold, and always choose those who are familiar with them. , what others say. When you get older and retire, you will be less responsible and you can have free speech. Unfortunately, the elderly are always nagging, making people impatient, and their sensible words will fall on deaf ears. This is one of life's great tragedies.
82. Everyone is a king, domineering in his own world. You don’t want to listen to me, but you don’t want me to listen to you either.