Obesity is a very distressing matter for many women. Only those who have been obese know the suffering. When a person faces those out-of-control fats, it's like life is out of control. Not only does it affect your appearance, it may also give people who don’t understand the situation the impression that they are too lazy to do anything. Life is so beautiful, how can it be destroyed by fat? Coupled with the impact of various reasons, many people, especially many girls, have embarked on a difficult road to lose weight. Some are for beautiful clothes, some are for a better cause, and some are for the person you love.
In Japan, there is a "Die Tian Mama-san" who was deeply troubled by fat. For this reason, even her boyfriend looked down on her and gave her cold words. This Japanese girl whose self-esteem was severely damaged could no longer bear the troubles caused by obesity and decided to lose weight! And within 3 years, she learned 12 languages, and her life gradually became brighter and lighter.
Her name is Takashima Rieko, and she once had a problem that many girls have, which is obesity. She is 160 centimeters tall and weighs 65kg. Because she does not conform to the aesthetic trends of people around her, she has been ridiculed by many people. Because many people cast their colored eyes at her with contemptuous looks, she felt more and more haze in her heart and became more and more inferior.
Walking on the street, those beauties are either graceful and graceful, or they are small, slim, youthful and cute, or they are tall. Look at yourself again, you are so long and round, and sometimes you are laughed at as "having no stomach" and "wasting resources". Obese people are looked down upon when taking elevators or squeezing into buses. Although obesity is not a bad thing, Rieko still received countless critical blows.
Before she determined to lose weight, she faced her career with such low self-esteem, feeling that she could not hold herself up in the company. During this period, she also dated a boyfriend, but she did not taste the romance and sweetness of love. Instead, even her boyfriend laughed at her and thought she was a fat and ugly duckling. Rieko decided to lose weight in 2010, when she was 22 years old and weighed more than 65kg. And just this year, her boyfriend, who she had been in love with for many years, actually cheated on her.
Before they broke up, the other party mercilessly said bad things to her: "You have no money, you are ugly, you are so fat, you will be disliked by people even when you go to the club!" Although she met such a scumbag , it would be better to break up earlier, but Rieko's self-esteem was still hit. Fortunately, she was strong. She wiped away the tears on her face and decided to start her life from scratch. Her ex-boyfriend said she would be disliked by others if she went to the club, so she insisted on going and used her own efforts to slap him back in the face.
The fact is that many clubs thought she was too fat and rejected her. She decided to change, and the strong energy in her personality was aroused. She was unwilling to be rejected everywhere, so she decided to lose weight through diet and fitness! Finally, she successfully lost 20 kilograms in a short period of time.
A person who can make up her mind to lose weight and successfully lose weight, I believe her self-discipline will not be low. After successfully losing weight, she was accepted into a high-end club, where a new career and a new life would begin. Working in the club, she had to work late into the night every day, which was not easy either. Over time, she gradually realized that she must have a strong skill in order to have the capital to choose a better life. Although the job of a bartender is not as many people understand, it is a job that is self-indulgent and does not provide any sexual services to customers.
But a job like this that requires youth is short-lived after all. In order to gain a foothold in Ginza, a city full of beauties, Rieko chose to learn more languages. Because this job requires the guests to have a comfortable and satisfactory time, the requirements for the hostess's psychological quality, conversational skills and other communicative qualities are very high. For this reason, Rieko always takes time to study no matter how late she comes home from get off work every day. She studied for 3 years and successfully mastered 12 languages ??within 3 years, including English, German, French, Russian, etc.
With her own efforts, she transformed from an ugly duckling into a beautiful white swan. As a result, she slowly regained her confidence, and her life became brighter because of her optimistic and positive attitude. She has mastered strong language skills, making her gradually stand out. Coupled with her hard-working and progressive work attitude, the spirit of not being afraid of hardship or tiredness in order to achieve her goals, and the emotional intelligence she has developed by paying attention to her work, she radiates her own light from within.
Sometimes charm is the light on your body. Rieko has been praised by more and more customers. At the age of 25, she became the club's top player and was highly sought after by industry leaders, which also gave her a strong network of contacts.
Rieko, who has overcome the thorns, is no longer the ugly duckling she was before. She is confident, courageous, capable, and has earned a lot of income. In the same year, she was optimistic about the market and decisively founded her first club. Mama Sangke is far from being as simple as a bartender. She needs to grasp the psychology of customers more accurately, and needs to be familiar with the characteristics and preferences of each customer in order to provide them with high-quality services.
The competition in this industry is actually very fierce. You don’t have the money to make money after opening. Basically, the life of the club will not exceed 5 months. However, Rieko, who is young, has successfully made her own. The club survived. She has also relied on her outstanding abilities to solve various industry-related problems with ease, becoming a good role model among mothers.
After the success of the club, Rieko, who pursued a beautiful life, founded her own cosmetics brand two years later. Later, relying on high-quality reputation and strong connections, he opened more and more clubs. The business of these stores of hers is very prosperous. The combined annual income of all businesses is 3 billion yen. She has achieved an amazing counterattack and slapped in the face those who looked down on her back then.
Of course, at this time, Keiko may no longer care about that. She has become an excellent role model for Japanese women. The harm she suffered back then was just a boost to her growth. As she grew up, she also realized a lot of life principles. She once said frankly that in this world, only money and dogs will not betray her.
She herself has experienced a lot of suffering from a poor image, so for her employees, beauty is not the criterion for hiring them. Educational qualifications and abilities are what she pays more attention to. She hopes that each of her employees can find their own shining point and be their truest and most unique selves. It's not without reason that her store's business is booming. Apart from her personal abilities and some of the resources she has accumulated, she has always been a very hardworking person.
No matter how prosperous her business is, she still gets up at four o'clock every morning to ensure the freshness and health of the ingredients in the store, and she is also willing to buy expensive high-end ingredients. The store's reputation is also inseparable from her integrity, conscience, and dedication. Now she can book restaurants and hot springs, travel on the go, and never have to check the price when buying things. It can only be said that people who work hard are so casual.
Conclusion Sometimes reality is just like fairy tales. Facing the beautiful white swan, everyone does not hesitate to praise it and stops to admire its beauty. But before the white swan could change, the ugly duckling was so despised by others. He traveled across thousands of mountains and rivers towards the dream of the swan, and only the ugly duckling knew the hardships he had endured. Some people are just ugly ducklings when they grow up. What awaits the ugly duckling ahead is a road full of thorns. But at this time, we should not be afraid. When you are alone, you need to be stronger.
Only by going through many difficulties can one realize that "the rainbow always comes after the storm". The ugly duckling needs to go through the wind and rain all the way before he can transform into a beautiful white swan. Therefore, when people face a blow, they should not stand in the shoes of those who ridicule and join them in mocking themselves. You should be strong and work hard to break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly, so that you can live up to the ridicule and suffering you have suffered. And at the moment of success, you may also be grateful for those ridicules.