As a human being, you need to understand others, be considerate of others, and consider the feelings of others. We have compiled guidance and examples for writing the topic essay "Others' Feelings". You are welcome to read it. I hope it will be helpful to your future writing.
1. Essay title
People do not live in a vacuum: they live in a society composed of "others". Everything you say, do, and do will be "felt" by others.
Please write an article of no less than 800 words with the title "Others' Feelings".
Requirements: (1) Choose your own perspective; (2) Determine your own conception; (3) No restriction on stylistic styles except poetry; (4) Distinctive stylistic features.
2. Writing guidance
Based on the materials, this essay topic is to guide students to think about whether "other people's feelings" are important, or whether they should care. This question has three characteristics:
(1) It has a certain degree of openness. You can establish opinions like "other people's feelings are important" or "you should care about other people's feelings", or you can establish opinions like "other people's feelings are not important" or "why care about other people's feelings."
(2) Have strong critical thinking. No matter what point of view is established, specific issues must be analyzed in detail, and under what circumstances and why. It should be noted that the point of view cannot be absolute, and the argument must be made at a certain level or conditionally. In this regard, special attention should be paid to writing argumentative essays, examples and argument analysis. Because we can easily see whether your argument is dialectical from the examples and argument analysis given in the article.
(3) It has strong practical relevance. In real life, people often go to extremes. They either always look at other people's faces and do everything based on other people's feelings and evaluations; or they are self-centered, do not understand others, and do not consider other people's feelings: the results are all bad. Lost the direction of life, and even had to pay a heavy price for it. The essay topic actually requires students to face these problems head-on and think about life rationally.
3. Typical materials
Other people’s feelings
This incident happened at a resort in Phuket, where I was working as an English teacher Translation PR.
One day, I was in the lobby and suddenly saw an apologetic Japanese staff member comforting a Western child of about four years old. The frightened child was exhausted from crying. .
After asking for the reason, I found out that the Japanese staff member was negligent because there were many children that day. After the children’s tennis lesson, one person was left out and the child was taken away. An Australian kid stayed on the tennis court.
When she realized that the number of people was wrong, she hurried to the tennis court and brought the child back. The child was frightened and cried profusely because he was alone in a remote tennis court.
Now the Australian mother appears, watching her child cry miserably.
If you were this mother, what would you do? Scold the staff member? Or take the child away angrily and never participate in the "Kids Club" again? Or report it directly to the supervisor? Protest?
None! I saw this mother squat down to comfort her four-year-old child, and told him very rationally: "It's okay. The Japanese sister died because she couldn't find him." She is very nervous and sad. She didn't mean it. Now you must kiss the Japanese sister on the cheek and comfort her!"
At the moment I only saw the four-year-old child, raising his heels. Kiss the Japanese staff member squatting next to him on the cheek, and gently tell her: "Don't be afraid, it's okay!"
When you feel sad and scared, don't forget about others. The feeling in your heart; when you help your friends, don’t forget not to hurt others.
Lin Chiling bent down to take a photo with a man
Lin Chiling was filming an advertisement. During the filming of the advertisement, the agents and assistants beside Lin Chiling were also busy until the evening. Work ended at seven o'clock. At this time, Lin Chiling took a photo with the staff beside her and said thank you very gently to everyone. She was wearing a pair of flat shoes, but there were men who were not as tall as her. Lin Chiling bent down very considerately to take pictures. Some people commented that she was very tall, but "thank you" is very useful, and bending down is very appreciated. He is a very sensible person, considerate of others, and cares about other people's feelings. He has the "style" of a star.
Two famous quotes from Steve Jobs
Your time is limited, so don’t live for others. Don't be limited by dogma and don't live in other people's ideas. Don't let other people's opinions influence your inner voice. The most important thing is to be brave enough to follow your heart and intuition. Only your heart and intuition know your true thoughts, and everything else is secondary.
Are you tired of living for others? Don't hesitate, this is your life, you have absolute autonomy to decide how to live, don't be bound by what other people do. Give yourself a chance to develop your creativity, don't be afraid, don't worry.
Live the life you choose and be your own boss!
Four. Sample essay presentation
Others’ feelings
A single tree does not make a forest, everyone is a tree. He is a member of the forest family of society. In society, everyone's words, deeds, and actions will be felt by others. Therefore, at any time, we should not only consider ourselves, but should think in other people's shoes and consider others' feelings.
Consider the feelings of others when helping others.
A student studying abroad bought his first can of Jianlibao on the train but didn’t know how to open it. The aunt sitting next to him opened her own Jianlibao while drinking a drink instead of telling the students directly. She protected the student's self-esteem in a seemingly natural way and would not embarrass him. In "Family with Children", Xia Xue and others gave a classmate a sum of money to help him, but were rejected. Xia Xue, who was angry at not accepting her kindness, understood her inappropriateness under her mother's prompting. I helped my classmate’s mother find a job and found a way to better help my classmate. Helping others is a good intention, but the way you help can have two completely different consequences. When helping others, you should consider others' feelings, adopt appropriate methods, and help others without embarrassing them.
When disagreements and disputes occur, consider the feelings of others.
Two families were fighting for land, and the prime minister responded to a poem. The line in the poem "It doesn't matter if he gives him three feet" made the family wake up and give in three feet. When the neighbor saw this, he was so ashamed that he gave up three feet of ground, so there was a six-foot passage between the two houses. From then on, the relationship between the two families was no longer tense when fighting for land, but became close. Lin Xiangru worshiped him as a minister because of his merits, but he refused to accept it and made insulting remarks. In the end, Xiangru gave in and finally came to his senses. He stood up and apologized, and the two shook hands and made peace. Why do you choose to give in to win the other party’s understanding and make the other party give in? That’s because you first consider the other party’s feelings! People often say: “Don’t build your happiness on other people’s pain.” And if you really build your own happiness on On top of other people's pain, how can you be truly happy in your heart when you see other people's pain? In ancient times, the tragedies of resentment and resentment have been staged again and again, and now it is also the case that if you don't get along, you will use vicious words and fists. It often happens that when disagreements and disputes arise, you must consider the feelings of others. Maybe you are at fault. If you take a step back, you can gain a brighter future.
Consider the feelings of others in your daily life.
I once saw a public service announcement. The children’s badminton was hung on the tree, and the big brother jumped lightly to help them take it off; in the elevator, a baby was sleeping soundly in his mother’s arms, and another one was on the phone. The lady gently covered the phone with her hand; a piece of paper fell on a chair in the park, and the little boy put it into the trash can... Thinking about others is actually very simple, a small movement, a bright smile can make More harmony among people makes society more harmonious.
A mother once told her children: "Your floor is other people's ceiling." At any time, we must consider other people's feelings. Let this become a habit, a spring breeze, blowing throughout society! (Jiang Yanyang)
Comments: (Original score 50)
The content is substantial, the argumentation method is flexible, and the ideas are clear. The shortcoming is that the original example analysis in the fifth paragraph only emphasizes "concession" and does not further analyze that "the choice to give in is because the other party's feelings are considered." This is a loose point of view. After guidance, it has been revised.
The feelings of others
People are most afraid of being self-righteous and self-centered, thinking that what others do is insignificant to them. Those who don't care about other people's feelings are most likely to be hurt by others. In fact, sometimes, if we restrain ourselves, stop using inappropriate words and deeds, and care about other people's feelings, the outcome of the matter will not be so bad.
I broke her heart because I didn’t care about her feelings. I still regret that scene even now when I think about it. On the night of August 30, 2011, I was nervously catching up on my homework. It was past twelve o'clock in the evening, and I was still writing. While writing, I complained about the amount of homework. The complaint became louder, which woke me up from my sleep. Mom: "Stop writing. If you don't write it in the morning, you won't write it in the evening. You'll be in a panic again when you go to school tomorrow. You just have fun." "I do. If I can't finish writing, I won't go to school! I don't want to go to school anyway, it's boring." "What are you doing if you don't go up?" "You don't need to worry about the death of the family," I scolded. At that time, my mother didn't say a word, turned her head and "sleeped". Later I thought about it, my mother was doing it for my own good and didn’t want me to stay up late because she was afraid that I would be too tired. I was such an asshole at the time. How could I say that to my mother who was over fifty years old? Why didn’t I think about her feelings? If I inadvertently hurt others, if I had considered other people's feelings, I might not feel the regret in my heart. Since then, I have never had a quarrel with my mother, because she is my mother, and I have to understand her. I must care about the feelings of that great woman, and I love her.
I broke her heart because I didn’t care about her feelings.
Junior high school was the saddest time for me. My math teacher was my former neighbor. So when I first entered junior high school, I performed very well and studied very hard. For the sake of the teacher's good words in front of my parents, I became addicted to mathematics until the second semester of the second grade of junior high school. The teacher persuaded me to play online games. At first I listened. Then I tried to persuade you five or six times and called my parents, but it was all to no avail. I became stubborn and the teacher said harshly: "I can't control you anymore with this gameplay. Why?" "I don't know the importance?" I didn't understand the teacher's painstaking efforts, so I never looked back. I dropped from the top five in the first and second grades of junior high school to the top thirty-five in the third grade of junior high school. No defeat. I understand, I didn't care about the teacher's feelings. At that time, she really wanted to give me a hand and work hard for me. In order for me to graduate from junior high school without any regrets, I made her sad. I regret that it would have been better to put myself in someone else's shoes than it is now!
Because I didn't consider other people's feelings and hurt many people's hearts. From now on, I will have to think before I speak or act, especially those with whom I have a good relationship.
When we fail to consider other people’s feelings in time, we must put ourselves in their shoes and never let others feel sad because of us. Caring about other people’s feelings means that others care about our own feelings! Others Your feelings are important, but your own carefulness is more important.
For me, for those who have been hurt by me, I have to think more about them, understand them, and use my own actions to make up for my mistakes.
I hope we won’t care about other people’s feelings in the future! (Zhao Lei)
Comments: (original score 49)
The author selected two things he has experienced By writing these two things, I express the theme of "I hope we won't care about other people's feelings in the future." The narrative description is real, vivid and touching. The shortcoming is the last sentence of the third to last paragraph, which is a wandering point of view.
The feelings of others
"People do not live in a vacuum, but in a society composed of 'you, me and others'."
Indeed, people We cannot live only in our own world. Many times, we must care about the feelings of others. However, we must understand that we are still living for ourselves after all, and what we should care about most after all is ourselves.
If Shang Yang cared too much about other people’s feelings, how could the Qin Empire have unified the world? As we all know, in the process of Shang Yang’s reform, the interests of many feudal landowners and big bureaucrats were touched. If Shang Yang had taken into account Their feelings, then how many years will China's current history go back? How many years will it take before someone changes China's destiny? Yes, Shang Yang's desperate behavior this time cost him his life, but his His efforts have created a glorious era! A thousand years have passed, Shang Yang's name will go down in history, but those "others" whose names are unknown can only be criticized at this time!
If Wei Zheng cares too much about others Feelings, where does the reputation of "Mingjing" come from? Wei Zheng's admonitions have angered Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty many times, but every time at this time, Wei Zheng always looked calm. He knew in his heart the consequences of offending the Holy Will. However, facing the country, the country, and the common people, Wei Zheng could only let his sensibility give way to reason, and put aside the feelings of the emperor! In the end, he won, he His rationality won the emperor's trust, won the reputation of "the bright mirror", and even won a peaceful and prosperous age.
If Adams cared too much about the feelings of others, how could there be legal justice? In such an era of pervasive anti-British sentiment, Adams, an American, resolutely accepted the task of defending British soldiers. Faced with the shock and anger of his compatriots, he still remained clear-headed and rational. "The justice of the law cannot be influenced by public opinion." Adams' actions defended the dignity of the law and the dignity of justice.
Remember Steve Jobs’ famous saying: “Your time is limited, so don’t live for others. Don’t be limited by dogma, don’t live in other people’s ideas. Don’t let other people’s opinions influence your inner voice. "Jobs told me very clearly not to care too much about other people's feelings, but to believe in yourself and follow your own heart and intuition. Only in this way can you succeed!
Friends, take a long-term view. Don't let "other people's feelings" influence you! (Wu Yanran)
Comments: (original article score 47)
Use reductio ad absurdum argument, as well as the "care too much" in the article The use of the word "Tai" reflects a certain degree of speculation. The shortcoming is that the original text of the penultimate paragraph uses "Fan Paopao" as an example, thinking that his reasoning is reasonable and making his views absolute. After guidance, he has replaced it with a famous quote from Steve Jobs.
The feelings of others
In today’s world that values ??business and fame and wealth, I think we still need to pay more attention to the feelings of others. Only in this way will our families and society be more Harmony and beauty.
Since the "Sanlu milk powder" incident, food issues have repeatedly aroused people's attention. When people eat steamed buns, there will be bleach in them. When people eat pork, there will be clenbuterol in them. When eating cooking oil, the cooking oil turned into gutter oil. Chinese people lamented repeatedly: There is nothing in the world that people can eat. Faced with such problems, we may complain about the poor supervision of the national supervision department, but in the end the problem comes from everyone.
Let me ask: If operators can consider other people's feelings, operate with integrity, and operate legally, will we still worry about food safety issues now? Will there still be such a chaotic market order? Therefore, caring about others and considering others is everyone's responsibility. It is an indispensable principle. Only by caring about other people's feelings can our society be peaceful.
I once saw such a report on "Life Help": The little girl is 10 years old and is in the fourth grade of elementary school. Her mother is extremely strict with her and will tell her to study when she is at home. Finally, The little girl couldn't stand her mother's strictness and chose to run away from home to rebel against her mother. When her mother found the note left by the girl, she burst into tears and hurriedly called the police to find reporters. It was two days later when I found the girl. Fortunately, the girl knew how to go to the tutoring class. If she couldn't find her, I think my parents would regret it for the rest of their lives. In fact, in our daily life, such examples are not uncommon. Parents put their hopes on their children and put too much pressure on them to study, which eventually led to the children's resistance. I think if the mother would consider the child's feelings more, care more about the child's life, and reduce the pressure on her, she would be better. There will be no subsequent repentance. At the same time, if the little girl can also put herself in her mother's shoes and communicate more about her thoughts with her parents, only this way of handling the situation will bring about harmony in the family.
In today’s society, it is crucial for everyone to consider the feelings of others. Only by putting ourselves in others’ shoes can we gain ideas other than our own feelings, and can we learn how to take care of others and care about them. other people.
Learn to consider other people’s feelings, and you will gain the splendor of the rainbow; learn to consider other people’s feelings, and you will gain the mind of the ocean; learn to consider other people’s feelings, and you will gain the power of lightning.
The feelings of others are very important. (Zhou Wenyan)
Comments: (original article score 47)
The viewpoint is clear, the expression is natural, and the reasoning is sufficient; the shortcomings are that the first paragraph of the original article is verbose. After guidance, it is now Modified.
Other people’s feelings
Other people’s feelings are like a thorn. When it pricks you, the pain will spread. When it doesn’t prick you, it will make you panic. The feelings of others are like a net, binding you. The bones in your body cannot be stretched, and your whole body feels uncomfortable. Let me tell you, when you are alive, why not take a leisurely walk, why bother about "other people's feelings"!
Su Shi, who wrote poems near the river, was unrestrained and heroic, not for personal gain or loss, let alone the feelings of others. Depressed and unhappy, he only wants to find his sustenance and yearning in this landscape. How could his life be tied up in the world's feelings? He is like the flowing wind, unable to stop his body. The feelings of others are like a heavy burden, weighing on the heart, preventing him from breathing freely or spreading his wings to fly. If Su Shi was so obsessed with other people's feelings, he would not have had a smooth life. His life would have been restricted, and his yearning would have been locked in a cage, without passion, hope, or light.
English women in ancient times lived in the shadow of other people’s feelings. At that time, men liked women's slim waists, and this fashion became popular for some unknown reason. The women regarded their feelings as an imperial edict, and tied up their waists one by one, wrapping their waists tightly with white cloth. Over time, the women's waists became as thick as two cups, and they were proud of themselves. They knew What's the cost of doing this. They do not hesitate to use their own health and life to exchange for others' worthless appreciation and praise. Foolish people will pay the price of being foolish. Women's youth and health are lost day by day, but their pride explodes day by day. They trade other people's feelings for that little bit of weakness. The deformed aesthetics of men harmed the stupid women of that generation. However, if those women thought more about themselves, didn't care about other people's feelings, and didn't pursue vanity, they wouldn't have such a tragedy.
Self and publicity are synonymous with Han Han. I envy his arrogant and unruly life, but I don't have the courage to imitate him. Obviously, he doesn't care about other people's feelings, whether he is criticized or praised by the media and the public. He lives his own life, has his own opinions and ideas, and does not let others interfere with him. I don't have the ability to possess his charm, so why not learn his courage. You don’t have to care about other people’s feelings, you don’t have to put shackles on your own soul, you can be free and unfettered.
Having your own goals and ideals and striving for them is a sign of rationality. It is irrational to be another self because of other people's feelings. Life is not easy, so why not live a more relaxed life and not care about other people's feelings. (Liu Ranran)
Comments: (Original score 46)
Clear views, typical examples, and own thinking. The shortcoming is that the discussion of the point of view "Don't care about other people's feelings" is not dialectical enough. A paragraph can be added before the penultimate paragraph to provide a supplementary explanation of the point of view.