On that day, my sister and sister-in-law made an appointment to clean up many relics left by my wife and make a thorough summary before May 7th. Actually, I've tidied it up many times before. The first time was more than two months before his wife became seriously ill. On Sunday, my son came to see his mother alone. In the afternoon, while she was still sleeping, I quietly pulled Jiejie to the back bedroom, closed the door and whispered, "Let's tidy up mom's clothes together. It's only a matter of time before mom leaves. " Then he began to cry, and JetJet's eyes were red, even though it seemed that he was far from where you really were going. I took off the quilt under the door of the combination cabinet where my wife hung her clothes, making room for all the clothes and pants in the high-end cupboard door to be handed down, so that most of her clothes and pants were concentrated under the combination cabinet for easy selection. I sobbed while tidying up, and my heart was in a mess, as if I were doing something illusory, completely meaningless and very cruel. In the future, I also did some tidying-up tricks, such as taking off some clothes scattered by my wife on the top of the master bedroom cabinet and taking off my own clothes so as not to attract her attention. At this time, my wife actually doesn't need those items that she often uses on weekdays, so I put them together. Some things that will be used immediately, such as wigs, are included in my regular thinking and within reach. At noon the day before my wife died, I hurried home in my son's car and took wigs, bracelets and other things and gave them to my sister-in-law. This bracelet bracelet was also selected by my sister-in-law and sister-in-law in advance among the wife-loving ornaments.
It took more than two hours to clean up that day. My wife's clothes take up a lot of space in the master bedroom and the back bedroom. As my sister said, there are not many high-quality clothes and trousers in Yu Ying, most of which are sewn by themselves, and some of them should have been disposed of as waste long ago. She also has several sweaters, many of which were given by her in-laws, who used to be the financial director of a sweater enterprise in Tongxiang. There have been great changes in clothing styles in society. Even some of them used to be fashionable, but now they are out of date and can't be worn out, so they can only be shelved. But the wife is reluctant to throw it away. Looking at an empty cupboard, we cried while cleaning, and I cried very sadly. Seeing the orange wool suit, I remembered the days when I went to Hangzhou to review with my wife. At that time, after radiotherapy six months ago, my wife's condition eased and she was in a good mood. After the review, she and I traveled around the West Lake, and she also wore this suit. I cried and said that I wanted to keep this dress as a souvenir. I also left the shirts we chose together in the material store, and she immediately cut and sewed them. The photo of her wearing this shirt on Lishi Bridge was finally fixed as a permanent image. I bought her a long alpaca coat with purple fox collar on the Internet the winter before last, which has always been my wife's favorite thing. Now that it's winter, I won't keep it. I have to let her carry it. That peacock green embroidered woolen coat, which was bought online almost at the same time, has always been with me in winter. As a result, I packed nine bags of clothes and pants for my dead wife, weighing no less than 300 pounds. If my brother-in-law hadn't arrived in time, several women and I really couldn't move them to the garage. Of these 9 packages of clothes and trousers, 6 will be burned during May 7th, and the rest will be discarded. At this time, looking at the empty wardrobes and drawers, my sisters and I were in tears, and my brother-in-law and sister-in-law were also in tears. Seeing things and thinking about people, people are empty, how can this situation not be heartbreaking!
A few days later, I asked my sister-in-law to clean the shoe cabinet. Several pairs of new shoes were ordered last year, and some wives never wore them once. I told them that you should take these things as much as possible, one is to see things and think about feelings, put them on to commemorate your sister, and the other is not to waste them. Two people have been crying, and I have been crying with them.
The cupboard is empty, and my heart is empty, as if I had lost my soul.
That Sunday, my son and daughter-in-law took Yang Yang to look for them. I showed them the combined cabinets that seemed to have been robbed shortly after entering the door. I opened the cupboard door and pulled out a bucket, crying and saying, it hurts to look at the empty cupboard! Also said to Yang Yang, niang so many things all have no, niang will take them away. At this point, the daughter-in-law has been crying out loud, and the eyes of her son and Yang Yang are red.
The cupboards here are empty, but the wives there are rich in equipment. Didn't you tell Yanyan in your dream that you were rich in heaven? Then don't be reluctant to throw everything away as before. Throw away what should be thrown away, and buy new ones, okay?