In September, the sky is extra high and blue, and the clouds are extra white and soft; in September, the morning glories and broom plums on the roadside climb higher and higher, and the stink plums are still in full bloom; in September, The distant mountains are dressed in floral clothes, fiery red, emerald green, golden... all kinds of colors are intertwined; in September, the mountains offer hazel mushrooms, matsutake, and precious Ganoderma lucidum; in September, the leaves of the soybeans in the fields fall off, and the There are bunches of plump pods, the top leaves of the corn are still green, the big corn cobs are full of golden fruits, and the cabbage and radishes are green; September ushered in days worth celebrating: Teacher's Day, wedding anniversaries, and the passing of the year. birthday.
1. Do it and cherish it
September 20th is my wedding anniversary, twenty years, just in a blink of an eye. I grew up from a girl to a woman. I formed a family with someone who had nothing to do with me. I lived under the same roof. I had my happiness and my worries. Over the years, I also enjoyed the scenery on the roadside. But It was just a short admiration, and I didn’t get lost. There are several twenty years in life, take them and cherish them.
Twenty years ago, perhaps because of my older age, I did not imagine marriage to be so perfect, but just to live together. As soon as life begins, there are still things I can't stand. I used to teach a dozen students in a remote school in the countryside, but when I was transferred here, I faced more than fifty students at once, teaching mathematics and Chinese, and also served as a class teacher. I was busy and tired, but it was nothing. There are three teaching classes in my grade. No matter how hard I work, I am always ranked last and unable to achieve mutual learning. My husband knew about this situation and thought I was useless. He never cared about it. When I got home, I was exhausted and wouldn’t help him when his oil bottle was overturned. My students were often busy and I kept visiting my home. I would come back very late, and he would always be there. When I came back to cook, I kept complaining and didn't get home in time after work. In the evening, when I was correcting homework and writing lesson plans, he was very impatient and said that I was inefficient. I feel that his attitude towards me before marriage was completely different after marriage. Before marriage, I was all good, but after marriage, I was useless. What he likes to say is "shoulders can't bear the burden, hands can't lift the basket" or "you can't eat anything and can't do anything". Only I know my pain. Only by working hard and working harder can I live a life with integrity. Later, I became an outstanding class teacher at the municipal level, a teaching expert, gave open classes at the town level and county level, and published papers on teaching research in provincial journals, so he was kind to me. I know that everything depends on myself.
At that time, my family was living in poverty, and I didn’t even dare to complain. He was so cold-faced and said, “Don’t follow me if you’re too poor.” I was speechless. Not to mention it, I was actually even more dissatisfied.
When we got married, we lived in a wing room, and I painted the doors and windows myself. I didn't feel any discomfort while living there. Students often came to play at home, and there was always laughter in the house. However, the neighbor in front built a big house, which completely blocked our home. It was like we were living in a basement, dark and damp. Every time he came back from outside, he said he wanted to build a house. The family didn't have a penny, but luckily they could get money for bricks, carpentry, and brickwork on credit. First build a house and live in it, and pay back the money slowly. On New Year's Eve, the owner of the brick factory sat on the kang of my house and asked for an account and wouldn't leave. I sent him my wages immediately after I received them.
When you build a house, you need to peel off a layer of skin. Although my eldest brother came to help, my husband had to take care of things on his own and had to think of many things. I was really useless and couldn't help at all. My husband was very unreasonable and said that my eldest brother was doing the work for me. The new house was finally built, but the husband became sick due to overwork and fell ill. The fever did not go away, and medicine and injections did not work. The doctor here asked him to be transferred to the county hospital and diagnosed him with hemorrhagic fever. At that time, I felt so dizzy that I borrowed money from everywhere to help him treat his illness. If I couldn't borrow the money, I would sell the house. As long as someone was around, I was not afraid of anything. He was discharged from the hospital. I would go to the tofu shop every day before dawn to serve him soy milk, buy oranges, ribs, and eat whatever the doctor told me to do. I would try my best to do it. One winter he recovered. From now on, if he forgets my birthday, doesn't buy me anything when I go out, doesn't do housework, or if I get a new hairstyle or buy new clothes, and he pretends not to notice, I won't be angry anymore. I understand that peace is the most important thing.
2. Unforgettable Teachers
As the 31st Teacher’s Day approaches, I can’t help but think of the teachers who trained me and educated me.
I can’t remember most of the teachers who taught me. The ones who left the deepest impression are a few head teachers. It’s strange to say that they are all male teachers. I also received selfless care and love from them.
The teacher when I entered school was my father. I was only 6 years old at that time. My father held my hand while I was at school. When the weather was windy, rainy, or snowy, my father would carry me on his back. I can still feel the breadth and warmth of my father's back.
When I was in second grade, I was appointed as my class teacher by a soldier who had just transferred from the profession. This teacher was a big boy who played wildly with us, bouncing around with the boys and playing hopscotch with the girls. During class, if anyone is dishonest, he will be hit on the head with the pointer. He never hit me and I felt like the teacher forgot about me. During class, in order to get the teacher to pay attention to me, I deliberately made small moves and kept talking to the classmates around me. The teacher finally couldn't bear it anymore and approached me with his pointer raised. At that time, I really longed for the teacher to hit me, and I wanted to enjoy the same treatment as other students. But unfortunately, the teacher raised the pointer and put it down again.
When I was in fourth grade, I transferred to another school because of the move. My new head teacher is a young father. His child is only a few months old, named Taotao. Whenever we have free time, we girls love to play with Taotao. The teacher gave us early self-study, and the teacher's wife wanted to cook. He held Taotao while he was in class. Taotao is very well-behaved and never cries. After morning self-study, my wife called the teacher out of the window to go home for dinner. We also went home and had breakfast. Come back to class again. This teacher is gentle and patient. During the graduation exam, he was waiting for us outside. As soon as we came out, he asked about the process of answering questions one by one. Many years later, the teacher changed his career and became a government cadre. He went to my husband's hometown to go to the countryside and met my father-in-law. He was very concerned about my living situation. When my father-in-law told me about it, I had the urge to cry. I never saw this teacher again after graduating from elementary school. The teacher's concern for me is eternal.
My junior high school teacher was very strict and managed the class very well. My classmates were all afraid of him. This teacher is resolute and decisive in doing things. Our class is always an outstanding class. My family was in difficulty at that time, and I was the last to pay my tuition fees. After school, the teacher quietly put money into my hand again. Only now do I know that the teacher paid the tuition for me.
The winter was cold, so the teacher applied for a hardship subsidy and gave me a blue scarf. My health is not good and I look thin. The teacher told my classmates that they should treat me like a little sister. During school labor, the teacher asked me to clean the class. I was the only one who dared to talk to the teacher casually. My home was far away, so the teacher asked me to leave early in the afternoon. I am the only student in the class who does not have to do duty. Later I found out the reason why the teacher was tolerant of me. He had a sister with a disabled leg. He is particularly fond of his sister.
When I was in high school, my head teacher was bald and short. Maybe he has a good temper. None of his classmates were afraid of him, and sometimes he was so angry that there was nothing he could do. He taught us physics class, and he explained it in great detail, for fear that we would not understand. Instead, we lost interest in learning. This teacher unfortunately drowned while bringing his daughter to the river to catch fish for his ex-wife. I was still sad for a while.
My teachers, your kindness is like an ocean, and words cannot express it. My blessings cannot be delivered, and there are no gifts. Today I become a teacher, and I want to devote all your love to my students. This is the best way to repay you.
3. Tell your true feelings
March 29th this year was the most beautiful day in my life. Teacher Shandi took me into the fleeting time and worked tirelessly to help me revise and revise it. Edit my post. Then I got to know many family members in the fleeting years, such as the president Feifei Xue, the poet Ginkgo Tree Brother, Red Leaves in the Sun, Ruhua, Ruyu, Yueyue, Hanxiang, Shengmi, Xiuzi, Tingxue, Zhenzhen, Feng Gui, Mu Han, Yi Duo Lian You, Er Ge... there are many masters in the fleeting time, all of them possess unique skills, like beautiful golden phoenixes. I am an ugly duckling. No one laughs at me when I come here. Everyone helped me enthusiastically. My article was written in a superficial and naive way, but everyone encouraged me and said that my foundation was good, but I just didn't feel it. Especially Teacher Shandi, who always told me to keep writing, saying that if I keep writing, I will gain something. I did not feel inferior, but felt the warmth of a big family all the time.
As my birthday is approaching, I really want to talk to Brother Shu for a while:
Brother Shu, you patiently guided me in writing poetry and helped me revise it word by word. Don't be tired; you are very strict with me. If I don't write, I must write according to literary standards. If the writing is not up to standard, I will reject it. If my manuscript is rejected, you have clearly stated the reason for rejection on Feijian, but you still explain it in a small window and ask me if I will scold you? I laughed. Writing poetry is just a hobby and entertainment, and it can’t be used as a living. You laugh at my lack of ambition, which is related to the fact that my level is improving too slowly. You tell me to read more poems that I don’t understand, communicate more, and don’t rush to write.
I am troubled and painful by my inability to write good poetry. You, an amiable big brother, carefully looked through the graffiti in my space and comforted me by saying, Xiaoya, you are very good. You can go from a few sentences of diary to being able to write articles. How much progress you have made. Xiaoya, your prose is already very good. These words of yours keep lingering in my mind. When I miss you, I feel not only the tears that flow, but also the strength to forge ahead. I seem to feel you saying to me, Xiaoya, you are not an ordinary grass in the ravine, but a fragrant lily. One day you will reveal your fragrance, I look forward to it. Brother Shu, I believe you will spend your fleeting fourth birthday with us. Brother Shu, we have met for a short period of time, and your care is my precious wealth in this life. You've been with us, right?
Brother Shu, remember you asked me to send you a photo. To be honest, I don't trust you very much. Although I feel your sincerity, on the virtual network, after all, we are strangers. You also sensed my vigilance and told me that all your close friends take the initiative to send photos. On the Internet, no one will make fun of anyone and send them snickering expressions. I said I was old and ugly. Brother Shu laughed again, no way, you are only forty-three years old. I said the information was false. You sent a photo of an old Tibetan woman with bronze skin, razor-like wrinkles on her face, and a head full of messy white hair. Ask me, is it like this? Then he said, Xiaoya, don’t send me fake photos.
After a while, you said, Xiaoya, I really want to chat with you about poetry and life, but you don’t think the men chatting online are good birds, so you don’t dare. You sent me a snickering expression again, and your humorous conversation made me laugh too.
Brother Shu, Teacher Shandi asked me to take a photo for a post. I will try my best to take good photos. First of all, choose clothes. Birthdays are a major festival, so you should choose red, the traditional Chinese festive color. I like blue and white. I think they are the colors of the sky and white clouds, which are clear and pure. I don’t have a red dress, so I’ll go out and buy it. I visited all the clothing stores and finally found a bright red casual outfit that I could wear. The female boss asked for 280 yuan, so I took out 300 yuan and gave it to her. I said loudly, "No need to look for it. Let's go away in style. It's hard to buy anything if you have money." The smile on the female boss's face turned into a flower, "Teacher Zhu, you are such a good person. Others keep bargaining, but you give me more money. You are welcome to come often."
Put on bright red casual clothes and I’ll go get my hair done. When I was a bride, I didn't even pay for my hair to be done. Today, in order to show off my elegance as a timeless person, I had to do it well. Tell the hairdresser to come up with good skills, soften and trim the bangs, and make the shoulder-length hair wavy. The hairdresser was like carving a piece of art, carefully doing the hair step by step. While doing it, he marveled at the excellent quality of my hair and the good results. When I looked in the mirror, I forgot my age even if I didn't look carefully. This hair shape looked like a Barbie doll. I found a professional photographer and took a set of photos from different angles. The photographer praised me for the good negatives. I selected three and sent them to the space. Teacher Shandi looked at it and said, the pearls are not ugly and the photos can be used. Brother Shu, have you seen it too? I seem to hear you saying, Xiaoya, I believe the photos you posted are not fake photos. You look so cute and innocent.
Brother Shu, the fleeting time has changed me and warmed me. The fleeting time is my spiritual home and the entire spiritual sustenance of my spare life. I have received the care of my relatives and am very happy. Teacher Shandi invited me to join the commentary team and asked me to be a commentator for the fleeting years. How can I be qualified for my level? But how could I refuse the respectable mountain teacher? How happy it is to be able to do something for the passing time and contribute a little bit of strength. In order to live up to the expectations of Teacher Shandi and to repay the love of Liu Nian's family, I read the article carefully and left a passionate message to make the author feel the warmth of Liu Nian's family. Brother Shu, I have been an excellent commentator for three months in a row. Xue She delivered three books to me by express delivery, and they were signed by Xue She. The thoughtful Xue She also gave me a bottle of hand cream imported from France. Brother Shu, you must know that you will be proud of me, right?
Brother Shu, September, forever, twenty-seven, people who are fleeting are real, sincere, and will be together forever.
Let us wish you a happy new year together!
I wish you a vibrant and prosperous new year and a garden full of spring scenery!