How can a delicate and sensitive woman write so many gentle poems?
Tenderness is like water, and the ceremony is like a dream, which has become the love witness of many believers.
Time may have passed, but poems about love are always young. Everyone's life will always be enriched by another person; Every wandering soul will always become peaceful because of love. The most wonderful thing in life is really:
In real life, Xi Murong is such an ordinary and happy woman: she has noble royal blood and is good at oil painting; She has delicate feelings, but she married her husband in science and engineering and indulged in love all her life. ...
When Mu arrived at Leuven University, at a weekend party held in China Student Center, 22-year-old Xi Murong helped pack jiaozi in the kitchen, and the atmosphere was lively and harmonious. Suddenly, she heard someone ask a classmate why she left without eating. The classmate opened the door and said:
"I'm sorry, I have an appointment to meet someone, and I'll come back later ..." This magnetic bass attracted Xi Murong, and Xi Murong subconsciously looked out of the kitchen, only to see the closed door. She is curious, what does a person with such a beautiful voice look like?
A few weeks later, China Student Center met again, and Xi Murong finally got to know this tall guy with a nice voice. His name is Liu Haibei, and he is also an international student who came to Belgium from Taiwan Province Province to study physics.
After slow contact, Xi Murong discovered many of his advantages. For example, he not only has a good voice, but also speaks standard Mandarin, which makes her admire and envy. From then on, Liu Haibei became her teacher and taught her pronunciation seriously.
What Xi Murong appreciates more is that this introverted boy is optimistic, kind and helpful, and full of love for small animals. Liu Haibei has a stray cat and has just given birth to many kittens. When Xi Murong went to see it, he wanted to hug it immediately. But he stopped me. "Young lady, please wait a moment. Don't scare the mother cat. She was hungry as soon as she gave birth. I am feeding her. If you come and hug her, she will run away, and then the kitten will have no milk. " Xi Murong a warm heart:
After several parties, Xi Murong found that Liu Haibei was not only knowledgeable, but also kind. He will make a comfortable nest for the cat and send the lonely girl home. He often plays table tennis with Xi Murong, and he always loses gracefully to her.
One night after saying goodbye in the moonlight, when Liu Haibei's back drifted away, Xi Murong had a faint sadness in her heart, which she turned into a wonderful poem: "How to let you meet me/at my most beautiful moment/for this reason/I was in the Buddha for 500 years/begging him to let us have a dusty relationship."
Xi Murong, 1943, a Sichuanese, originally from Ming 'an Banner, Chahar League, Inner Mongolia. Later, she was a Mongolian royal family, and her grandmother was a direct descendant of Genghis Khan. Her Mongolian name is Mulun Xilianbo, which means a mighty river. The Chinese transliteration of Murong means Mulun. Therefore, her blood is full of the unique boldness and frankness of the northern grassland people, but because she has been drifting with her parents when she was young and grew up in the turbulent years of war, her heart is sensitive and delicate.
From the age of twelve, Xi Murong began to write poetry and later studied painting. 65438-0964 Studied in Belgium, specializing in oil painting. She didn't expect to meet him in this foreign country. What a wonderful and rare fate!
Xi Murong can feel Liu Haibei's affection for himself. She knew he would never take the initiative, so she decided to take the initiative. On one occasion, Liu Haibei caught a bad cold and was bedridden. Xi Murong personally cooked and cooked a pot of porridge for him.
In addition, she found that Liu Haibei likes photography and said to him, "My family wants me to send photos. Please help me take some photos in the park. " Liu Haibei readily agreed. They walked deep in the park and talked more and more by taking pictures. Later, Xi Murong also hinted that "I like you", and Liu Haibei also expressed the same feeling with a smile.
In this way, one is studying oil painting, and he is not interested in numbers since he was a child; One is physics, and I am addicted to the digital world all day. Two seemingly completely incompatible young people fall in love and naturally enter the marriage hall. A wedding was held in Brussels.
After marriage, Xi Murong and her husband agreed to return to Taiwan Province Province for employment and settlement after graduation. At that time, many relatives and friends did not understand, thinking that there would be better development prospects abroad. But they have a tacit understanding and are bent on returning to China.
After returning to Taiwan Province Province, they did not choose the bustling downtown life, but lived in the countryside for 10 years.
Xi Murong suffered dystocia when she gave birth to her eldest daughter Ci. After trying her best to give birth to the baby, she went into a short coma. In a trance, she felt a familiar hug.
Liu Haibei held her tenderly and kept calling her name softly. Suddenly, the strong man who never cried began to cry and whispered in her ear affectionately:
In the early morning of summer, when Xi Murong woke up with the baby's tender singing accompanied by the crisp birdsong, she heard her husband whisper to the children, "Keep it down! Mom is still sleeping. "
Liu Haibei always gets up a little earlier than Xi Murong and prepares food to fill his stomach.
A happy and stable marriage and a quiet life, in Xi Murong's view, she feels that there are many memories that she can't and won't forget, which often arouse some precious and delicate feelings in her heart. And writing is to keep these feelings.
Every time Xi Murong finishes writing a poem, he reads it to her husband first to solicit his opinions and ideas. Liu Haibei always listens patiently and supports her writing. She is her loyal first reader.
One day, Liu Haibei saw the story of Bai Juyi, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty, and said that Bai Juyi should read his poems to the illiterate old lady in the countryside first, and then show them to others after the old lady understood them. He suddenly had an epiphany and sighed to his wife, "Oh, so my function is equivalent to that old lady!" " "XiMurong couldn't help laughing.
Presumably, in the mind of Hai-Liu Bei, the honest Chen Sicheng thinks:
198 1 year, Xi Murong's first book of poetry, Qilixiang, was published and reprinted seven times in just one year. Her essays often appear in newspapers and magazines, and her paintings have won many awards. Xi Murong's name spread all over the Taiwan Strait and was loved and sought after by many readers. Especially her fresh and elegant love poems, or her pure and melancholy love, or her unrestrained homesickness, or her philosophical charm of human feelings ... The unrestrained blood of the grassland people flowing in her bones, coupled with the unique delicacy and femininity of women, make her poems graceful without losing the atmosphere, feminine but not shallow.
Xi Murong's fame, aura and honor are accompanied by troubles. Her married life has also become the object of media attention. Friends began to like joking, saying that Liu Haibei now has a famous wife, laughing at him for spoiling his wife and being afraid of her. Liu Haibei is also a little in distress situation. Every time he attends public occasions and is introduced by outsiders, he always adds "He is Xi Murong". Enthusiastic readers often call home, and some even call him Mr. Xi and give him his wife's surname.
Awkward things often happen, and Xi Murong feels guilty, but she didn't expect her husband to be broad-minded and generous. He is never angry or upset, but he will tell some jokes between him and Xi Murong. Later, after being asked a lot, Liu Haibei simply wrote an article entitled "A Famous Wife at Home". The article is full of fun, and the literary talent is not inferior to his wife.
In 2006, Liu Haibei wrote a collection of essays "World Spectrum", which was combined with Xi Murong's "Fireworks on Earth" and named as "A New Collection of Concentrations". In this way, the woman and her husband sang together and everyone was very happy. These make Xi Murong feel gratified, but she is not at ease. She said:
Xi Murong's seventh collection of poems, In the Name of Poetry, was published in Taiwan Province and Chinese mainland at the same time. This is exactly 30 years since her first book of poetry, Qilixiang, was published.
Youth is far away, love is lonely, and you can only waste time and memory. In the name of poetry, most of her works were written after 2005. There are many poems written by Xi Murong to her late husband.
"Many of my poems are looking back and regretting the missed time. We have missed it all our lives. I learned from other places that what I missed was not only my youth, but my only and all life. "
Time passes like water. They also walked hand in hand from lush youth to sixty years old. In 2009, her husband Liu Haibei died of illness, but love continued in Xi Murong's heart. She said in tears on the show:
Mr. Liu Beihai came from her hard pursuit, but Mr. Liu left her because of illness.
So after he died, I thought I wouldn't cry for more than half a year. I thought I could escape, but I still couldn't. If so, I just want to thank him. Maybe when I miss you, I still can't help whispering in tears:
"May it last forever/You will always be my partner/I will always be your gentle wife."