Don't talk in a hurry.

What I regret most in this world is what I said and what I didn't do. Regret what you said is much more than what you didn't say, and regret what you didn't do is much more than what you regretted doing-a mature person will feel this way when reviewing his own experience.

When I was in church, I really didn't like a person who sang out of tune to join the choir. I always feel that there is a discordant voice inside. When I played the piano to accompany them, I could clearly hear it, and my heart was very uncomfortable ... I was going to find that person on the spot, but later I saw that she was thin and weak, so I put it aside. After the meeting, I went to talk to the director about this person, and the director told me her story.

This is a sister who has just finished major surgery from the hospital and returned to her hometown from Shenzhen. She felt very grateful to God for saving her from death-she wanted to be grateful and always felt that she had to do something. Listening to the sermon that rap poetry is also a service, so she signed up. She is weak, but she is confident! Rehearse with the choir, very seriously ...

I have a lot of feelings in my heart ... when I see that sister again, I will smile at her so that she can sit down and practice ... What a cruel thing it would be if I find her rushing out and saying that she can't sing this or that. Ok, ok! I didn't hurt her because of impatience!

But in this life, to be honest, I am anxious to say more than I don't regret. I remember that during Christmas at school, I was in charge of rehearsing a holy play. The rehearsal time was in the evening, two students were late and went out twice in the middle-I finally couldn't help but get angry: hey! Do you want to cooperate! Do you want to practice! I don't want to practice. I told you I could change someone else!

Brother Dong, who is angry with me, has a good temper. He still smiled and said, don't be angry, we can make up for it ... After the rehearsal at ten o'clock, two of their classmates came into the rehearsal classroom with a big pot of chicken soup and gave everyone a bowl to share ... It turned out that they secretly came out to cook chicken soup for us after seeing the hard rehearsal during that time-many years later, it was Xiao Dongde from Thailand on May 1 this year. Why don't I remember?

I used to say a lot of inappropriate words because of impatience, which hurt many people who shouldn't have hurt. I hate myself for making such a mistake, but I keep making it. ...

Speaking of a recent regret, it really happened ... I saw something written casually by a simple friend, which I said was rows of poems and included in major topics-I didn't like it, but I made a contemptuous remark-he didn't care, took the initiative to chat with me privately and told me his story-a man who was addicted to gambling, didn't go to many schools and just wanted to write after being abandoned by his beloved woman. I am an uneducated person ... think about how ashamed I was! It is amazing that an uneducated person can concentrate on writing so much! I regret my contemptuous comments, but I can't take them back. ...

Everyone has a story, and everyone has a story behind them ... Be careful of our feelings! Don't talk in a hurry! In the Bible, Elder Jacob once told everyone to listen quickly, speak slowly, and be angry slowly ... so as to say less inappropriate words. Thanks to my friends for their tolerance along the way, and I have also understood many people who have lied to me-who can put the words right if they don't understand? No one can be wrong! I hope everyone can speak slowly and think clearly, and it is best to say less! Don't talk so fast!

If a person has no mistakes in words, he can almost become a perfect person!