"De" means to get and have, and "Dan En will repay three thousand for revenge" and "all brothers and sisters are listed in the soil" can be obtained; "Go" is lost and empty. "Until under their hooves, they may trample on those moths", "It took a lot of time, and no one got it", and they worked in vain all their lives, leaving nothing behind.
Taking stock of life, every individual in life is closely related to "gain and loss". A person's growth process is also a process of correcting the relationship between gain and loss. There is no gain, no loss, no gain, and there are gains and losses, which constitute a complex life of "having a different taste in your heart". The word "gain and loss" is the balance weight of life. If the two weights of "gain and loss" are not set, it will hurt your body and hurt you. Perhaps many people can tell the gains and losses thoroughly, but they may not be able to grasp them thoroughly. "Throughout ancient and modern times, those monarchs who lost their people and their country, which one is not" the world is bustling, can do anything. The world is bustling, and all of them are successful. That one is not a tragedy, because they don't know the "loss" in "success". After Li Longji, a benevolent government in the Tang Dynasty, got Yang Guifei, in order to get more charming laughter from the beauty Yang Guifei, he was addicted to the decadent sound of poetry and songs all day long, and to the affair in the gentle countryside of the harem. His ministers also lived a life of drunkenness in their own "income", and finally lost the world for "income". Senior officials of the Qing Dynasty and Kun lived in a magnificent house with wives and servants, but they were still dissatisfied with their "income". He formed a party for self-interest in North Korea, fought for profit, did not hesitate to harm Zhong Liang, never missed every opportunity to get gold and silver treasures, engaged in political chaos for more than 20 years, and finally "died of profit". Even after the founding of New China, there were many struggles for "success". From Liu Qingshan and Zhang Zishan, the "first corrupt officials", to Chen Liangyu, a member of the the Political Bureau of the Communist Party of China (CPC) Central Committee Committee and former party secretary, who was just investigated, they walked wave after wave, not because they didn't know what they had lost, and even their lives were buried by their crazy accumulation of Jinshan Yinshan. It can be seen that "giving up" is urgent!
Perhaps we humans are frightened by the material age of serious shortage, and even more frightened by the sword of "losing". The consciousness of "whatever, catch it first" lurks in a prominent position in the brain. "I'd rather take it first than miss the last bus." Our ideas control the vast majority of people, and it is difficult for people to give up "gain" and bear "loss" between gains and losses.
However, is it really harmful to give up "gain" and take "loss"? Not exactly. Throughout the ages, countless celebrities have made immortal achievements. Throughout their success, they all benefited from giving up "gains" and bearing "losses". Gou Jian, the King of Yue, tasted courage, "gave up" personal honor and disgrace and "won" the country. Bill? Gates "gave up" Harvard's world-famous "study" and made a generation of world tycoons. Tan sitong gave up his life, leaving him fresh and dry; Tao Yuanming put aside the splendor of the world and enjoyed the quiet life of leisurely Nanshan alone; Li Bai gave up power and achieved immortal poems; Strugglers give up leisure and entertainment, but win applause, laughter and flowers. It can be seen that "losing" is urgent!
"The moon is full, sunny and round." "You can't have your cake and eat it." Gains and losses are ruthless, because someone "gave up" a philosophy. When we are teenagers, we should give up the pain that everyone wants to be leisurely and take the cold window that everyone wants to throw away; When we grow up, we should give up the splendor that everyone envies and pick up the lost personal dignity; To be an official, we must strive not to lose the slightest justice, integrity and public opinion, and we must be brave enough to give up too many cars, houses, tickets and skirts; For the people, it is necessary to guard against "glamorous and dull" and catch up with ethics, beliefs and aspirations.
I hope everyone can become a master in the realm of gain and loss purgatory, and get a brilliant life in the timely pursuit of gain and loss.