I am close to retirement age, but no one has gone through the retirement formalities for me. Although I have mixed feelings, I still have a lot of experience.
Now to sum up:
First, I know my health is not as good as before.
When you are old, the deepest feeling is that this man is like a machine that has been running all his life, and all parts are worn out, more like an oil lamp, which has exhausted the last bit of oil and is about to go out.
When I was young, I was in good health and worked hard to make money. Now my various functions are shrinking and there are more and more problems. Memory loss, slow action. I had no ambition in those years. Only how can we keep ourselves in a relatively healthy body and live a good life?
Second, know how to be grateful
God turned me into a human. I used to have endless dreams. Some things are achieved through hard work, and some are abandoned halfway. I find that I only care about myself and have not learned to be grateful.
I have been working hard for my career since I was an adult. Although my parents raised me at home, I didn't really do filial piety. I want to be filial to my parents while I can still walk.
Society has given me the ability to create value. Before I am completely old, I will supplement my income to the society and be a kind-hearted and enthusiastic public welfare person.
Doing more good deeds is also self-cultivation, and being a good person will not become a burden to society.
Third, understand the truth.
In the past few decades, I have struggled on the road of survival and have a little knowledge of many things. Now I'm about to calm down and sort out my own right and wrong.
The road I have traveled has made me understand that there is no end to this world, and I will never finish it. Only through continuous exploration will the road under my feet become smoother.
What I have done shows me that I am a member of all beings, and there is nothing special. It was a myth to overestimate yourself in the past.
My ability is limited. I have to give myself a correct position, try my best to strive for what I can do, and if I can't do it, don't do it.
The fourth measure is the most important.
Throughout the first half of my life, there are joys and sorrows, and success and failure coexist. One thing I haven't given up is enterprise.
No matter the trough or the peak of my life, I have never given up my dreams and pursuits. Even if it is difficult, I will stick to it.
What supports me to do this is an indomitable enterprise. Others don't have as many brains as I do. Why can others succeed? It is under the control of this enterprising spirit that I have come all the way down.
Although I am an ordinary family now, through my own efforts, I can at least support myself now.
Fifth, plan the future life of the elderly.
I am about to unload my saddle and make some plans for my future life.
I'm going to take good care of my health after retirement and keep myself away from illness as much as possible. With good health, you have the capital to spend your old age safely.
After a break, take your wife, bring a good mood, find a reasonable travel route, make a good travel strategy, enjoy the beautiful scenery of nature, see the outside world, and experience a leisurely life with ease and pleasure.
It doesn't matter how much you earn if you continue to be a code word climber. The most important thing is to exercise your brain so that you won't get Alzheimer's disease.
Keep a normal heart and be an elegant old sunset person.
My feelings may be a little illusory.
1, old! Why are you old? The road of life seems to have not gone far. That was yesterday, indeed. ...
2. Are people over 60 old? I always like to ask myself this question.
3. I always feel young when I talk and do things occasionally, but I calm down a little and look in the mirror and suddenly wake up: "How old are you?" Still young. "
4. Sometimes I love to give birth to some unrealistic ideas. There are still a few things to do in this life, what tasks to complete, how long and how far to go. ...
In fact, these ideas are ridiculous when you think about them yourself.
I will be 65 years old next year, which is really very old biologically. My own specific psychological feelings can be summarized as four points.
First, it is no longer lively. I don't want to go to crowded places, have dinner with friends, and my classmates call me, my old unit, for social activities. What's the fun? It's best to have a rest by the lake or in the forest.
Second, the energy is declining. I feel tired after reading, walking, watching TV and talking for a while. When I feel tired, I want to sit down and rest, and I don't want to force myself to work hard.
Third, things are no longer true. Zhang San said that Trump was not a thing and didn't want to interrupt. Reese said Biden cheated in the election and declined to comment. Wang Wu doesn't seem to have heard Putin's claim to the throne. Let him go to these things that are not closely related to me.
Fourth, pay more attention to your health. I'm a little worried because I don't eat well; Sleeping unfamiliar, a little discouraged; Cold hands and feet, a little worried; Your forehead is very hot. I'll take your temperature right away. I'm not really sick, I'm just worried that I can't stand it.
Of course, you can't keep saying that you are old. You still have to be a little energetic and childlike, learn to play a little, be happy and try to make progress every day. Besides, when you get old, you get old! Youth has left me. Don't hint at yourself, but really let nature take its course.