Therefore, as parents, it is necessary to study with their children and form a good habit of studying together. Good reading habits and interest are the best motivation for learning.
In the process of studying with my son, I learned the following points: First, parents should set an example and persist. When my son was very young, I consciously cultivated his habit of listening to books and reading. Because he is young, I mainly read to him. The wonderful story in the book gradually attracted my son, and gradually he changed from "asking him to listen to me" to "asking him to listen to me".
Sometimes when I am too tired to study with my son, I think of persisting and starting parent-child study again. After this habit is formed, every time it is time to study, my son will go on time and never stop.
Second, when reading, you should choose books that match your child's age. After reading books suitable for his age, children will enhance their interest in reading.
On the contrary, if children can't read books that suit them, their enthusiasm for reading may decline. For a time, my son showed that he didn't like reading very much. Later, I asked my colleague about her children's reading, only to know that the books I chose during that time were a little adult, and they were very appetizing when I bought them, ignoring that my son was the main reader.
After this incident, every time I buy books, on the one hand, I ask my son for advice, on the other hand, I check some books recommended by experts in advance that meet my son's age. As a result, after buying such a book, my son's interest in reading became strong again. Therefore, parents should not only make their children like reading, but also help them choose books.
It also illustrates a problem. If you want to be a qualified parent, you must enrich yourself in advance and know more about the children's world, so that you can be loved in the children's world. Third, properly guide and apply what you have learned.
The purpose of reading with children is not only to understand the content of the story, but also to broaden children's horizons, learn from them and turn their good side into their own, so don't read for the sake of reading. When I am studying with my son, I often ask some questions and think with my son. For example, if I read an article that conflicts with my classmates, I will ask my son to think about what he should do if he encounters the situation in the book. In reality, sometimes sons show selfishness. I just want to talk about an article we read together. How do people inside think of others in advance? Every time I mention it, sometimes I don't have to say much. My son understood my intention to chat with him, and he was embarrassed to correct himself.
So sometimes when I hear friends praise my son for being polite and reasonable, I know that the books he read have influenced him, and the role models in the books have influenced and shaped him subtly. Fourth, read aloud, not just silently.
Reading is not the same as reading. The sound of reading will enhance the sense of language, and you will experience the rich feelings of words and phrases in reading aloud. My son always liked reading silently for a while and found that he read quickly. Such reading doesn't play a good role, he just pursues stories blindly.
So later, my son and I changed to mutual reading, and each of us read a book for a while every day, and then discussed its content. Through this change, my son's expression ability has improved. Sometimes he will say something unexpected, sometimes he will ask me the meaning of a sentence mysteriously, and then tell me what he understands when I pretend to be puzzled. Oh, I see, the truth of reading a book a hundred times has been slightly revealed in my son.
Fifth, exchange experiences with children and make friends. After my son can read a book independently, he will not only describe it to me eagerly, but also strongly recommend it to me. That sense of urgency made me understand that he wanted me to read with him, experience the happy feelings brought by books, sing together and know that this is what he likes and why he likes it. Whenever this time, I will put down what I am doing and watch it with him.
Similarly, when I come across a particularly good article, I immediately want to share it with my son, so that he can realize the unspeakable happiness I get from the book. Parent-child reading is not only accompanied by the healthy growth of my son day by day, but also in the process of reading, my son and I have experienced the joys and sorrows in the book. The same mood has narrowed the distance between my son and me, and made me and my child become friends who talk about everything.
This is the happiest and most practical feeling brought to me by parent-child reading. The study of parent-child reading (2) Books are the ladder of human progress, lifelong companions and sincere friends. My husband and I are people who like reading books and newspapers. Reading books and newspapers has become an indispensable demand in our life. After becoming a mother, I have a deeper understanding: as parents, we should try our best to give our children a happy childhood and not put too much pressure on them.
I think that if learning becomes easy, children's learning can be relaxed and happy! Through reading, you will understand that character education that benefits children for life is in daily life, and random education is very important. Since my daughter is sensible, apart from taking her out to play and broaden her horizons, Nanhai Book Shopping Center is the place where we take her the most, and books are the most gifts for her, because we understand that parent-child reading is an activity that can bring infinite fun to children, and it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. In my early childhood, when I was reading to my daughter, I would pay attention to the intonation of reading, read with emotion, adopt different voices to the main characters in the book, and sometimes read with children of different roles to stimulate their reading interest.
Now, I will pay attention to mobilizing the interactivity of reading. In the process of reading extracurricular books, we are often interrupted by our daughter's questions. At this time, we will stop to answer the children's questions patiently, or ask our daughter some simple questions to inspire her to think positively and guide her to speak her mind.
This is a very important exchange opportunity. The purpose of reading with children is not only to share happiness, but also to share confusion. We will discuss what children don't understand, or look up information with children. Parents and children have increased their knowledge and exercised their thinking ability in reading.
Whenever I see a good article.
2. Parent-child reading comprehension 35 words "The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu" This is a sentence I often say to my children. I think children should first know the importance of reading. By reading, they can know what they want to know.
My daughter said to me, "Mom, crocodiles look fierce, but why do they cry when they see their prey?" I pretended to ponder, "why? Why, go, bring the hundred thousand whys, and let's see what makes the fierce crocodile cry. " After we find the answer, I will deliberately say loudly, "Oh, thanks to this book, it seems that there is everything in it. I will read more books in the future! " I will often tell children stories that children are interested in. Sometimes I tell them. While the children were listening with relish, I deliberately forgot the specific content. At this time, the children will be clamoring to tell them quickly. I will take the story book, find the story being told, and then read it to the children. I read it when the children were not very literate. Now she hates me for reading slowly. Whenever this time, she will take pleasure in reading for a long time.
3. How to write our parents' words in real life? There are very few parent-child activities. Most of them are parents who work long hours and cook after work, while children do homework after school and have no time to accompany them, let alone study together. Therefore, this school organizes parent-child reading and should cherish it. Reading is a great accumulation of life. It can shape a sound personality, temper the will of tenacious struggle, enrich the accumulation of extracurricular knowledge and brain wisdom, which may affect our new generation's life. A student who doesn't pay attention to reading is a difficult student to develop; Parents who don't care about their children's study are incompetent parents. Because of work, I can't read books with my son every day, but I can read books with my children at least twice a week. Since I started studying with my son, I have rediscovered the wonderful and magical feeling of studying with my son. I enjoy reading with my son every time. When we read the story of Robinson Crusoe, we appreciate the joys and sorrows of the characters in the book, and feel the indomitable spirit and super survival ability of the protagonist together. When we encounter difficulties, we should explain to our children that we should be indomitable in a difficult environment like Robinson. When we encounter difficulties, we should try our best to overcome and solve them. I enjoyed the growth of my children and also gained happiness. The childlike innocence in the book brushed away the dust in my heart and made me.
4. If the parent-child feels instantly, the teacher assigned us a task yesterday: write about the feelings of the parent-child. My son has read a lot of books, but at his present level, it is really difficult to write. My mother was more worried about writing, so I scraped together my homework on the Internet.
Reading experience
Lin Rongkai's mother
Someone once said that if a child doesn't study, his life experience will definitely be lacking. The inspiration brought by reading can solve children's vision and personality problems. There is no doubt that paying attention to children's reading is now a trend all over the world.
It has always been my dream to study with my son and grow up with my children on the way of parent-child study. The ancient parent-child reading activities provided us with such opportunities and created a reading atmosphere. When reading with children, under the influence of the strong interactive atmosphere between mother and child, we will inadvertently blend into a sea full of novel stories. While intoxicated, I have to marvel that reading, reading and telling stories with my children can be so vivid, interesting and meaningful!
My child is in the second grade this year, and has finished reading more than 20 children's literature books such as Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Water Margin, The Journey to the West and Yang. Now he is more and more interested in reading. Almost anything with words can interest him: go to the teacher to learn the piano. After the break, he will read magazines such as Reader and Piano Art there. At noon, he will unconsciously read the newspaper on the table and tell me what he sees. Nowadays, for children, reading is a natural life like eating and playing, not a hard job to be completed.
Since the summer vacation, we have read many fairy tales, including those of Zhang Qiusheng and Sun Youjun. Their books are especially suitable for children's thinking and age needs. Many short stories are very meaningful and meaningful, from which we have gained many effective family education methods, which are of great benefit to cultivating children's thinking, moral quality and communication skills. Of course, children also benefit a lot from it, and many good habits come from the understanding and affirmation of the protagonist in the book.
The cultivation of good reading habits is an immortal light for children to explore independently in their future lives. In the process of children's growth, it will always illuminate the road under their feet. Reading can increase your knowledge and broaden your horizons; Reading can understand things and enhance ability; Reading can cultivate temperament, nourish people's hearts, learn to be a man and do things along the ladder of books, and climb one scientific peak after another.
I hope I can support and grow up with my children on the road of parenting education!
Fall in love with reading
Lin rongkai
Mom said I like reading, probably from kindergarten. Because of my parents' work, I am sent to school in advance every day. When I got to school, my teacher was busy cleaning and preparing breakfast, so I didn't have much time to take care of me. So he turned on the tape recorder to let me listen to the story, and most of the story was the content of a course we studied-graded reading, so that when I formally studied this part, the story had been memorized by me. When the teacher asked me to follow the instructions in class, I could read independently and completely without knowing the words, which naturally won the teacher's praise. Because my mother's praise makes me like reading more.
In the study of graded reading, I unconsciously know many common words. Perhaps it is for this reason that I prefer reading. Every time I go to the sugar and liquor supermarket to buy something, I like to read by the bookshelf. Once upon a time, my mother would take me to the bookshelves of bookstores or shopping malls to read books every weekend. My mother also selectively bought some books suitable for me to read. The books I read before I went to primary school included Little Melon in Grade One, Little Doudou in Grade One, Little Flower in Grade One and so on. From these books, I saw the richness of primary school life, and I was full of expectations for going to primary school, which also made me adapt to primary school life in the shortest time. I think it is a happy thing to go to school with my schoolbag on my back every day.
By chance, my mother put a story The Journey to the West told by Grandpa Sun Jingxiu on the computer. I liked it at once. Listen to a storytelling before going to bed every night, and listen to it for a hundred times. Then I took the children's version of The Journey to the West off the shelf and began to read it. Every time I watch it, I am very involved. Sometimes you don't make a sound for more than an hour. When I see interesting places, I will tell my parents during the exchange time. Up to now, I have finished reading many famous works such as The Journey to the West, Romance of the Three Kingdoms (children's edition) and A Dream of Red Mansions.
I will keep reading every day!