It is often said that the purest friendship in the world exists only in childhood. This is an extremely sad sentence, and so many people agree. It is conceivable that life is lonely and difficult.
I disagree with this sentence. Childhood friendship is just a pleasant joke, and what adults add by memory is very unreal. The true meaning of friendship comes from adulthood, and it is impossible to reach the best state before it is meaningful.
In fact, many people suddenly find themselves growing up in the sudden change of friendship and feelings. As if it were noon or evening, the difficulties encountered by a good classmate made you feel an unshirkable responsibility. You slow down and begin to understand the weight of life. At this moment, you suddenly grow up.
My mutation happened at the age of ten. From my hometown to Shanghai middle school, facing a strange city, I only have friends in the countryside, but I can't find them. One day I went to a small bookstall to read comic books and happened to see this one.
My whole body seemed to be covered by a strange spell, and I tossed and turned. Until dusk, the old man in charge of the book stand patted me on the shoulder with his finger and said that he would go home for dinner. I closed the book and put it in his hand respectfully.
Source: About Friendship by modern writer Yu.
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Creative background:
Before engaging in prose creation, Mr. Yu was already a great scholar who studied Chinese and western literature. All kinds of ideas that can be expressed clearly in academic ways have long been made clear in millions of academic works.
Therefore, his prose presents a style that academic works can't, which is what Mr. Bai Xianyong praised him: "Think about the world poetically." The poetic soul contained in his works is "to provide a beautiful ceremony for a series of spiritual paradoxes".
Mr. Yu had a profound life experience before he was engaged in prose creation. He was born in a village with rich culture. After ten years of catastrophe, he was elected as the president of a bureau-level university. He also felt the boundless mood before and after his resignation, and even traveled all over China and the world. Together, he knows where China's acupoints are.
Therefore, the writing topic he chose can always shake the hearts of millions of readers in the first time. Even if we talk about history and study, there is no psychological obstacle. This is very different from the essays of celebrities, salons, petty bourgeoisie, literature and art, and cynics.
The article About Friendship is based on the author's own experience of friendship. Combined with the reality, I wrote this article "About Friendship".
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