There are opportunities, but they are more powerful. If Sima Jia is compared to a wolf, Sima Yi is a wolf.
Sima Yi has two classic words about being a man and doing things. Uncle Ha will share it with you today.
Along the way, no enemies.
Sima Yi is characterized by forbearance, or he is shrewd and can pretend, whatever you say, but he is a person that ordinary people can't guess.
Anyone who has seen the military alliance should know that Yang Xiu is Sima Yi's sworn enemy, one belongs to Cao Zhi School and the other supports Xelloss.
Yang Xiu tried to kill Sima Yi many times, but after Yang Xiu was beheaded by Cao Cao because of the chicken ribs incident, Sima Yi asked Cao Cao to visit Yang Xiu.
Cao Cao asked him why he wanted to see Yang Xiu.
Sima Yi said that I had no enemies along the way, and all I saw were friends and teachers.
That is to say, I Sima Yi won't dispute with Yang Xiu. Although he wants to mess with me, I won't treat him as an enemy.
After hearing this, Cao Cao had a heartfelt love and appreciation for Sima Yi.
Sima Yi's opponent in the early stage was mainly Yang Xiu, and he had several confrontations with Zhuge Liang in the later stage. Sima Yi has great respect for Zhuge Liang.
Zhuge Liang died in Wuzhangyuan, cheated Sima Yi, and Shu Han's army retreated. Sima Yi came to the camp where Zhuge Liang died of illness and worshipped Zhuge Liang with water instead of wine. He said that unless you are indifferent to your ambition, you will never be far away unless you are quiet. Your life is like this water, clear and white. Although you and I have been enemies for six years, I have always regarded you as my bosom friend. Kong Ming, let me respect you, sir
There is another story. I found that Sima Yi especially likes to say goodbye to dying people.
Cao Rui has a Toy Boy named to ward off evil spirits. Cao Rui was imprisoned after his death, and Sima Yi was the only one who went to see him.
The evil spirit didn't bother Sima Yi less when he was in power, but Sima Yi brought him a dress when he was in prison, which saved his last dignity.
Being a man and doing things, leaving room, and maintaining respect and awe for opponents and enemies is Sima Yi's philosophy of wandering in the workplace.
There is an old saying, thank those who bring you suffering, because it will make people stronger.
There is no shame in losing twice, and losing without hurting.
The success of Sima family has something to do with the short life of Cao Shi family. Xelloss is actually excellent, but he is short-lived, and so is Cao Rui, Xelloss's successor, who didn't live long enough. But it is undeniable that Sima Yi's son is also excellent, which is related to Sima Yi's education. Sima Yi instilled in them the idea: Don't refuse to fail, but learn from it. Wei lost to Zhuge Liang in Gansu and was robbed of wheat. The soldiers were very dissatisfied. Obviously, Wei Jun's strength is several times that of the Shu army, and even lost to Zhuge Liang. Sima Yi's two sons couldn't sit still, so they went to their father. When they arrived at Sima Yi's tent, they found Sima Yi and the housekeeper Hou Ji playing a game of five birds calmly. Sima Yi said that in a war, the first thing to learn is to be good at losing, to lose without shame, and to lose without injury, so as to have the last laugh.
In fact, it is what we call adversity quotient today.
There are bound to be many failures in one's life. In the face of setbacks and adversity, we should face them with a healthy attitude and be more patient.
Sima Yi won many battles and suffered many defeats in his life, but in the end he was a big winner in life. Life is like this. Failure for such a long time means nothing, so don't give up on yourself too early.
I often hear readers say that I am thirty years old, and this is my life. I didn't get there until I was 30. There is plenty of time and opportunity. Why do you have to draw a conclusion for yourself early?
A person's adversity quotient is sometimes more important than emotional intelligence. Emotional quotient determines how high a person can stand, while adversity quotient determines whether you can stand up again when you fall from a height to the bottom.