Theme class meeting about puppy love Theme class meeting about puppy love 1
Time:
Evening class on April 11, 20xx.
Location:
Classroom of Grade 1 (3).
Participants:
All the first and third classes of senior high school.
Moderator:
Head teacher.
Steps and content:
1. Start with some cases of serious consequences of early love and introduce them into class meetings.
1. A fifteen-year-old girl from Sichuan, talk about His love was discovered by his grandmother, and he was afraid that she would complain, so he brutally killed her.
2. According to statistics from a hospital in Jinan, there are about 2,000 students (mostly people carrying backpacks) who go to the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital every year.
3. Two boys in a certain school drew knives on each other because they were pursuing the same girl, and one of them died.
4. On January 6, 20xx, a boy from grade 20xx of Licheng No. 4 Middle School poisoned rice-treasure porridge in the school cafeteria with rat poison due to a broken relationship, resulting in the death of three people and hospitalization of many others.
2. Distinguish between normal interactions between the opposite sex and abnormal interactions between the opposite sex
1. Normal interactions between the opposite sex
With classmates of the opposite sex Dating does not mean falling in love early. When teenagers enter adolescence, due to the rapid changes in physical and psychological development, their moods are prone to fluctuations, their mobility is enhanced, their independent personality requirements are increased, and they are willing to associate with the opposite sex. These are normal phenomena and are not "love". ".
From a psychological point of view, normal social activities between male and female students are beneficial and harmless.
Boys tend to be stronger, braver, not afraid of difficulties, and more independent;
While girls are more delicate, gentle, rigorous, and resilient;
< p> Because of men, women become more gentle; because of women, men become stronger.Normal interactions between male and female students can promote complementarity between both parties, which is beneficial to character development and intellectual development;
Both and female students entering adolescence hope that they can become people who are noticed and welcomed by the opposite sex. , for this reason, they will try their best to change and improve themselves. This is also the best psychological environment for self-development, self-evaluation, and self-improvement. It is a good opportunity to overcome their own shortcomings and weaknesses.
2. Abnormal interactions between the opposite sex
During adolescence, having a liking for the opposite sex is actually a very natural and normal thing, but it is also a happy and normal thing. Worrying things.
So how should we deal with troubles?
What is puppy love? ”
Puppy love is a bitter pill wrapped in sugar.
Characteristics of puppy love:
① Can’t tell the difference between “love” and “good impression”.
② Not recognizing the difference between love and friendship.
③ Puppy love is blind.
④ Puppy love is hidden.
⑤ Puppy love is exciting and impulsive.
⑥ Too beautifying and obsessed with each other.
⑦ Emotions are changeable, inseparable and moody.
3. Problem discussion:
Question 1: What should you do when you receive "admiration" from others?
1. Treat it correctly;
2. Solve it properly? .
Question 2: What should I do if the other party is not interested in me and pursues me hard?
1. When writing and talking, you should have a clear and firm attitude, pay attention to the occasion, and pay attention to your tone. < /p>
2. Ask teachers, parents, and friends for help to get out of trouble.
Question 3: What are the principles of intimacy between boys and girls during the rainy season?
First, communicate at an equal distance.
Second, communicate calmly.
Third, communicate openly.
Question 4: What should we do in communication. What should you pay attention to?
1. Don’t be too formal;
2. Keep a certain distance, especially psychological distance
3. Be polite and generous;
4. Be elegant and dignified, self-respecting and self-respecting;
5. Do not hurt the other person’s self-esteem;
6. Do not show off yourself and make people annoying;
7. Not too serious, not too frivolous;
8. Respect national traditions and local customs. Class meeting on puppy love 2
Teaching purpose:
1. Make students fully aware of the dangers of early love and establish a correct view of love.
2. Guide students to turn admiration into pure friendship, form a healthy concept of opposite-sex interactions, and use the opposite-sex effect to continue. Perfect and improve yourself, and go through adolescence smoothly.
Class meeting preparation:
1. Check out information about the physical and psychological development characteristics of adolescent students and how to maintain personal mental health.
2. Check the information to understand the impact of puppy love on middle school students. Puppy Love Theme Class Meeting 3. Prepare for the performance of the stage play.
Activity format:
Class discussion, role play, poetry appreciation, etc.
Moderator: monitor and study committee member
Activity process:
1. Appreciate the stage performance.
Moderator 1: Students, we are at the peak stage of puberty. Due to the rapid development of body and mind, some students are not able to correctly view the development of their own sexual characteristics, and the following phenomena occur. Please enjoy the performance:
A. Two boys walked into the classroom and saw Xiaocai (male) and Xiaofan (female) in the same class discussing their homework face to face. They immediately ran out of the classroom and left the classroom. The other three boys gathered together and shouted to the classroom: Come and see these young couple. Xiaocai and Xiaofan separated quickly after hearing this
B. Xiaojian (male) walked to Xiaojing (female) and quietly gave Xiaojing a note. The note said: Tonight at 7 : Let’s go watch a movie together at 30 minutes? Xiaojing was at a loss after receiving the note
C. Xiaoming (male) and Xiaoyao (female) are classmates, because they both live in the same school. They often went home together after school, and then gradually developed into often going out alone together, such as watching movies, roller skating, etc., their grades began to plummet, and the two of them fell into emotional troubles
2. Communicate in class and talk about feelings.
Moderator 2: Ask the students to talk about their feelings about the above performance phenomenon.
After the students express their feelings, make a summary:?
1. The interaction between male and female students helps the class unite, learn from each other, and learn from each other’s strengths. Therefore, Students should learn to communicate honestly and openly with the opposite sex. Students should respect each other and not make false claims or spread rumors.
2. When men and women interact, they should be enthusiastic but not frivolous, generous and measured, and pay attention to civility and courtesy. , pay attention to appearance and conversation. The main form of communication is group activities. In individual interactions, attention should be paid to the choice of time, place, and occasion, and too many individual interactions should be avoided
3. Male and female middle school students are minors, and their understanding of emotions is not yet complete. Immaturity, if not handled properly, will be detrimental to both others and yourself. Therefore, when you find that your emotions have fluctuated due to someone, you must use perseverance to control yourself, and you must be upright, steady, self-respecting and self-loving in your behavior. If you really can't Control yourself and seek help from parents or teachers you trust in a timely manner
3. Appreciate poetry recitation.
Moderator 1: We like to use the flowering season and the rainy season to describe this age stage. During this period, both male and female students have undergone physical and psychological changes, which has caused curiosity and good feelings for each other, and they can't help but contact each other. The opposite sex, understanding the opposite sex, or wanting to please the opposite sex in order to gain the other's favor, or they may attract each other, admire each other, and develop feelings of love. This is a normal psychological phenomenon, but this is immature, simple and childish admiration. Love is not real love. It is like the unpredictable clouds in the sky. Just like what is described in Xu Zhimo's poem "Accidental", it will disappear in an instant. Please enjoy the poetry reading.
I am a cloud in the sky
Occasionally projected in the center of your waves
You don’t have to be surprised
And there is no need to be happy< /p>
Disappeared in the blink of an eye
4. Class discussion and discerning truth.
Moderator 2: High school is the golden period of life and a critical period to strive for dreams. Studying is our main task. We are not yet capable of taking on the responsibility of love. We should seize this wonderful time. It is wise to learn some knowledge and techniques and continuously enrich and improve yourself. Then, let’s discuss in groups based on the plot: the pros and cons of high school students’ love.
Make a summary based on the discussion results of the student representatives of each group and list them in a table on the blackboard:
Concentrate on your studies and strive for your ideals.
5. Listen to the report on data collection to further clarify the dangers of puppy love.
Students report on the information collection situation and read it aloud to their classmates.
A summary of the dangers of puppy love include the following aspects:
1. It distracts energy, affects learning, and is not conducive to the growth of teenagers. For example, a 17-year-old girl in a school just entered When he was in school, he had excellent grades. He fell in love with a male classmate in the same class and soon fell in love.
2. The beginning of his life as a criminal. Li, a 19-year-old student from a certain school, has excellent academic performance and is fully confident of being admitted to a key undergraduate university. But he accidentally read a pornographic tabloid, and ended up tossing and turning all night. The next day, he set his sights on a female classmate in the same class and soon talked with her.
3. The root cause of family disputes. Puppy love often fails to obtain the consent of both families, and even if it succeeds, it is difficult to achieve family harmony.
6. Message from the head teacher:
My classmates, life is precious to everyone, and the golden age of life should be cherished even more. This period of time is like a bright spring. If you sow ideals and shed sweat, you will be rewarded in the future; if you indulge in fantasy and pick and taste the immature green apples early, the future will only be an empty sorrow. Because your experience is too shallow, it is easy to interpret a physical or emotional impulse as love. If the relationship is unstable, how can it be eternal? If the career is not stable, how can it be achieved? If the economy is not yet independent, how can it be guaranteed? If the responsibility cannot be shouldered, how can love be achieved? A high-rise building built on the sand dunes will never be solid. As high school students, you are shouldering the expectations of your family. This is the best time to realize your dreams. I hope you will cherish this golden period, concentrate on your life, and strive for your dreams!
Extended reading Regarding the issue of early love among modern middle school students
The love among modern middle school students has always been a controversial topic. According to statistics, most people have a negative attitude towards the love of modern middle school students. Today I will stand in the position of a middle school student and talk about my views.
Someone told me that the love of modern middle school students can be described in one word - stupid. Nowadays, the age of puppy love is getting younger and younger. I always remember attending my sister’s wedding. When I was doing my makeup backstage, I heard something from my sister who was doing my makeup. She is a kindergarten teacher. There is a girl in her class who particularly likes a little boy in the next class. After having sex once, the little girl and the boy passed each other in the corridor. When the boy passed by, the little girl said something to her: "My heart is broken." She was completely shocked at that time. . I think, not only her, but everyone who was listening to her at the time was shocked, including me.
Although middle school students are older than them, they are still young after all. How can they understand what love is? I have always compared modern middle school students to flowers in a greenhouse. They have never experienced the test of society, do not understand the hardships of life, and do not understand what true love is? The whole person's mind is immature. Do you think that a few words of concern and a few sweet words are love? Too childish. So, what about your parents? They love you more, take care of you more, and are more considerate. Why do you have time to talk sweetly to someone who may break up with you at any time, but don’t say a word to your parents? Now that you are growing up and your parents are getting older, you don’t have much time together. Why don’t you love your parents well? Even if there are conflicts and gaps between you, please see clearly that only your father is the man who loves you most in the world, and only your mother is the woman who loves you most in the world.
The main task of middle school students now is to study, and love will take up most of their time, thus leading to a decline in academic performance. According to statistics, most of the love relationships among modern middle school students end in breakups. After a breakup, many students are immersed in lovelorn relationships and lose interest in learning. Some students feel that after falling out of love, the world seems to have no meaning. Let me ask, how much have you experienced? In this society, there are too many difficulties that are more devastating than breakup. No one can continue to live without leaving. It's better to turn your attention to other things. There are too many things in life that you need to accomplish. I believe everyone has watched the talent show, 16-year-old Lu Yulong. His dream is to realize wireless power transmission on a global scale, and he is constantly working hard to realize his ideal. May I ask, as young passers-by, what is our ideal and what are we doing? Dressing, playing online games, falling in love, chatting...it's too out.
In my opinion, most of the love among modern middle school students is only at the level of appreciation. Many times, it is just an appreciation of the opposite sex, and students mistakenly think it is a kind of love. I have a friend who graduated and went to another city to study and met a better boy. He told me that he liked him very much. So I suggested that he break up with his boyfriend and calm down for a while about the one he likes now, because he will fall in love with someone else who is better, which means that she does not really love her boyfriend, but just appreciates her. Maybe it's just a good impression towards what I like now. He doesn't really understand the definition of love, and he doesn't deserve it. Maybe many years later, when I look back at the love during this period, I will find it ridiculous.
Writing so much does not mean that I completely deny the love of modern middle school students. Let's look at it from another perspective.
Being with the right person can help you grow up faster. The right here refers to someone who is older than you in your heart. Being older in age is useless.
Some people say that the love of middle school students is the purest, without the worldly vision of society, money, family background, etc.
And the love of modern middle school students does not necessarily affect their studies. I have heard a story that the boy was better in science and the girl was better in liberal arts. The two learned from each other's strengths and were admitted to the ideal school together. Sometimes breaking up isn't necessarily a bad thing. I have a friend who went to another school after breaking up with his girlfriend. It was very painful at first, but later he learned to use studying to fill the time of missing him, and his grades got better and better. When I asked him later, he said that yes, he loved her very much, but he hoped he could be happy even more. And, I'm doing fine now. I thank him for teaching me to pursue my ideals.
The love of modern middle school students has advantages and disadvantages. When the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, I support it. When the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, please let it go decisively. Editor's comments Generally speaking, early love among middle school students does more harm than good, and it affects their studies. The probability of success is very small.