There is not much difference between us. Some people just drink and don't propose a toast. In the words of Lao Wang's hometown, such people don't eat an onion with others!
There will be drinks on the wine table, but the amount of alcohol is not large, so we can't propose a toast one by one. The minimum respect for everyone here is: don't be massive, take a glass of wine and propose a toast to everyone. After drinking, according to the situation, you can raise a glass with * * * as appropriate.
You can't toast one by one, but at least be a shouting "wine commander" at the right time to show courtesy and respect to everyone. Of course, everyone is familiar with it, especially those who meet all day. Familiar people can be familiar with it without clinking glasses.
Who are the people who don't propose a toast on the wine table?
It often happens when colleagues in enterprises and institutions have dinner. Some people don't propose a toast when they drink. He wouldn't even lift his hand when someone poured him wine. Someone pours it, and he drinks it himself. Others smile, don't laugh, and don't talk much. Even took out a cigarette, took out a lighter, lit a fire, and spit out the fog.
When someone asks him to propose a toast, he may hold it up, not touching the glass at all, and not slightly lower than others. So what do such people think?
Is this person not stained with mud, unwilling to follow the crowd, lead an honest and clean life, and not associate with the public? The whole world is muddy and I am alone. You drink yours, I drink mine, and the inner activity is to despise everyone, not to be excused? Or focus on making a fortune?
Actually, there is nothing to doubt. People who don't toast are either arrogant, have no tutor, or are so arrogant that they lack self-confidence, which is also a kind of inferiority!
What is socialization? This drinking occasion is social, and people are social animals. No one can escape the customs. Politeness in society is the minimum respect for each other. As the saying goes, big hooligans should be polite when they meet people.
People who don't toast are actually immersed in themselves, not lofty, mostly arrogant and lacking in self-confidence, but they look stubborn on the outside!
If you are timid and don't have the courage to propose a toast to the opposite person, then you can bring the glass to the people on the left and right nearby. This is not breaking the ice, but some people will sit firmly on the Diaoyutai, as if the spring breeze is blowing their faces, standing still and pouring their own wine.
In short, a person who holds the highest position on the wine table and controls the interests of others in the place, commonly known as the boss, can't make a toast, because the identity is there! Others and so on. Need a toast or mutual respect. They can't do it when they should. They won't get stage fright. A drinker who doesn't propose a toast is just like a smoker who doesn't rub fireworks at others. No matter how rich the inner activities of the parties are, others can only think that this person is more forced!
Hello everyone! Why do some people never propose a toast on the wine table? There are few such friends, but it depends. Some people never touch alcohol, and some people simply don't drink because they have a small amount of alcohol. Young people nowadays drink more casually. When they eat and drink together, they all raise their glasses and drink more. They can't drink less or not, and they are never advised to enjoy themselves. It's actually a good habit.
Speaking of toast on the wine table, it's much better now. I am born after 80. When we were young, our elders, especially grandpa, were too particular about drinking on the wine table. You are afraid to eat at the same table with them without any alcohol. You didn't go back to your hometown to visit your parents and elders during the Spring Festival. There are too many rules for toasting together. First of all, yes people try everything and give back. This comes down to 6544. This is just the beginning, because there are about 10 people on the table, so you should start with the oldest guest of this generation. You can count how many cups are left in this circle, which is in the middle of this dinner. Because these elders are very particular about the wine in return, some younger generations simply say that they can't drink it. They just drink tea instead of wine to their elders, and they dare not drink it without toasting.
Drinking and toasting is good for me. Politeness is good for me. Try not to persuade wine, be casual.
People who never make a toast on the wine table do exist, and they belong to a class of birds. This kind of person never toasts on the wine table. There are only two situations: first, this person thinks highly of himself and is too arrogant to propose a toast to the people at the same table. Second, this person is too withdrawn to respect others. In short, no matter what happens to people who don't toast, this practice is wrong. Such people don't know that only by respecting others can they be respected, and those who don't know how to respect others can't make friends. How can a person do good in society without friends? So advise people who never make a toast on the wine table to change this practice for yourself.
I have met many people of this type, so I don't have much space to get to know them in depth. Let's talk about it, which can be summarized as follows:
1, the best at the table. People who sit at the top of the table like Gong Ming's brothers have no requirements on the wine table, so naturally they won't propose a toast.
2. People who are proud of their talents. Arrogant and indifferent, nostrils facing the sky, overlooking all beings on the wine table, smiling and looking around. Of course, this is a qualification with strength and capital.
3, ignorance of the world, ignorance. Fight left and right to sweep the food in front of you and drink the drinks of people around you. Time and routines will change such people.
4, not good at words, three sticks can't make a fart. If you want to kill a thief, there is no way. There is no way to propose a toast. Learning and exercise will change such people.
6. You can drink and talk, but you just don't drink. If there is something wrong with one of the four elements of people, land, environment and time, there will be no mood and motivation to drink. As the saying goes, "a friend has a thousand glasses of wine, and a lover has half a sentence." This is the kind of person.
7. Other special reasons. For example, getting sick, having a car to drive, having something to do and so on.
To sum up, only by knowing ourselves and ourselves can we be invincible.
Oh, please, I typed so many words. By the way, I am a category 6 person.
All by hand, do not copy or paste! Are you satisfied with my answer?
Hello, I'm Xiao Lei of high quality.
I just like drinking, and I have a certain understanding of wine culture. Here I will analyze the problem of the landlord. The reason for this is the following：
1 Not good at drinking. This kind of person has self-knowledge, knowing that he can't drink well, and he will fall down after a few drinks, so he won't be stupid enough to make a toast, because there are many people together when drinking, so he can't help but respect others, not just one person, and not to make a toast. You are probably already flustered, so why bother!
A teetotaler. This kind of person has a bottom line. Don't drink, don't drink. Then some people may ask, why not go to the wine table if you don't drink? There may be some parties that you have to attend, so forget it if you don't drink at all.
3 introverted people. Such people are introverted, don't like to express themselves actively, are shy in front of people and dare not speak. They think that taking the initiative to propose a toast is too ostentatious and will become the focus. A group of people will stare at themselves, blush and feel uncomfortable. Although they know in their hearts that toasting is a good thing, they just can't convince themselves, indicating that they are too thin-skinned to let go of themselves.
4 silly people. This kind of person is not scheming, honest, not good at making relationships with people, and doesn't like people who take the initiative to propose a toast. They think that people who take the initiative to propose a toast are flattering others and don't understand complicated social relations. They will only live and do things according to their own understanding, and will not listen to advice. Generally, such people are stupid and have low emotional intelligence.
5 I feel that I am very powerful, and others should propose a toast to myself. This kind of people generally have a skill and are more talented. They feel inferior to themselves on the wine table. Why do you propose a toast to them? I hope others can be destined to respect myself, so I have been waiting for others to take the initiative to find myself during drinking!
China's wine culture is a university question. When you respect others, you respect others, and others can feel it. But there must be a scale for toasting, and you can't deliberately pour wine for each other in the name of toasting. This is a bad habit and should be eliminated!
I hardly propose a toast. The reason is simple: I can't drink. Once a toast is made, everyone at the table should respect it, and others should return it, and so on.
Some people say that if you don't drink, you can use drinks instead. At least be polite. If they are all young people, people who can't drink won't care at all. If you can drink, you will disdain to respect others with drinks. On the surface, you won't say anything, but you are probably whispering in your heart and won't drink anything.
If there are elders, it is even more difficult. Older people can drink, and almost all people who have passed the alcohol test will also persuade them to drink. Can't drink? A drink is always necessary, isn't it? What, you drink with this uncle, but not with my uncle? There is no such thing as politeness, do you understand? As a result, they were drunk, and then it dawned on them that they really couldn't drink.
So after a long time, everyone knows that I don't drink and rarely advise. Not to mention persuading people to drink. For people who can't drink, toasting is also an embarrassing thing.
If you really know how to drink, you won't be sensible without a toast. China, after all, is a human society, so it should be a bit sophisticated to leave a good impression on others. It is normal that you may have a high position or a high qualification and will not take the initiative to propose a toast.
I have participated in various wine bureaus, not to say that leaders don't toast or rich people don't toast. First of all, China has a wine culture, and a person's ability and level can be better seen on the wine table. The so-called "drinking depends on character." No toast on the wine table is nothing more than: first, people can't drink at all. They join this wine bureau not for drinking but for communication. Second, you can drink alcohol for physical reasons, such as taking cephalosporins and taking antibiotics. Third, drive to the liquor store. Fourth, I have no experience in wine industry, and I am new here. Five, self-sustaining lofty, "open the door on the roof, dig a well in a fire pit", not interacting with anyone. A wine bureau with the status of leading the rich will naturally not be respected by others first, and no one will propose a toast at all. Find some reasons to drink less and express them. But in the end, people will also propose a toast to everyone, sometimes one by one, and sometimes they will drink more than the whole table. The more leaders, rich people and people with status, the higher the quality on the wine table, the more appropriate the toast, and fully show their cultural accomplishment and the way to treat others. On the contrary, the more dissatisfied a bottle is, the worse it is. In addition, there are very few wine-making in wine bureaus now, which are all symbolic expressions, mostly based on communication, and toasting is just a way of communication. Many people don't necessarily let everyone drink heartily. Three or five people had a good time in the restaurant, and the atmosphere was strong. This is mainly drinking, and several people can talk to each other and get drunk.
There is no need to guess too much. The wine culture in the Central Plains is rich, and there are relatively few people drinking in Guangdong, southwestern Guangxi and Hainan. Of course, there are still some entertainment wine bureaus, especially those running businesses all over the country. People who don't drink often don't know the table manners, but there is tea culture in hot spots. On the contrary, many northerners don't know the tea ceremony. Every household in Guangdong has tea sets. When guests enter the door, please ask for tea first and pay attention to your hands. According to legend, when Emperor Qianlong went down to the south of the Yangtze River to collect tea for the ministers around him, he knelt down to thank the emperor for his kindness. However, Emperor Qianlong had to hide his identity when he was traveling incognito. So ministers kowtowed with their fingers instead of their knees. Lingnan cultural tradition is extensive and profound. Don't judge the attitude of some people who don't belong to your group with your own eyes. In fact, it is only cultural differences and the training of some young people is not in place.
Don't be angry, be happy! Wine culture began a long time ago. In the past, some literati got together to write poems and express their feelings while drinking. It used to be mostly grain wine, which didn't do much harm to the liver. Reading poetry while drinking will do little harm to the liver. But now drinking has completely changed its taste, so different people have different opinions. If you don't drink, you have no right to propose a toast.